Oh shit! Just realised why I cba with DH today

[Glass5lipper]

Have felt this real mood about DH all day, not wanting to be near him. I don't think he picked up on it as he hasn't said anything and Ive shook it off when he videocalled from the shop to see if i want anything . I've just had a long bath, waited upstairs while my DC had a bath and pottered about away from him as much as I can. One of those funks you know you have no reason to be in and now I remember. THE BASTARD.

DH returned home at around 9.30am this morning and had been out for hours but couldn't tell me where he had been. I knew he was lying so checked his phone, I'm more technological than him bit I woke up before I'd managed to restore his deleted messages and photos. Leaving TB!

Is there part of this missing?

Do you mean all the stuff in your last paragraph was a dream?

I used to dream arguments with my mother, and wake up out of sorts, and annoyed with her as if it had really happened.

I thought she was going to say she’d had a dream he’d done something but he hadn’t actually. Lol. But you are right. It makes absolutely no sense right now.

I think the OP had a bad dream and is mad at her husband because of it...

Er is their alcohol involved.

You discovered he is cheating but you forgot?

I get it. You were in a mood with him in a dream, knew you were in a mood with him but can’t remember why.

Sorry the "I woke up" line was supposed to infer that this was a dream...

It didn't! It really didn't! I thought you'd just forgotten you'd discovered your husbands affair this morning!!!

I’ve had similar before, I dream I had gone to bed with a work colleague that I don’t even vaguely fancy. I couldn’t look him eye the next day.

Imply.

I agree LTB now, if he can cheat in your dreams .......

Oh yes, Ive had dreams like that, I stay angry for ages .

Where does it say you woke up?

I sometime dream that dh has an affair and laughs at me when he tells me he is leaving. I fume silently at him for hours thinking "how could you do that to me and the kids!" It takes a hour or so to realise it wasn't real. Luckily he is at work

Oh I see it now

Ugh I hate those kind of dreams. I know it's unfair but it does make me grumpy with DH He's like 'What did dream me do this time?!'

😅LT(dream)B

Yeah I have those dreams every now and then. That he leaves me for another woman. I’ve told him in the morning. He says I’m to wake him up in the middle of the night so he can cuddle me and tell me it’s not true but 1) I’m too hurt in the night even though not true 😫and 2) I’m not sure he would actually take that kindly to me waking him up in the middle of the night 😂

The worst part of this post is him video calling you from the shop 🙄

Ah the old dream cheater! I have woken up to a dh giving me this look a few times . I know now that's when he's dreamed I cheated on him 😂. I never have irl fwiw. No idea why my dream counterpart is a terrible cheat

what about the dreams where something catastrophic happens to one of your children?

Those are truly awful and unsettling for ages.

Well if it's good enough for Dallas...😆

I once spent a whole night dreaming I was arguing with my DP. I didn't speak too him for two days afterwards because we fell out (in my dream) 😊