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To think the nursery are wildly unreasonable?

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Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:47

Our nursery (just outside London, if relevant) had to close for 72 hours due to the storms. They have offered no refund. It’s 120 a day and we have had to source alternative childcare on top of this. I realise this is an unforeseen circumstance in some respects but also, they must have insurance? I’m absolutely fed up of feeling financially stretched all the time and this has just topped it off! I’m assuming we have no rights to argue this?!

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biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:48

Most insurance doesn't cover "acts of God".

modgepodge · 09/12/2024 17:49

I agree it’s really unfair but I suspect you’ll find the t&cs allow this. Mine says if the nursery closes no refund is due. I guess they still have all their normal costs. Hopefully they still paid their staff!!

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2024 17:49

Wind isn’t an act of god. It’s weather.

Tell them they need to reimburse you. They’re being silly.

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:50

@biscuitsandbooks shoudnt they be taking the hit rather than us? We are paying for a service three days running that wasn’t provided.

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squirrelnutcartel · 09/12/2024 17:50

It'll be so their staff don't lose out on pay.

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:51

modgepodge · 09/12/2024 17:49

I agree it’s really unfair but I suspect you’ll find the t&cs allow this. Mine says if the nursery closes no refund is due. I guess they still have all their normal costs. Hopefully they still paid their staff!!

@modgepodge i think it’s really shit. They could offer even 30 quid a day back or something. Just some gesture that doesn’t make me feel completely taken the piss out of.

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biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:51

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:50

@biscuitsandbooks shoudnt they be taking the hit rather than us? We are paying for a service three days running that wasn’t provided.

If they couldn't open, they couldn't open. They still need to pay their staff and their bills.

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:52

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2024 17:49

Wind isn’t an act of god. It’s weather.

Tell them they need to reimburse you. They’re being silly.

It's what counts as an "Act of God" for insurance purposes.

Basically, anything that you can't take reasonable measures to prevent or protect yourself from.

Lincoln24 · 09/12/2024 17:52

Why did it close? I'm in London & nothing here was closed at all never mind for 72 hours, and the weekend were the worst days. So I don't think you're being unreasonable at all.

SALaw · 09/12/2024 17:53

You'll be much more upset if they can't pay staff or rent and your favourite staff member leaves or worse they go bust and you have to find somewhere else.

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:53

Lincoln24 · 09/12/2024 17:52

Why did it close? I'm in London & nothing here was closed at all never mind for 72 hours, and the weekend were the worst days. So I don't think you're being unreasonable at all.

@Lincoln24 we are around an hour outside. They said there was some damage to the building. No other details been given.

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Shinyandnew1 · 09/12/2024 17:53

The storms were Saturday and Sunday, weren’t they? Which days did they close for 72 hours?!

Cosyblankets · 09/12/2024 17:54

The storm up here was Saturday. Bit iffy on Friday. We're in the north West

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2024 17:54

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:52

It's what counts as an "Act of God" for insurance purposes.

Basically, anything that you can't take reasonable measures to prevent or protect yourself from.

This suggests you need to be quite religious to work in insurance…

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:55

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2024 17:54

This suggests you need to be quite religious to work in insurance…

Only if you insist on being literal about it, I guess.

MILLYmo0se · 09/12/2024 17:56

So they are closing until Thursday for repairs? In their fees policy do they state what happens in situations like this? Pretty much every childcare service will still charge fees in these circumstances so as to pay staff wages, but it's always stated in the contracts.

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:56

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:53

@Lincoln24 we are around an hour outside. They said there was some damage to the building. No other details been given.

How would you feel if your workplace was damaged and your boss said you had to stay off without pay as a result?

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:57

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:56

How would you feel if your workplace was damaged and your boss said you had to stay off without pay as a result?

@biscuitsandbooks i’d be furious.

but we wouldn’t be charging our clients at the same time.

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Octavia64 · 09/12/2024 17:59

If the building is damaged then they will almost certainly have had to close.

Schools have shut temporarily in similar circumstances as well - mine had a fire once.

Fees will depend on your contract.

Threelittleduck · 09/12/2024 17:59

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:57

@biscuitsandbooks i’d be furious.

but we wouldn’t be charging our clients at the same time.

Nurseries don't have loads of spare money. If you don't pay, the staff don't get paid. Do you want them to all leave?

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 18:00

Threelittleduck · 09/12/2024 17:59

Nurseries don't have loads of spare money. If you don't pay, the staff don't get paid. Do you want them to all leave?

@Threelittleduck we don’t have loads of spare money… especially not to be paying twice for childcare.

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helpfulperson · 09/12/2024 18:02

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2024 17:54

This suggests you need to be quite religious to work in insurance…

It's just an old fashioned phrase meaning that there is nothing anyone could do about it to prevent it. It's a short hand for what could otherwise be a long description.

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 18:02

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:57

@biscuitsandbooks i’d be furious.

but we wouldn’t be charging our clients at the same time.

They won't be doing it for shits and giggles.

Nurseries have practically no financial buffer - if they don't charge you, they can't pay their staff or the rent. And if they can't pay the rent, they'll close - then you'll really be screwed.

It's obviously not ideal to have to pay for a service you're not getting, but if the building's unsafe then they won't have a choice.

surreygirl1987 · 09/12/2024 18:05

Threelittleduck · 09/12/2024 17:59

Nurseries don't have loads of spare money. If you don't pay, the staff don't get paid. Do you want them to all leave?

Oh come on. Nursery owners are hardly poor - at least many of them aren't. The ones I know have made a fortune out of running their nurseries - one put their kids through private school on the huge profits they made from other people's kids. I'm not saying that's wrong - it's a business - but I can't stand it when people defend obviously unfair decisions like to charge customers for services they haven't received by pleading nursery poverty.

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 18:06

surreygirl1987 · 09/12/2024 18:05

Oh come on. Nursery owners are hardly poor - at least many of them aren't. The ones I know have made a fortune out of running their nurseries - one put their kids through private school on the huge profits they made from other people's kids. I'm not saying that's wrong - it's a business - but I can't stand it when people defend obviously unfair decisions like to charge customers for services they haven't received by pleading nursery poverty.

@surreygirl1987 i know… 120 a day and that’s for 9-5! 8-6 is 140!!!

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