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Most pointless Christmas gifts

123 replies

paperchainn · 25/12/2024 20:00

I'll go first...

Hat and glove set (haven't worn a hat or scarf since I was 10)🤣

Body lotion! Who actually bothers to apply that stuff😬

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fuzzychic · 25/12/2024 21:09

Bubble bath when I never have baths
Chocolates.. so many chocolates

RobbingBanks · 25/12/2024 21:10

A candle tin, but no candle in it.

stargazerlil · 25/12/2024 21:10

I didn’t get any presents. I do t give em and I don’t get em. Happy with the arrangement. I will be splurging on a new perfume for myself some point in the new year.

Afraidofhimrightnow · 25/12/2024 21:10

PoorUncleBarry · 25/12/2024 20:38

Am I the only person who loves toiletries at Christmas time? Shower gel/soap - I shower every day, they go in no time. Lotions and butters - I am diabetic and have dry skin so I use an absolute tonne of the stuff.

Same! I also love new gloves every few years too.

AlpacaMittens · 25/12/2024 21:11

99% of the Secret Santa stuff. Always something pointless like chocolate or a candle.

Anything bought with the purpose of "stocking filler". Just why? Pointless.

MereDintofPandiculation · 25/12/2024 21:11

paperchainn · 25/12/2024 20:34

See, I love shower gels because they will actually get used unlike the bottles of body lotion etc!

I'm in my 70s and body lotion will get used.

And my midwife cousin used to get through a lot too

Itsannamay · 25/12/2024 21:12

We should do a gift swap on here 😂

stargazerlil · 25/12/2024 21:12

ValleyClouds · 25/12/2024 20:31

Grey Cushion Covers

My current ones are a) colourful b) not worn out

I have little chance of charity shopping them because of who bought them!

You could cut them up and repurpose them as a present for the person who bought them next year, maybe a small drawstring bag or a peaked cap.

LushLemonTart · 25/12/2024 21:13

MildredTheOctopus · 25/12/2024 20:44

For me, it'd be the three bottles of alcohol, one from each member of my family. I'm an alcoholic, I've been in recovery for nearly two years and they're all very aware of it. Not a pointless gift for someone else, but a pretty bad one to receive personally.

I don't mind body lotion though, but I know I'm in the minority there! Anything that smells nice is always a winner with me.

That's appalling. Abusive in fact. I'd be NC with them.

ValleyClouds · 25/12/2024 21:13

I'm not that crafty! Good idea though!

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 25/12/2024 21:14

A really long zip that when zipped up became a bag. Really odd.

Dontsayyouloveme · 25/12/2024 21:15

A purple rucksack. From just recently exb. I have zero clue why.. I have a chronic back condition which he knew of, I dont go hiking etc, he knows I already have a lively gym bag. I have ZERO requirement for a rucksack! It’s either been bought for his daughter in the past or it’s a middle of Lidl aisle by the looks of it! Total and utter lack of thought on his part, I’m actually offended. However, it reaffirms my decision to ‘let him go’.

Pineapplewaves · 25/12/2024 21:17

DC got an M&S musical biscuit tin to share - the biscuits are easy, count them out and they get half each but they have been arguing all day about who gets the musical tin. I've declared it a Christmas decoration and said we'll just bring it out at Christmas and it can adorn the coffee table.

MildredTheOctopus · 25/12/2024 21:18

@HadEnoughOfThisPish @Devilsmommy @Orangebadger @ValleyClouds

Thank you all! I was doubting myself a little because they all seemed to think they were very 'normal' gifts, so it's really reassuring that other people think this was poor on their parts.
I'm trying to give them the benefit of the doubt and hope that they just think that because I've done so 'well' in not drinking, that now I can drink a little. This is probably my own fault for assuming that they understood that recovery is a life-long thing.
Either way, I'm very lucky to have some lovely neighbours who let me call in on my way home to drop them off.

@LushLemonTart That would be wonderful, but we all live in the same town so it's not really feasible, sadly. But, thank you for validating what I thought I was blowing out of proportion.

sunnydayhereandnow · 25/12/2024 21:20

I got an iTunes voucher for a really great album. Love it, but it's on Spotify (I have a subscription) so I'm kind of sorry that someone paid money for music that I have access to anyway. Really hoping it means the artist got a better cut as I love the music.

NunyaBeeswax · 25/12/2024 21:28

Dontsayyouloveme · 25/12/2024 21:15

A purple rucksack. From just recently exb. I have zero clue why.. I have a chronic back condition which he knew of, I dont go hiking etc, he knows I already have a lively gym bag. I have ZERO requirement for a rucksack! It’s either been bought for his daughter in the past or it’s a middle of Lidl aisle by the looks of it! Total and utter lack of thought on his part, I’m actually offended. However, it reaffirms my decision to ‘let him go’.

Get it on vinted.
Love a purple rucksack. 😁😁

I'm just going to search for "Unwanted Gift" 🤣🤣

Kenclucky · 25/12/2024 21:29

PoorUncleBarry · 25/12/2024 20:05

I've got a dirty necklace that the giver demanded I wear, they did give me an equally used and dirty box to put it in though.

Was it vintage? I like vintage jewellery better than new...

Dontsayyouloveme · 25/12/2024 21:31

NunyaBeeswax · 25/12/2024 21:28

Get it on vinted.
Love a purple rucksack. 😁😁

I'm just going to search for "Unwanted Gift" 🤣🤣

Sorry, but it went to the charity shop on Tuesday!! 😬🤣

ilovesooty · 25/12/2024 21:33

Tia86 · 25/12/2024 20:37

I am happy with shower gel as I would use that.
Candles are my pet hate. Never use them.

I agree there. I'd use shower gel but I hate candles. I won't have naked flames in the house at all.

NunyaBeeswax · 25/12/2024 21:36

Dontsayyouloveme · 25/12/2024 21:31

Sorry, but it went to the charity shop on Tuesday!! 😬🤣

Awww boo.. Christmas ruined. 🤪😁🤣

KnoblesseOblige · 25/12/2024 21:42

@MildredTheOctopus How strange, are they so disgustingly rude and spiteful usually?! I hope you can pour every drop of it down the sink, I'd be very proud of you if you can. You deserve better than their shenanigans. Please please don't let them slow down any progress you're making.

Youvebeenframed · 25/12/2024 21:48

User346897543 · 25/12/2024 20:17

A cliff richard autobiography and a copy of the New Testament

It could be argued that these are one and the same 😬🤓😂

thisoldcity · 25/12/2024 21:53

Slippers that you heat up in the microwave and weigh a ton (because they are full of gel).

Purplecatshopaholic · 25/12/2024 22:00

MildredTheOctopus · 25/12/2024 20:44

For me, it'd be the three bottles of alcohol, one from each member of my family. I'm an alcoholic, I've been in recovery for nearly two years and they're all very aware of it. Not a pointless gift for someone else, but a pretty bad one to receive personally.

I don't mind body lotion though, but I know I'm in the minority there! Anything that smells nice is always a winner with me.

Golly Mildred, I’m so sorry - that’s just nasty. I hope you are ok.

sanityisamyth · 25/12/2024 22:02

Not this year, but my mother gave me some yellow tinted glasses to drive in at night. I've never once had a problem driving at night. I don't understand why she gave them to me.

This year I told her any presents she gives me will go to the charity shop.