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Oh shit! Just realised why I cba with DH today

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Glass5lipper · 27/12/2024 18:29

Have felt this real mood about DH all day, not wanting to be near him. I don't think he picked up on it as he hasn't said anything and Ive shook it off when he videocalled from the shop to see if i want anything . I've just had a long bath, waited upstairs while my DC had a bath and pottered about away from him as much as I can. One of those funks you know you have no reason to be in and now I remember. THE BASTARD.

DH returned home at around 9.30am this morning and had been out for hours but couldn't tell me where he had been. I knew he was lying so checked his phone, I'm more technological than him bit I woke up before I'd managed to restore his deleted messages and photos. Leaving TB!

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Crumpleton · 27/12/2024 19:21

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CandyCane457 · 27/12/2024 19:21

Pandasnacks · 27/12/2024 19:01

Where does it say you woke up?

Second to last line in main post!

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 27/12/2024 19:21

Pandasnacks · 27/12/2024 19:01

Where does it say you woke up?

Here. I think the auto correct of but to bit didn’t help.

Oh shit! Just realised why I cba with DH today
ThatGreatMember · 27/12/2024 19:22

Well, that was 30 seconds of my life I won't get back.

Diva66 · 27/12/2024 19:24

Yea! I’ve done this, dreamt an argument and been in a bad mood all day 😂😂

chaosmaker · 27/12/2024 19:25

My dreams are far better and crazier :)

BobbyBiscuits · 27/12/2024 19:26

I have awful nightmares involving my DH sleeping with other women and me having to sleep with strangers. Sometimes my old work colleagues pop up. I'm always stealing clothes from a shopping centre as well for some reason. In my dream. But I thought you meant he was really cheating?

CrowleyKitten · 27/12/2024 19:27

doodleschnoodle · 27/12/2024 19:03

Ugh I hate those kind of dreams. I know it's unfair but it does make me grumpy with DH Grin He's like 'What did dream me do this time?!'

I once showed up at my parents, and immediately told my stepdad, he's already on thin ice, because he was really annoying in my dream that night, and I'm already irrationally annoyed with him. so to be on his best behaviour 😂

whatcanthematterbe81 · 27/12/2024 19:27

FreeMilkshakesForYou · 27/12/2024 19:15

Ah the old dream cheater! I have woken up to a dh giving me this look a few times Hmm. I know now that's when he's dreamed I cheated on him 😂. I never have irl fwiw. No idea why my dream counterpart is a terrible cheat

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My husband apologised when I told him in the morning that he had cheated on me in a dream. Bless him

Jennyathemall · 27/12/2024 19:29

Ok

FreeMilkshakesForYou · 27/12/2024 19:30

whatcanthematterbe81 · 27/12/2024 19:27

My husband apologised when I told him in the morning that he had cheated on me in a dream. Bless him

I think I've done the same although it clearly isn't my fault 😂. Just see his face and say sorry

Jennyathemall · 27/12/2024 19:30

ThatGreatMember · 27/12/2024 19:22

Well, that was 30 seconds of my life I won't get back.

Yeah exactly. Would only have been 15 sec if it was coherent.

Glass5lipper · 27/12/2024 19:38

Jennyathemall · 27/12/2024 19:30

Yeah exactly. Would only have been 15 sec if it was coherent.

And yet they didn't hesitate to waste more time posting about what a waste of time reading this post was...

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HeChokedOnAChorizo · 27/12/2024 19:53

I once had a dream that my DP was cheating on me, I woke up thinking “what a strange dream” then a few nights later I had the same dream again, this time I woke up and thought “hmmmmm” went digging and had my heart broken. He is now my EX.

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 27/12/2024 20:24

Glass5lipper · 27/12/2024 18:29

Have felt this real mood about DH all day, not wanting to be near him. I don't think he picked up on it as he hasn't said anything and Ive shook it off when he videocalled from the shop to see if i want anything . I've just had a long bath, waited upstairs while my DC had a bath and pottered about away from him as much as I can. One of those funks you know you have no reason to be in and now I remember. THE BASTARD.

DH returned home at around 9.30am this morning and had been out for hours but couldn't tell me where he had been. I knew he was lying so checked his phone, I'm more technological than him bit I woke up before I'd managed to restore his deleted messages and photos. Leaving TB!

Sorry, even having read your further replies, this makes absolutely no sense to me. Are you Patrick Duffy?

NeddieSeagoonsSteamPoweredTelephone · 27/12/2024 20:29

Are you Jacquie Goodman?

SunnyTealLeader · 27/12/2024 20:34

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2025willbemytime · 27/12/2024 20:44

This is has reminded me of when I woke up feeling off with dh all day as he'd cheated on me in my dream. He was not understanding and said he wasn't responsible for what happened in my dreams. Reader, I found out much later he was having an affair in real life but I'm sure it is just me. You're all ok!

Balloonhearts · 27/12/2024 21:11

OP you need to either lay off the gin or share it until until this makes sense to everyone. 😆

samarrange · 27/12/2024 21:28

This was literally a Mash Report sketch: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=587872092264396

KhakiOrca · 27/12/2024 21:37

Blimey I thought I was drunk 😁

MasterBeth · 27/12/2024 21:39

Glass5lipper · 27/12/2024 18:45

Sorry the "I woke up" line was supposed to infer that this was a dream...

Imply, not infer.

whatcanthematterbe81 · 29/12/2024 07:13

2025willbemytime · 27/12/2024 20:44

This is has reminded me of when I woke up feeling off with dh all day as he'd cheated on me in my dream. He was not understanding and said he wasn't responsible for what happened in my dreams. Reader, I found out much later he was having an affair in real life but I'm sure it is just me. You're all ok!

lol. Defo not just you but also defo not me. Sorry to hear that anyway

MereDintofPandiculation · 29/12/2024 22:05

ThatGreatMember · 27/12/2024 19:22

Well, that was 30 seconds of my life I won't get back.

I found it interesting how many people have argued in dreams and found it difficult to shake off the emotion once awake. It seems I'm normal.

MereDintofPandiculation · 29/12/2024 22:07

Jaichangecentfoisdenom · 27/12/2024 20:24

Sorry, even having read your further replies, this makes absolutely no sense to me. Are you Patrick Duffy?

The phrase "but I woke up before I'd managed to restore his deleted messages and photos" makes it clear that all this was happening before she woke up, ie in her dream.

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