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AIBU?

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To think the nursery are wildly unreasonable?

118 replies

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 17:47

Our nursery (just outside London, if relevant) had to close for 72 hours due to the storms. They have offered no refund. It’s 120 a day and we have had to source alternative childcare on top of this. I realise this is an unforeseen circumstance in some respects but also, they must have insurance? I’m absolutely fed up of feeling financially stretched all the time and this has just topped it off! I’m assuming we have no rights to argue this?!

OP posts:
Theunamedcat · 09/12/2024 18:59

Staff need paying yes but are you still paying the subsidy for nappies milk and food? I successfully got a few pounds credit from my nursery in similar circumstances all the food was not cooked and was frozen still so why were they acting like I used it? Milk? Why am I paying for what I don't use?

Seriously preferred my childminder

Nodancingshoes · 09/12/2024 19:00

It's harsh. Half fees would be a compromise but it depends on what the contract you signed says.

WhatUSeeIsWhatUGet · 09/12/2024 19:03

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:51

If they couldn't open, they couldn't open. They still need to pay their staff and their bills.

This. I think YABU.

Anotherworrier · 09/12/2024 19:03

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 18:57

OP will have signed a contract agreeing to pay if they have to close due to unforseen circumstances.

It's not comparable to a restaurant where there isn't a contract in place.

Well unless that wording is crystal clear they may well find themselves in court.

There really needs to be more regulations put in place over nursery charges when they’re closed because it’s truly outrageous.

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 19:05

Anotherworrier · 09/12/2024 19:03

Well unless that wording is crystal clear they may well find themselves in court.

There really needs to be more regulations put in place over nursery charges when they’re closed because it’s truly outrageous.

Well, only OP can answer that.

Stresshead84x · 09/12/2024 19:06

Storms are covered under insurance- an act of god relates to recoveries (i.e. no costs can be claimed back from anyone else because it's an act of god).

lunar1 · 09/12/2024 19:06

Nurseries seem to live on a whole different world. If my business can't meet a commitment for whatever reason, the client doesn't get charged, and my staff still get paid, But I always leave a decent buffer in the business account, even if I take the hit myself.

ACynicalDad · 09/12/2024 19:08

Did some work a while back looking at nursery profits, they are often insane, almost all could take the hit without issue.

Nc929393 · 09/12/2024 19:19

What is the nursery made of to not be able to stay open in wind? Paper mache?

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 19:22

Nc929393 · 09/12/2024 19:19

What is the nursery made of to not be able to stay open in wind? Paper mache?

They're not saying they can't stay open, they're saying the building is damaged - easily done in the winds we had at the weekend.

DemonicCaveMaggot · 09/12/2024 19:23

They may have had to close because staff couldn't get in due to fallen trees etc.

I don't know about the UK, but in the US insurance doesn't cover against damage caused by 'named storms' i.e. major storms.

MILLYmo0se · 09/12/2024 19:24

ACynicalDad · 09/12/2024 19:08

Did some work a while back looking at nursery profits, they are often insane, almost all could take the hit without issue.

But the issue is THEY won't take the hit, the staff will (bar the rare service that is owned by a decent human). There's no way the majority of places will pay staff, leading to more staff turnover but they don't care as long as their profits remain untouched.
I work in Ireland where the Government will still pay all funding during storm closures etc, full day services with a rare exception charge full fees and every single time without fail there are services that try to milk the situation. 'oh ye didn't have to come into work til 11 cos of the storm so you all owe me 3 hrs work now', no, the service has its full income so you pay the staff their normal week and no one owes you anything!. About a month into the pandemic the Government stepped into cover staff wages while all ser ices were closed, and there were services that then told staff they had to come into the service to clean and paint it, or they had to start doing pointless paperwork or take on CPD at home 'because you are being paid now'. Staff weren't be paid anything by these companies but they wanted a benefit off their employees time.....

oakleaffy · 09/12/2024 19:24

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 18:00

@Threelittleduck we don’t have loads of spare money… especially not to be paying twice for childcare.

Goodness knows why people are defending the nursery.
Of course they should reimburse you - why should you have to pay twice- they will be making a healthy profit, as well, on your fees.

oakleaffy · 09/12/2024 19:26

ACynicalDad · 09/12/2024 19:08

Did some work a while back looking at nursery profits, they are often insane, almost all could take the hit without issue.

Nurseries and care homes- healthy profits.

GroovyChick87 · 09/12/2024 19:26

Gerrp · 09/12/2024 18:51

@GroovyChick87 great, their employer can pay them then! If this happened in my industry we wouldn’t be charging clients for zero work!

But if they're letting you have free days off they can't pay staff. Regardless of whether the child was there or not, those are your booked days. There will be something in the contract about it that you will have signed. I've got years of experience of working in childcare and this is nothing out the norm. Kids and staff were usually sent home in dangerous weather. It'll be about the safety of the staff getting to and from work and whether public transport is up and running or if it was safe to travel.

oakleaffy · 09/12/2024 19:27

ACynicalDad · 09/12/2024 19:08

Did some work a while back looking at nursery profits, they are often insane, almost all could take the hit without issue.

Here!

www.theguardian.com/money/2024/mar/12/private-nursery-chains-profits-england

MidnightPatrol · 09/12/2024 19:29

Why were they closed? Is it all outdoors or some thing?

I sympathise though OP, mine has just announced three inset days for training, which I still have to pay in full for - while also having to source alternative childcare on those days / take annual leave.

CeciliaMars · 09/12/2024 19:32

I think you're being wildly unreasonable. If they refund everyone, they'll be thousands of pounds worse off, with all their bills and staff still needing to be paid. Where would that money come from? It's just really unfortunate. Move on.

housethatbuiltme · 09/12/2024 19:34

I would love to know the justification of people thinking they can keep the money... paying staff isn't OPs job. She paid for a service and did NOT receive it, she even had to pay double to replace the service she did not receive.

If you pay for a service and dont receive it because the PROVIDER cancel then you are entitled to a refund... there no 'debating' it with but they really want that money to pay bills or blaming god.

You can put any clause you want in a contract or T&Cs but that does NOT make it legally binding if the very act goes against the customers rights or the law.

Small claims will find a refund fair.

80smonster · 09/12/2024 19:36

I guess you have to conclude if everyone refused to pay their fees it would result in the nursery closing. If you are able to join another easily you could try refusing to pay. Ours closed a few times for weather-based incidents (leaky roof) and also over COVID (we received a 50% discount for fees occurring for the latter). You could ask for a discount on next month’s fees and see what they say?

MidnightPatrol · 09/12/2024 19:37

CeciliaMars · 09/12/2024 19:32

I think you're being wildly unreasonable. If they refund everyone, they'll be thousands of pounds worse off, with all their bills and staff still needing to be paid. Where would that money come from? It's just really unfortunate. Move on.

I’m not sure actually - she’s paying for a service which is not being provided, leaving her out of pocket.

GRex · 09/12/2024 19:39

The nursery should pay for Business Interruption insurance and then they would not need to charge for zero service. They have taken the business decision not to insure the risk, so they should be liable for it. All this silliness about staff not being paid is plsying on emotions instead of considering how a business should be run.

DragonFly98 · 09/12/2024 19:40

Threelittleduck · 09/12/2024 17:59

Nurseries don't have loads of spare money. If you don't pay, the staff don't get paid. Do you want them to all leave?

Haha the local owners must have their Porsche on PCP then.

flyinghen · 09/12/2024 19:43

They will still have to pay everything, staff wages etc.

Kitkat1523 · 09/12/2024 19:45

biscuitsandbooks · 09/12/2024 17:52

It's what counts as an "Act of God" for insurance purposes.

Basically, anything that you can't take reasonable measures to prevent or protect yourself from.

Act of god my arse…..all reputable insurers offer storm damage insurance…..I have just started a claim for some roof damage with my insurer…..they went online to a national database which records weather…..wind speed has to be over 55 mph to claim…..it was 63mph so my claim is going ahead