Would you gift your SIL a christmas gift after she has been truly terrible to you and your family? Back in the summer my SIL (DH’s sister) and my husband had a massive fall out. She was truly terrible to him and myself in the aftermath. We have been no contact since then, however she has tried to make out that I’m a terrible person keeping our DC (we have 2 DC) away from her and she is not aloud to see them etc. this is not true at all, if she wants to see them, our door is open, but I am done going out of my way to make life easy for her after the complete disrespect she has shown us. Fast forward to now and whenever SIL sees me and my DC in public she completely ignores us, but tries to maintain a ‘loving aunt’ act to her friends and family. My DS had his birthday the other day. A party invite was sent to all in-laws, including SIL. Day before the party she created a huge scene, practically threw a gift at my DS and declared she would not be coming to his party as she was not welcome! My DH was there and told her quite sternly that she knew full well she was invited and to stop being dramatic. Anyway, she turned up at the party, didnt talk to anyone, got up, put her coat on and left without a word 🥴.
DH thinks we should give her an Xmas gift and a card to ‘be the bigger people’ and to not give her ‘anymore ammunition’ I quite frankly don't want to be the bigger person atm Im so done 😂
gift? No gift? Horrible gift? Tips in moving to Australia gift??