Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AIBU to feel sorry for the 100 dogs a month destroyed since the XL Bully ban

132 replies

Locutus2000 · 19/12/2024 12:04

I hate the whole XL Bully thing, they are a travesty against nature and the primary market appears to be antisocial idiots (not all owners obviously).

But I also love animals, especially dogs, and to hear the police are destroying an average of one hundred banned breeds a month is upsetting. They are still (arguably) sentient beings who experience pain and fear, many will have been mistreated. They didn't ask for some dickhead to fuck with their genes and make them potential monsters.

I'm quite happy for the breeds to be eliminated. I still feel sorry for the innocent dogs losing their lives whilst the breeders and owners usually seem to walk away without consequence.

AIBU to feel this way?

An XL bully dog, with pale gold fur and a patch of darker gold fur over his left eye, wearing a thick brown leather collar, staring directly at the camera

XL bully victim calls ban ‘useless’ as 100 dogs a month destroyed

Cost of kennelling seized dogs soars and in many areas attacks continue to rise, forces tell the BBC.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cge9nrrvlygo

OP posts:
Hazeby · 19/12/2024 12:28

A dog doesn’t have any concept of death so I don’t really believe they are suffering in anyway by being PTS.

ThisIsSockward · 19/12/2024 12:28

I'd just try not to think about it, because what is the alternative? Many, many sentient creatures are killed every week to provide food. How is this really any different? If you accept that these animals need to be culled (and I do), then all you can do is hope that they're destroyed as humanely as possible. Aside from the fact that destroying them is the only practical route, it's also much better for them to go quickly than to be kept alive but with no hope of a happy, normal dog's existence simply because we feel guilty or sad or squeamish.

RedRosie · 19/12/2024 12:33

Usually I'd just say "go tell it to a battery chicken" but in this case I agree with @SerenityNowInsanityLater

One of the things that makes us human is to be able to hold two truths in our minds at the same time. It's sad, but the right thing to do.

None of the animals - food animals or pets - we treat so badly ask to be born. We just value some a bit higher than others.

Superworm24 · 19/12/2024 12:42

No, the kindest thing to do is to put them to sleep.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 19/12/2024 12:43

Mrsbloggz · 19/12/2024 12:14

You say that you feel sorry for innocent dogs, but this is a nonsense. Dogs (in common with other animals) are not capable of making moral choices they can neither be innocent nor guilty.
The dogs are humanely destroyed, one minute they're alive next minute there is no dog to experience anything, they don't suffer, what's the problem 🤷🏻‍♀️
You are projecting onto the dog human emotions which it does not feel. In other words you are just indulging yourself 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edited

So what? When you (or anybody else) feels sad about something that is happening to somebody else that's being self-indulgent also.

If you can't feel anything for the dogs then again, who cares? They need to be euthanised, nobody is saying anything different are they so no lecture needed.

Miloarmadillo2 · 19/12/2024 12:44

There are an estimated 100,000 XL bully dogs of which about only around half are legally exempted. So 100 a month is a drop in the ocean of illegally owned dogs. For the ban to make the slightest bit of difference it needs to be enforced much more effectively. (But there were no additional resources provided for the police to do so)
I feel sorry for the dogs held in kennels for months and the kennel staff that are endangered by them, and unclear why it’s happening - police DLO types the dog as an XL, O fails to produce a certificate, dog is euthanased. If the owner wants to argue the toss over what breed it is then they should pay the kennel fees until it’s resolved, knowing that long term kennelling is a much more significant welfare problem than euthanasia.
Completely agree with the comments that it is sad but also necessary, and the point that many times that number of unwanted dogs of other breeds are euthanased due to lack of rescue space or suitable homes.

nocoolnamesleft · 19/12/2024 12:47

Yes. But I feel more sorry for the savaged children.

Hotflushesandchilblains · 19/12/2024 12:49

YANBU to feel sorry for them, as they did not choose this life. But it would BVU not to put them down.

MostHighlyFlavoredGravy · 19/12/2024 12:50

It's not the fault of the dogs, but YABVU. There are far, far too many dangerous dogs out there, including dogs in rescue centres that are wholly unsuitable as pets for 99% of people. There are worse things for most of these dogs than being humanely pts.

I know others will disagree but I feel very uncomfortable with dog charities etc that pledge to never put a healthy dog down - in some cases it is the kindest route and would free up resources to help other animals.

TallulahBetty · 19/12/2024 12:53

Nope. I feel sorry for the entirely innocent people who have been killed/maimed by them.

Cull the whole lot of them.

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 19/12/2024 12:55

It is just all a bloody mess. Sad for conflicted owners who see 95% loving family pet but fear the 5%. Sad for the vets, nurses and rescue staff who have to deal with euthanising otherwise healthy dogs.

My main sadness is reserved for the humans that these dogs kill, and that doesn't even touch the side of the humans and pets that are injured in horrific ways. The deaths are the tip of a huge iceberg.

Euthanising these dogs is a necessary evil, sadly.

CreationNat1on · 19/12/2024 12:57

Same for all animals that are breed and slaughtered for human consideration. All livestock, all poultry, all fish farms.

DeffoNeedANameChange · 19/12/2024 12:57

The dogs have no awareness or any idea of what's coming. It's absolutely no different for them than if they were being anaesthetised to have some teeth removed (except they don't wake up with a sore mouth!)

Of all the things to feel sad about, this isnt even on my radar (and FWIW I'm an animal lover, with several pets)

DeffoNeedANameChange · 19/12/2024 13:00

MostHighlyFlavoredGravy · 19/12/2024 12:50

It's not the fault of the dogs, but YABVU. There are far, far too many dangerous dogs out there, including dogs in rescue centres that are wholly unsuitable as pets for 99% of people. There are worse things for most of these dogs than being humanely pts.

I know others will disagree but I feel very uncomfortable with dog charities etc that pledge to never put a healthy dog down - in some cases it is the kindest route and would free up resources to help other animals.

Well I strongly agree! I've never understood why a lifetime in kennels is automatically seen as better than humane euthanasia.

TiramisuCheesecake · 19/12/2024 13:02

Nope, not a single tear to shed over the deaths of these beast dogs.

And as others have said, this idea that it is somehow more humane to keep an animal caged in kennels for its entire life than to put it to sleep is twisted.

StillweriseLH · 19/12/2024 13:03

OneAmberFinch · 19/12/2024 12:21

I feel sorry for the thousands of "reactive" dogs who are kennelled for years on end because they're not safe to be around people but soft-hearted people can't make hard decisions.

Same. I don’t feel sorry for euthanised dogs; they don’t feel pain or confusion, they’re dead.

Applepoop · 19/12/2024 13:04

I think it’s reasonable to feel sorry for the dogs, but unfortunately the situation has been caused by idiot breeders and buyers and the destruction is necessary. These dogs are far too powerful and unpredictable to be pets. They ought only to be owned by skilled, trained handlers. I don’t think the ban went far enough because random people still own them. Any dog can turn.

WhatMe123 · 19/12/2024 13:07

I understand where your coming from op but overall no I don't feel bad. I feel bad for the children that have been attacked to death. They're not safe to have around kids and I'll feel a lot safer when they're all gone and off the streets. The whole situation is just a mess isn't it 🤦🏻‍♀️

Mrsbloggz · 19/12/2024 13:08

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 19/12/2024 12:43

So what? When you (or anybody else) feels sad about something that is happening to somebody else that's being self-indulgent also.

If you can't feel anything for the dogs then again, who cares? They need to be euthanised, nobody is saying anything different are they so no lecture needed.

Thank you for the lecture, very interesting.

AshCrapp · 19/12/2024 13:09

I don't feel bad or sad about it. If I did, I'd be a vegetarian.

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 19/12/2024 13:11

I know others will disagree but I feel very uncomfortable with dog charities etc that pledge to never put a healthy dog down - in some cases it is the kindest route and would free up resources to help other animals.

Totally agree. A life in kennels should not be an option, and some dogs that are re-homed should not be too. Responsible owners should be able to enjoy having a dog without it being a constant challenge and heartache, all at the expense of other more mentally healthy dogs who might still be languishing in kennels.

I certainly don't envy the rescues who have to make the decisions though. It must be very hard mentally indeed.

Jingleberryalltheway · 19/12/2024 13:12

sanityisamyth · 19/12/2024 12:04

No. It's costing £25m a year to kennel these monstrous creatures. They should all be shot so we don't have to pay for them.

I also suspect spending all that time in kennels isn’t good for them.

WinterBones · 19/12/2024 13:13

i think i get where you're coming from, its a shame that some of those dogs who may never manifest aggression have to be euthanised, but ultimately, if their owners had bothered registering them properly, or had not broken the law, they wouldn't be there.

My emotions are more anger at the breeders, the people who own them, and persist in their 'my dog wouldn't hurt a fly' crap that perpetuates the problem.

It lies with the idiots that will currently be pushing other breeds and ruining them by cross breeding with these awful dogs and finding new ways to breed horrors that skirt the legislation.. cane corso, bull mastiffs, staffies and the like.

There are enough perfectly decent breeds of dog around without frankensteining something for clout, fighting and scary dog privilege.

Barleycat · 19/12/2024 13:14

YABU . They are dangerous monsters and the sooner they are all PTS the better. Should have been an outright ban and cull.

losingweightandgainingconfidence · 19/12/2024 13:15

YABU if you still do things like eat meat etc.

I am neither a dog lover nor a vegetarian, so have no moral standing in this debate, but still.

Swipe left for the next trending thread