One of my best friends has just completely cut me off since she began a new relationship just under a year ago and now has decided to get back in touch as her partner cheated on her.
She didn't have many friends, she wasn't close with family and I treated her as one of the family.
We helped each other out.
We would see each other at least 3/4 times a week.
She started to act abit strange/ distant towards the end of last year.
When we would meet she would always look at her phone and have to rush back, when before we would spend hours just having a laugh.
Out of the blue in January this year she updated her status to "in a relationship" and posted pics up of her and her new fella.
It was strange as she hadn't even mentioned she was seeing someone to me or our mutual friend and she usually told me everything.
Around February time she blocked us on Facebook, and stopped all contact.
Now her relationship has fallen apart as her partner cheated on her she has text me asking to see me on Christmas Day!
At first I thought maybe she may of been in an abusive relationship and forced to cut contact but this wasn't the case.
She is saying she will be alone on Christmas Day.
Her family don't have anything to do with her and in all the years I have known her has never spent Christmas with them which I find very strange.
AIBU to just tell her it's not my problem as I feel she used me when she had no one.