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To think we shouldn't have to work the day before Christmas Eve?

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blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:33

I work in a bathroom shop.
We are closed over Christmas and were lead to believe we broke up on the 22nd
Turns out now we don't
On the 23rd we have to travel to Manchester (3 hours each way ) to have a buffet and games with the company owner.
We have to listen to a presentation on how the company's done this year.
If we don't go we will have a day deducted from our salary.
It's the day before Christmas Eve and we have to drive to Manchester to have picky food with the owner and play Christmas games.
Aibu to think it's ridiculous?
And we have been repeatedly told if we don't go we won't get paid and it will halt any progression in the company !

OP posts:
mathanxiety · 05/12/2024 20:03

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

That's really shitty, and so is the vanity project shindig on the 23rd.

If I were you I'd be looking for another job.

mathanxiety · 05/12/2024 20:04

FestiveFruitloop · 05/12/2024 19:32

On your marks and get set for the race to the bottom...

Yes indeed.

Sushu · 05/12/2024 20:06

Jellybeanz456 · 05/12/2024 17:08

Thank ya lucky stars you get a Xmas break unlike some off us!!

Swings and roundabouts, innit?!
I think teacher friends are lucky to have the long summer holidays but on the flip side, I know I am lucky I can book leave during most of the year, whenever I want but within reason.
My work place is under pressure at Christmas so we don’t always get the time off, as requested, but I’m fortunate enough to receive a decent salary which compensates.

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 20:11

Alondra · 05/12/2024 14:36

The government in the UK fudges numbers of employment, with people employed on zero contracts working for no rights at all but still showing as working.

In Spain and many European countries, zero contracts are illegal. Employees always need to have a working contract.

It breaks my heart reading posts like yours. It's not a tough market, it's a political policy.

I’ll never forget the year I had 3 zero hour contracts where I really did get zero hours. Awful.

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 20:18

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 05/12/2024 12:27

Unless you were specifically told 23rd is a holiday, it isn't. Same with the 24th.
It sounds that your employer wants to give you a bit of a pre-Christmas treat in Manchester.

It’s not a treat or Op probably wouldn’t be here complaining about it. The employers know it’s not a treat either and that’s why they’ve essentially forced employees to attend by threatening them with no career profession if they take the day off.

Her usual workplace location is a 15 minute drive. On the 23rd she has to leave about 5 or 6am to get there for 9am then the same trip back while probably fighting Christmas traffic AND she’s not getting the travel expenses reimbursed. She’ll likely be exhausted and out of pocket.

How is that a treat?

OnTheBoardwalk · 05/12/2024 20:28

Agree you’re getting a hard time because of the title of your thread it's not the real issue

i live in greater Manchester and my aim is not going anywhere near town until January. Travelling anywhere by road or public transport is an absolute nightmare

my job involves travel, it's in my contract. There is no way I'd agree to be somewhere that far away for 9am and expect to travel back to get in late that wasn’t anything business critical especially just before Christmas Eve (and yes I know that’s not the issue but it does factor into the discussions)

jannier · 05/12/2024 20:30

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

What's Black eye Friday?

BlueMum16 · 05/12/2024 20:31

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:57

We aren't getting any travel expenses
We have been told we get 2 hours to use in January as a early finish

Just book a date leave?

jannier · 05/12/2024 20:32

aperolspritzbasicbitch · 05/12/2024 09:49

Off the topic, but interesting to see what people in different areas call the last Friday before Xmas.

Here it's Factory Friday 🤣

Friday like any other

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 05/12/2024 22:01

Itsafunione · 05/12/2024 20:18

It’s not a treat or Op probably wouldn’t be here complaining about it. The employers know it’s not a treat either and that’s why they’ve essentially forced employees to attend by threatening them with no career profession if they take the day off.

Her usual workplace location is a 15 minute drive. On the 23rd she has to leave about 5 or 6am to get there for 9am then the same trip back while probably fighting Christmas traffic AND she’s not getting the travel expenses reimbursed. She’ll likely be exhausted and out of pocket.

How is that a treat?

Edited

Clearly OP is not experiencing this as a treat! But I doubt that the employer arranged it just to piss everyone off and ruin their Christmas. The intention was probably to provide a way for colleagues to celebrate together and get to know each other a bit better, and being up for it would be taken as a sign of a team player who wanted to do well in the company and likely to advance.
I guess that being asked to travel in non-working hours is unusual in this company, since it has come as a shock that only 2 hours TOIL will be given for a 6 hour journey. In the jobs I've had, travelling time has rarely been paid so I wouldn't be particularly surprised. But there's no doubt that it's a long way to go for a day trip and hopefully it will only happen once a year.

Holldstock1 · 05/12/2024 22:37

I get that it may seem alot of effort but you are getting paid for it, are getting updated about the company you work for and having some down time with colleagues. And, you get to have time off over Christmas.

I work as a private self employed carer in the community and if I dont work I dont get paid. I also dont get paid for time taken or the cost of any training courses I have to take.

Dont get me wrong, I love my job and the people I work with - otherwise I wouldnt have done this for last 13 years. They really make it worthwhile, and I have to say its the most fulfilling job Ive ever done.

But, I will be working Christmas Eve, Christmas Day (8.00 am - 7 pm & believe me there have been years when its 6.45 am - 10.30 pm so Im counting myself lucky), Boxing Day, New Years etc etc. I work every day through the year unless Im on holiday.

Even my 'weekends off' are just ones where Im working in the mornings & have the afternoons & evenings free.

I get it that in the lead up to Christmas its nice to have abit of give to get everything ready, but at the end of the day its your job & you are getting paid to go. Why is it a problem?

justasking111 · 06/12/2024 01:18

You could be really sneaky. Text someone to say that the taxi didn't turn up and you'll be on a later train. Dang that train was cancelled.

I'd check the cost of train tickets on train line add in any other expenses and deduct it from a days net salary. Still looking good?

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 06/12/2024 04:09

Holldstock1 · 05/12/2024 22:37

I get that it may seem alot of effort but you are getting paid for it, are getting updated about the company you work for and having some down time with colleagues. And, you get to have time off over Christmas.

I work as a private self employed carer in the community and if I dont work I dont get paid. I also dont get paid for time taken or the cost of any training courses I have to take.

Dont get me wrong, I love my job and the people I work with - otherwise I wouldnt have done this for last 13 years. They really make it worthwhile, and I have to say its the most fulfilling job Ive ever done.

But, I will be working Christmas Eve, Christmas Day (8.00 am - 7 pm & believe me there have been years when its 6.45 am - 10.30 pm so Im counting myself lucky), Boxing Day, New Years etc etc. I work every day through the year unless Im on holiday.

Even my 'weekends off' are just ones where Im working in the mornings & have the afternoons & evenings free.

I get it that in the lead up to Christmas its nice to have abit of give to get everything ready, but at the end of the day its your job & you are getting paid to go. Why is it a problem?

The 6 plus hours (minimum) of travelling that is outside work hours that she isn’t paid for or reimbursed for and the short notice

malificent7 · 06/12/2024 05:22

The 24th is also a working day. I do think it's a pain but add it to the list of totally pointless things we need to do to earn a living.

ribiera · 06/12/2024 06:20

Make positive noises about it at work and call in sick with a tummy bug.

mitogoshigg · 06/12/2024 06:29

I'm surprised you aren't working Saturday and Sunday too. Shops are mostly open Christmas Eve until 4pm. Sorry no sympathy here as we are both working Christmas Eve but hopefully will be able to leave by 3pm

Stretchedresources · 06/12/2024 06:32

I doubt many employees want to go. I'd take it unpaid. You might start a trend and the daft CEO will take the hint.

Aposterhasnoname · 06/12/2024 06:33

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:39

As I said when the company opened
We were told we close black eye Friday
Also the days we are closed over Christmas come out of our holiday allowance

Of course the days it’s closed come out of your holiday allowance, you can’t possibly expect it not to.

CliffDoesNotSuckEggsInHell · 06/12/2024 06:44

Not read the whole thread but a 6 hour drive with no expenses is unreasonable. It’s also classed as a business trip - as you are driving for your employer and not to a normal place of work, so you’d need business cover on your insurance policy. Ask to see their travel policy - i wouldn’t be surprised if a bathroom company doesn’t have sales employees that are paid travel allowance. Legally they don’t have to pay mileage but they should have a policy. Then see if you can get the train and claim it. Tell them you aren’t insured for business travel and are not prepared to add this to your policy at your expense.

My job is in the management of driver compliance and training.

Bogginsthe3rd · 06/12/2024 06:48

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:38

It's the first year the company is over
We were told we break up on black eye Friday as all the traders are shut
Then now they have said they close on the Saturday but we have to go to Manchester on the Monday.

Black eye Friday is such a violent time of year

HobbyHorse30 · 06/12/2024 06:55

Is the day before Christmas Eve a public holiday in Newcastle? If the issue is the unpaid travel then call that the issue; going on about how it’s the day before Christmas Eve is childish. It’s a normal working day!

Bourneo · 06/12/2024 07:05

Sorry people are being so judgemental! I'd be really pissed off too. That would be my idea of hell driving for 6 hours over Xmas time when roads will be chaos. I'd rather work a normal day. Can you car share? Put some Xmas tunes on? Or all go on the train?

Really annoying if you now need to arrange childcare too. I'd be annoyed. But I guess you either need to take it unpaid, or as others said suck it up. I'd weigh up how much petrol/ train will cost and if you get that money back? Then find out what time you will be home. Will you be paid over time? Etc. Then see if it's financially and mentally worth the hassle.

Zanatdy · 06/12/2024 07:08

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:57

We aren't getting any travel expenses
We have been told we get 2 hours to use in January as a early finish

They expect you to pay your own travel? That’s not on. The roads will be chaos. They need to pay for the train for everyone. That will be busy too.

Bourneo · 06/12/2024 07:09

blinddoorshyt · 05/12/2024 09:57

We aren't getting any travel expenses
We have been told we get 2 hours to use in January as a early finish

Sent my reply before reading all of yours! Yeah, that would be a flat no from me. So stressful. I'd just take the pay hit. You'd lose the money either way (petrol, etc) plus you'll be shattered for Xmas day. Nightmare. What a stupid idea

olympicsrock · 06/12/2024 07:16

You do realise that both the 23rd and 24th are normal working days don’t you? Bank holidays are 25th and 26th.

Your employer is just using g the time for a company meeting when you are unlikely to be selling bathrooms .

The only annoying thing is the expectation that you will travel so far . They should pay your train or bus ticket with taxis .

YABU to think you shouldn’t work though and be paid for extra holiday.

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