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To think we shouldn't be funding this on the NHS?

571 replies

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:29

I recently had my first stay in hospital due to a respiratory issue and I kid you not, every other person in the bay smoked+had a smoking related disease.

I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals but it really hit me how much gets spent on completely self inflicted stuff. AIBU to think we shouldn't be funding stuff like this?

OP posts:
SerendipityJane · 28/12/2024 11:48

Smoking is a bad choice for everyone.

Not if you grow tobacco or make cigarettes ...

SerendipityJane · 28/12/2024 11:48

Hwi · 28/12/2024 11:47

Nonsense

Edited

Maybe just don't have new arrivals ?

Veronay · 28/12/2024 11:49

What about the many doctors and other hospital staff who smoke? Should they not be allowed to use the services they work in? 😂 I'm not a fan of smoking but you are being massively U to suggest a 2 tier system.

samarrange · 28/12/2024 11:49

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

>>where a good percentage of my pay check is going
A good percentage of your what? Your "pay check"? Does anyone here get a "pay check"?

>>I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals
Did you by any chance grow up in a country where people are afraid of <shudders> socialised medicine and "death panels"? Might this perhaps be colouring your attitude to non-judgemental universal treatment?

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 11:49

ButterCrackers · 28/12/2024 11:37

Smoking is always supported by saying societal inequalities- but yet low income people put smoking before their kids health. Anyone now who smokes is stupid because the effects are known about. It’s a choice. Nicotine addiction can be treated now without secondhand smoke injury to others and without funding the tobacco industry.

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You don’t seem to understand how social inequalities work. Many chronic, life time smokers are now elderly and research shows that smoking and childhood adversity and poverty are linked. Often people started smoking very very young as a way of coping with traumatic life experiences and not having any other coping resources available. It becomes a habit, a comfort, perhaps the only thing that is comforting. It was also totally normalised back then. The reasons why younger people smoke are also more complex than just deliberately doing something ‘stupid’. Again it often comes down to a way of regulating stress, of living in poverty where there’s less opportunity for healthier coping mechanisms - that tend to cost money. As a psychologist I have also worked with many people who view smoking as deliberate self harm - a way of wanting to prematurely end their lives but in a less obvious (or foolproof) way than other methods.

I think all addiction should be viewed through a lens of compassion, not judgement. Think yourself lucky that you have not personally experienced it and been afforded more privileges in life than those you denigrate.

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 11:52

Beekeepingmum · 28/12/2024 11:46

Smoking is a bad choice for everyone. There needs to be more social stigma to it to change behaviour. Just like drinking when pregnant has a high level of stigma to it - and very few people do it. I think the same needs to apply to taking drugs and etc. I think the world would be better if people didn't smoke. You clearly think differently I'm not sure we will agree on that.

I don’t believe shaming people and increasing stigma is a solution, no. I believe the solution lies in eradicating the health and social inequalities that are strongly linked to addictive behaviours.

NewZealandintherain · 28/12/2024 11:52

These people have probably given up hope. Sad.

Would you allow free treatment for those that used to smoke but have now given up and have COPD?

SerendipityJane · 28/12/2024 11:52

A good percentage of your what? Your "pay check"? Does anyone here get a "pay check"?

They will learn. But at the moment bots have a terrible US-centric slant. It's debatable whether it can ever be trained out of them. Work continues.

Faeriewell · 28/12/2024 11:52

Colon cancer can be caused by a poor diet. Throat cancer can be caused by oral sex. Should we leave people who don't manage their diabetes and need amputations to sort themselves out?

There's better things the NHS should stop funding!

FreedFromDesireMindAndSensesPurified · 28/12/2024 11:54

samarrange · 28/12/2024 11:49

>>where a good percentage of my pay check is going
A good percentage of your what? Your "pay check"? Does anyone here get a "pay check"?

>>I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals
Did you by any chance grow up in a country where people are afraid of <shudders> socialised medicine and "death panels"? Might this perhaps be colouring your attitude to non-judgemental universal treatment?

Edited

Excellent points!

Purgepossessions2025 · 28/12/2024 11:55

Plane is hurtling towards the ground. You can either start smoking or parachute out. You’ve never done either. Which ever one you pick will save the plane from crashing. Which one would you choose?

Healthy living is not always the choice those with health privilege make it out to be!

It is much more complicated than just saying it is their choice.

LittleBitAlexisLaLaLaLaLa · 28/12/2024 11:56

Smoking is incredibly addictive and it’s even harder to quit when you’re very ill I would have thought.

It’s not for the NHS to make a moral judgement about whether someone is deserving of treatment- if the NHS offer a treatment say, dialysis, it should be for everyone who medically qualifies for it.

Applesonthelawn · 28/12/2024 11:57

I view smoking related illness similarly to obesity. We should always fund the care. At the same time, every effort must be made to help people make the lifestyle changes necessary to avoid the risk, and that's complex but must be at the forefront of health policy.

Boohoo76 · 28/12/2024 11:58

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:40

Everyone else kept going outside to smoke and the diseases (lung cancer x2, lung infections related to COPD x3) were all smoking related. 2 people who could no longer walk got staff to wheel them out in a chair...

My mum had COPD. She met many at support groups who had never smoked. My mum was born with pneumonia, had a very severe case of Whooping cough as a child, grew up in a polluted inner city area with coal fires and an asbestos factory nearby. When she eventually moved out to the suburbs as an adult it happened to be an area with a very high incidence of asthma and other lung problems (suspect that the nearby breeze block factory impacted this). Her lungs had no fucking chance and by her 40’s she had 30% long function.. You are vile, denying someone like her medical treatment. Have you watched someone die of respiratory illness. Shall I describe it to you?

ButterCrackers · 28/12/2024 11:58

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 11:49

You don’t seem to understand how social inequalities work. Many chronic, life time smokers are now elderly and research shows that smoking and childhood adversity and poverty are linked. Often people started smoking very very young as a way of coping with traumatic life experiences and not having any other coping resources available. It becomes a habit, a comfort, perhaps the only thing that is comforting. It was also totally normalised back then. The reasons why younger people smoke are also more complex than just deliberately doing something ‘stupid’. Again it often comes down to a way of regulating stress, of living in poverty where there’s less opportunity for healthier coping mechanisms - that tend to cost money. As a psychologist I have also worked with many people who view smoking as deliberate self harm - a way of wanting to prematurely end their lives but in a less obvious (or foolproof) way than other methods.

I think all addiction should be viewed through a lens of compassion, not judgement. Think yourself lucky that you have not personally experienced it and been afforded more privileges in life than those you denigrate.

I came from a deprived childhood (worse than most) and guess what I have never smoked. I chose not too when offered a smoke. My parents decided to stop smoking when they decided to have kids. For all their faults they made this choice. The risks weren’t known then but they could see the harm smoking caused. Smoking has help now for the nicotine addiction. I don’t agree with the poor smokers, they have social inequalities because it’s a clear choice. The selfish smokers who inflict secondhand smoke injury on others are truly the worst. I always laugh at those here who try to make their point based on fake professional knowledge. You’re not a psychologist.

DeffoNeedANameChange · 28/12/2024 11:59

Better tell our local hospital to stop treating rugby injuries all afternoon on a Saturday then (it would certainly cut waiting times!)

Soiltypes · 28/12/2024 11:59

Treating smoking-related diseases places a significant financial burden on the NHS. However, others would argue / say that tobacco taxes already contribute substantial revenue to public coffers.

AffableApple · 28/12/2024 12:00

Huonneyywisshful · 28/12/2024 09:35

I’m very curious as to how you knew this information @AgileJadeDog .

I was recently admitted onto a respiratory ward with blood clots in both lungs. I have no idea whether anyone on the ward was a smoker.

This. I've never been provided with anyone else's medical records while in hospital, myself.

Applesonthelawn · 28/12/2024 12:01

I've been an overeater and a heavy smoker. I've had mental health issues. But I know first hand that you can give up a 20 year 30 a day habit from one day to the next, and that you can lose weight (I have the same weight and measurements as 50 years ago). So whilst I'm sympathetic and I know how complex it is, I also know that if you want to, you can.

Heaterthegammon · 28/12/2024 12:02

I understand your view but it’s complex.

Some people have hard lives and they abuse substances and unhealthy things to cope - does that mean these people deserve help less should they get ill?

Crazybaby123 · 28/12/2024 12:02

Smoking is oftrn started when people are too young to grasp the consequences or at a low point. It becomes a crux and an addiction. If you look at the tabacco companies they have traditionally lobbied the government, hidden medical research around the dangers and made a lot of money off of harming the general population. The addiction element means that many people can not give up easily or at all, despite trying. And despite all of this, cigarettes are still perfectly legal. To start smoking can be a choice made by young or vulnerable people, then they can't stop. I come from a family of smokers and my mum was able to give up easily, my dad still can't despite years of trying. I think it's only right the government fund treatment for smokers seeing as they havr spent so many years helping the tobacco companies to expand their empires and are only just now deciding to legislate more heavily against it.

Onthefenceaboutmarmite · 28/12/2024 12:03

jannier · 28/12/2024 09:36

The NHS shouldn't fund childbirth that's definitely self inflicted

Well not for the living human who is being born

DogInATent · 28/12/2024 12:03

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:37

If you're driving a car responsibly and crash or injure yourself playing tennis I think that should be covered. If it's an obesity related disease or something caused by extreme/obviously dangerous sports then I would be leaning towards the NHS not covering it.

I think my problem is that if my experience is typical it isn't a few people which are in hospital due to self inflicted stuff, it's the overwhelming majority.

Let me guess..

  • You consider yourself a responsible driver (amazing isn't it, no one ever considers themselves an average or below average driver - despite that statistically half of all drivers fall into this category).
  • You don't smoke.
  • You aren't obese.
  • You don't do 'extreme' sports, but you might do something 'normal' like tennis.
So 'self-inflicted' is basically for everyone else, but not you.
Heaterthegammon · 28/12/2024 12:03

Soiltypes · 28/12/2024 11:59

Treating smoking-related diseases places a significant financial burden on the NHS. However, others would argue / say that tobacco taxes already contribute substantial revenue to public coffers.

Same for alcohol!

DogInATent · 28/12/2024 12:05

Should midwifery services be provided free on the NHS? After all, it is a self-inflicted need.

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