What goes around comes around?

[iwasntexpectingthatoops]

I have name changed for this.

Roughly 7 years ago you lot helped me when my DH left me after 20 years. He was having an affair.

The other woman took it upon herself to be extremely hateful towards me. Stalked me via social media, terrorised myself and my family. She ended up with a criminal record and restraining order (2 years after the split)
She took great delight letting me know she had "won my man". I didn't even know we were having a competition

He never paid me any child maintenance, left us destitute. He is self employed.

Well, he's done exactly the same to get. Left her with her kids for another woman, she had nothing. No money, no home, nothing. Now she wants to befriend me and go after him for his money. Is this woman insane?

Well anyway, aibu if I literally don't give a shit and don't feel sorry for her one bit?

Karma doesn't exist my dh family are assholes

This in spades.

I have to say, life is fundamentally unfair. Karma doesn’t settle scores.
Often very unsavoury people habitually repeat harm and bad habit with no consequences

Don't engage that nutter 😲

“Ah well. Sometimes the trash just takes itself out”.
And then ignore.

YANBU. When my XH and OW split (in a blaze of glory), she came whining to me about it. She had been a friend of mine prior to all the crap!

She messaged me saying that he’d cheated on her, and expected me to be a source of support to her. I told her that when a man dumps his wife for the mistress, a vacancy is created. I told her to sling her hook. XH also came whining to me about it all (via message).

I just told them both exactly what I thought of them and spent the whole time laughing my head off. After months of them being so nasty to me, it was a real tonic.

"Sorry who's this?"