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To think we shouldn't have to work the day before Christmas Eve?

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:33

I work in a bathroom shop.
We are closed over Christmas and were lead to believe we broke up on the 22nd
Turns out now we don't
On the 23rd we have to travel to Manchester (3 hours each way ) to have a buffet and games with the company owner.
We have to listen to a presentation on how the company's done this year.
If we don't go we will have a day deducted from our salary.
It's the day before Christmas Eve and we have to drive to Manchester to have picky food with the owner and play Christmas games.
Aibu to think it's ridiculous?
And we have been repeatedly told if we don't go we won't get paid and it will halt any progression in the company !

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Jagoda · 05/12/2024 09:42

Maybe they meant they close the store on the Friday, which seems to be the case.

RoseQuail · 05/12/2024 09:42

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MidnightPatrol · 05/12/2024 09:43

How old are you?

There are three bank holidays (Christmas Day, Boxing Day, New Year’s Day).

Anything else is a normal working day, and if you get extra days off that’s at the discretion of your employer.

cocobeaner · 05/12/2024 09:43

What's 'black eye friday' just out of interest?

Its a normal work day, this is just the 'task' you have been assigned for that day. At my work we work right up to christmas like most places, I've taken christmas eve as annual leave though which is what you could do here? If you don't want to do that I would got but get the train so you're not driving all that way twice.

Potentiallyplausible · 05/12/2024 09:43

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

Of course those days come out of your holiday allowance! That’s normal. Surely the company is open on Christmas Eve as well - that’s a normal working day too?

RoseQuail · 05/12/2024 09:43

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CyranoDeBergerQuack · 05/12/2024 09:43

We've had a similar post recently - someone wanting to leave early on christmas eve. I wonder why such posters bother to work, they clearly don't want to , or want to get away with being there as little as possible, despite being paid to work.
the choice is yours - lose a day's pay or do the job you are paid to do.
But don't expect employers to be flexible in relation to your future foibles

JustAFear · 05/12/2024 09:44

Jagoda · 05/12/2024 09:40

What’s black eye Friday all about? Is this bathroom sales lingo?

It’s the Friday before Christmas. Popular for parties, busy for emergency services, hence “black eye” (presumably also a play on Black Friday). Not a widely used term I think, I used to work in an emergency service which referred to it!

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 05/12/2024 09:44

Where are you normally based? The roads might start getting busy then. If you're in Stoke it's probably fine, but Norwich I'd be pissed off

Heronwatcher · 05/12/2024 09:45

Did you get confirmation in writing that the 23rd onwards would be leave? Or is it in your contract? Most companies can cancel authorised leave but they have to have a decent reason/ do it with specific notice.

Led to believe could just be that someone had the wrong end of the stick/ company policy has changed.

And yes, what the hell is black eye Friday, is it something to do with people beating each other up on a busy shopping day.

MidnightPatrol · 05/12/2024 09:45

JustAFear · 05/12/2024 09:44

It’s the Friday before Christmas. Popular for parties, busy for emergency services, hence “black eye” (presumably also a play on Black Friday). Not a widely used term I think, I used to work in an emergency service which referred to it!

Never worked anywhere the office has closed the Friday before Christmas. What if Christmas was the next Friday, a full week off for… why?

Heronwatcher · 05/12/2024 09:46

And yes if you’ve booked something you’re desperate to do, surely you can just take the day off.

TimeForTeaAndG · 05/12/2024 09:46

Why doesn't the owner come to where you all are rather than a whole bunch of folk having to travel???

RoseQuail · 05/12/2024 09:47

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:47

@DrinkFeckArseBrick between Morpeth and Newcastle upon Tyne

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harriettenightingale · 05/12/2024 09:47

I guess "black eye Friday" is another name for "Mad Friday" as some people call it. The last working day before Xmas for many people, often people finish early and go out drinking straight after work/have work drinks in the office.

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:48

@TimeForTeaAndG they pick a central location as they have shops all over the uk

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:49

@RoseQuail I live between Morpeth /newcastle so it's around 3 hours each way

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aperolspritzbasicbitch · 05/12/2024 09:49

Off the topic, but interesting to see what people in different areas call the last Friday before Xmas.

Here it's Factory Friday 🤣

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:50

@CyranoDeBergerQuack big difference between being at work and having to drive 6 hours the day before Christmas Eve

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:51

The shop being open would of been fine
It's travelling to Manchester
Event starts at 9 am and finishes 6 pm
So won't be home till 9pm at night

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Stretchanoctave · 05/12/2024 09:51

Break up? Are you 5 years old.

Pretty mean of your company to provide a day off from working with a free lunch.

xILikeJamx · 05/12/2024 09:51

It's a normal working day, so you should be working.

However having to travel all that way is total nonsense and I'd be making a serious stink about it. Are folk from shops in Scotland, Cornwall, Kent etc all expected to go too? Are they being paid hourly for the whole time they're away including food and travel expenses?

The sensible thing would be something like you either come to the fun day or you're in the store tidying, mopping, organising etc. and still getting paid for it

isthesolution · 05/12/2024 09:51

Can you Take it as annual leave?

RoseQuail · 05/12/2024 09:52

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