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To think we shouldn't have to work the day before Christmas Eve?

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:33

I work in a bathroom shop.
We are closed over Christmas and were lead to believe we broke up on the 22nd
Turns out now we don't
On the 23rd we have to travel to Manchester (3 hours each way ) to have a buffet and games with the company owner.
We have to listen to a presentation on how the company's done this year.
If we don't go we will have a day deducted from our salary.
It's the day before Christmas Eve and we have to drive to Manchester to have picky food with the owner and play Christmas games.
Aibu to think it's ridiculous?
And we have been repeatedly told if we don't go we won't get paid and it will halt any progression in the company !

OP posts:
RoundTheWorldRoundTheWorld · 05/12/2024 11:29

Book a day off as holiday, if you do not wish to work

C8H10N4O2 · 05/12/2024 11:29

BIWI · 05/12/2024 10:06

According to Trainline, the 09.02 from Newcastle to Manchester takes 2 hrs and 18 minutes. And a return at 19.00 takes 2 hrs and 18 mins. That return ticket would cost you £53.29 if you booked it today.

Much easier and less stressful than driving - and let's face it, you'd have to pay to put petrol in your car anyway!

The OP has to be in the Manchester shop by 9:00, not leaving Newcastle at 9:00. That will make the ticket a lot more expensive and even though I'm not from the NE I know that line is a pile of poo to travel on.

notatinydancer · 05/12/2024 11:29

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

What is black eye Friday?
I wouldn't work anywhere I couldn't choose my own holidays.

user1492757084 · 05/12/2024 11:29

Also inquire with management as to whether they will consider busing, or flying you all up on the same flight?

Can you bring children if you have no childcare before 8:00 am and after 6:00pm?

weirdoboelady · 05/12/2024 11:31

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

So you are complaining about being paid to drive to Manchester and back for a (ok, what sounds like a poor) 'jolly' rather than working? I agree about the expenses, of course the cost of this commute should be reimbursed but you can of course claim it back by doing a tax return.

The 23rd is a working day! It amazes me when people moan about working on 24th.....

Poppins21 · 05/12/2024 11:32

What does your contract say about place of work, travel time and expenses? I have never worked anywhere that travelling somewhere different for work than my normal location is not seen as a claimable expense.

C8H10N4O2 · 05/12/2024 11:32

OP: what does your contract say?

If your base of work is that shop and your job description doesn't include travel then at the very least you should be getting both time and expenses for the travel element.

"Other duties as assigned" does not include self funded six hour trips on the busiest Friday of the year. It covers things like "helping to restock" or "do the filing" when your normal job is talking to customers.

As PP say - bathroom shops come and go and if this one is such a thoughtless employer I'd be looking elsewhere for a job in a better run company. I wouldn't be confident in it lasting more than the normal 18 months for such shops.

How do the other staff feel about it?

NoahsTortoise · 05/12/2024 11:33

I don't know why you're getting so much grief OP, I wouldn't be happy with this either!

A 6hr round trip any day is a pain in the arse, but the Friday before Christmas, when traffic is likely to be worse than usual as well, is really shit.

notatinydancer · 05/12/2024 11:33

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:55

We work in a shop
Nowhere in our contract does it mention any travelling
I wouldn't care if the shop is open
The 6 hour drive is the issue

What if you don't drive ?
I'd take it unpaid or offer to stay and keep the shop open.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 05/12/2024 11:34

weirdoboelady · 05/12/2024 11:31

So you are complaining about being paid to drive to Manchester and back for a (ok, what sounds like a poor) 'jolly' rather than working? I agree about the expenses, of course the cost of this commute should be reimbursed but you can of course claim it back by doing a tax return.

The 23rd is a working day! It amazes me when people moan about working on 24th.....

She is not being paid to drive to Manchester and back. She needs to be there by 9 and won’t leave till 6 so the driving is on top of a days work.

I don’t think it can all be classed as a jolly either , sounds like strategy/results etc are being presented and discussed

C8H10N4O2 · 05/12/2024 11:34

weirdoboelady · 05/12/2024 11:31

So you are complaining about being paid to drive to Manchester and back for a (ok, what sounds like a poor) 'jolly' rather than working? I agree about the expenses, of course the cost of this commute should be reimbursed but you can of course claim it back by doing a tax return.

The 23rd is a working day! It amazes me when people moan about working on 24th.....

She isn't being paid to drive six hours - she is being expected to fund it and give the time herself. That is the point.

ForeveronMN · 05/12/2024 11:34

weirdoboelady · 05/12/2024 11:31

So you are complaining about being paid to drive to Manchester and back for a (ok, what sounds like a poor) 'jolly' rather than working? I agree about the expenses, of course the cost of this commute should be reimbursed but you can of course claim it back by doing a tax return.

The 23rd is a working day! It amazes me when people moan about working on 24th.....

Missing the point?

When was a shop asst expected to drive 360 miles in one day for a mince pie and a pep talk, on the day half the country will be on the move for Xmas?

She's not a sales rep or a snr manager. She's on the minimum wage and was contracted to work in the shop.

That drive on that day will be far harder work than selling someone a new bath.

The lack of sympathy here is astounding.

user1492757084 · 05/12/2024 11:37

If you have to go - do use trains and taxis.
You would be rendered too tired after driving for three hours and too dangerous to drive home after a big day.
Will there be alcohol?

DianaRiggsCatsuit · 05/12/2024 11:38

NobleWashedLinen · 05/12/2024 10:59

This sounds perfectly fine to me. Part and parcel of the job.

My previous employer would always tell everyone to stop work and come and enjoy a mince pie and some brandy at about 11:30am let everyone go home at 12:30pm on Christmas Eve but if you wanted the day off you would have to take a full day rather than a half-day, which always seemed a bit unfair but the fact of the matter is that you are contractually expected to work that day and instead of making you work they are putting on a bit of a shindig. YABU to moan about it. And the company is perfectly reasonable to say that anyone who moans or skives off will not be considered for progression - I wouldn't want people who can't participate in such a thing to be in a senior rolw under me either.

The one thing that you are mildly reasonable to be miffed about is if you were clearly told that you could have that monday off for free. But I don't think you were - I think you were told that the shops would be shut that day, which is not the same thing.

You have the right to a set number of paid days off per year, but the employer is fully entitled to decree when those days off are, and requiring you to take some of them on days convenient to themselves is perfectly normal and not something to gripe about, nor is having a company meeting on a day when all the branches are going to be shut anyway - it sounds very sensible to me as otherwise it would be impossible to get everyone together without losing business.

@NobleWashedLinen
Have you actually read the whole thread?
The day involves at least 6 hours of travel, probably more, which is not being reimbursed. Plus activities from 9am to 6pm. Effectively being out of the house from 6am to at least 9pm.

Ariela · 05/12/2024 11:41

It's going to cost you at least £60-100 to travel by public transport, so I would simply say you cannot afford to spend that on public transport and not get it back, that's the cost of a week's shopping, and offer to go in and help with rearranging the store for the influx of post Christmas visitors who want bathroom refurbishment advice instead.

Flatulence · 05/12/2024 11:41

It's a normal working day. As is Christmas eve.
The timing for travelling a long way is inconvenient, but unless you're taking annual leave OR it's written into your contract that you don't work that day then you have to work. They should definitely be paying your travel though.
I'll be working that day, and Christmas eve, and between Christmas and new year - as do millions of other people 🤷🏽‍♀️

Donttellempike · 05/12/2024 11:42

Actually OP. This whole day potentially indirect sex discrimination because it’s been around on you at short notice and will impact disproportionately negatively on those with childcare responsibilities, who are disproportionately women

At such short notice, childcare is likely to be impossible to arrange and you have been told that not going may adversely affect your prospects.

I would be pointing out the above, but if you want less exposure just take the day as leave. It will be a complete nightmare being on the road for that length of time 2 days before Xmas. The management are idiots

TimeForWine1 · 05/12/2024 11:43

I wouldn't be able to do that - I can't drive in the dark, as I literally can't see in the dark. It would have to be a train, and of course they need to pay expenses! I'd be having a few nice wines on the train home too!

Donttellempike · 05/12/2024 11:44

Flatulence · 05/12/2024 11:41

It's a normal working day. As is Christmas eve.
The timing for travelling a long way is inconvenient, but unless you're taking annual leave OR it's written into your contract that you don't work that day then you have to work. They should definitely be paying your travel though.
I'll be working that day, and Christmas eve, and between Christmas and new year - as do millions of other people 🤷🏽‍♀️

Edited

Just because you do doesn’t mean everyone has to

Blueroses99 · 05/12/2024 11:46

BIWI · 05/12/2024 10:06

According to Trainline, the 09.02 from Newcastle to Manchester takes 2 hrs and 18 minutes. And a return at 19.00 takes 2 hrs and 18 mins. That return ticket would cost you £53.29 if you booked it today.

Much easier and less stressful than driving - and let's face it, you'd have to pay to put petrol in your car anyway!

OP would be 2 hours and 20 minutes late (at least!) given the event starts at 9am though.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 05/12/2024 11:47

Flatulence · 05/12/2024 11:41

It's a normal working day. As is Christmas eve.
The timing for travelling a long way is inconvenient, but unless you're taking annual leave OR it's written into your contract that you don't work that day then you have to work. They should definitely be paying your travel though.
I'll be working that day, and Christmas eve, and between Christmas and new year - as do millions of other people 🤷🏽‍♀️

Edited

Well lots of people have to work Christmas Day doesn’t mean we all should.
lots of people will spend Christmas Day alone, doesn’t mean we all should etc etc.

people should be able to express if things that are not fair/ not reasonable are happening to them

Branleuse · 05/12/2024 11:50

You don't have to go though. Theyre just saying that if you go to this party you will be paid as if you were at work, and if you dont. You can take the day off but you won't be paid?

I dont see the issue. Sounds pretty cushy to me to get paid for going to a xmas party and then you get all xmas off.

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 11:52

What if you don't drive ?

I assume those unable to drive for whatever reason will be expected to take the train or bus.

Good luck to the non-drivers who live far from Manchester considering the general unreliability of public transport, and how much worse and more crowded it gets on the 23rd.

My work head office is 2.5 hours away from me on the train and we do have some away days etc here and there, and I quite enjoy the occasional train trip down.

However thankfully they reimburse for travel (as any decent company should do) AND they’d never do this kind of thing so close to Christmas just out of consideration for the employees.

A couple of times when I’ve travelled to or from a head office meeting or event, my 2.5 hour journey has been closer to 5 hours because of excessive delays and cancellations so I typically don’t arrange meetings before 11am when going to head office. Just to give me some wiggle room. And that’s just been at a “normal” time of year so I couldn’t imagine how it’s going to be like on the 23rd.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 05/12/2024 11:55

Branleuse · 05/12/2024 11:50

You don't have to go though. Theyre just saying that if you go to this party you will be paid as if you were at work, and if you dont. You can take the day off but you won't be paid?

I dont see the issue. Sounds pretty cushy to me to get paid for going to a xmas party and then you get all xmas off.

They’ve been told not going will halt progression so it’s not just about getting paid. There is clearly an expectation they should be there (with significant travel time and expense being borne by the employee )

Flatulence · 05/12/2024 11:55

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 05/12/2024 11:47

Well lots of people have to work Christmas Day doesn’t mean we all should.
lots of people will spend Christmas Day alone, doesn’t mean we all should etc etc.

people should be able to express if things that are not fair/ not reasonable are happening to them

But that's the point: it's not unfair or unreasonable to work on what is a normal working day.

The unpaid travel is unreasonable, absolutely, as is not offering TOIL or similar for travel outside of working hours.

But working per se? It's not at all unreasonable to expect someone to work on one of their normal working day if they're not using annual leave.

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