to think that the girl my dh kissed should not stand gawping at me in the playground?

[cheesesarnie]

i just need a little rant-none of friends are about and im wound up!!
i posted (as moljam)last year saying about my dh kissing a 16 year old girl.she started being where ever i was and generally doing my head in.dh and i had lots to work though but work through it we did!anyway-today she was in the playground at pick up time again.today i must be looking fab as she couldnt stop starring(maybe i had something on my face).is it unreasonable to want to pick up my dc without a stupid little girl who likes other peoples husbands/partners who are much older than her to stare?

sorry rant over

Oh youre doing the right thing then cheesesarnie and rant away!!

Sorry, I think the word "slag" is vile and misogynistic but you are of course welcome to express yourself as you see fit, notjustmom.

ooh jolly good.i'll keep up the ignoring!(im too much of a wimp to even say anything anyway)just annoys me as why should i feel uncomfortable in front of my children and their friends and parents etc.

Sounds like she'll move on to another victim soon cheesesarnie, hope you don't bump into her again soon.

shes had quite a few victims since-two have been friends dps.and it is small place so cant not see her.i'll just make sure i always look my best lol

very true

Oh thank god for dittany. I think it's the dps/dh who are the 'slags' in this situation.

ok notjustmom

cheesesarnie judging by your profile pics you are very attractive, she prob feels intimidated by you.

attractive??????god the camera lies

dittany-dh is 42,most the others are similar ages.youngest i know of is 30.
yes i know they including my dh are all idiots and just as bad.

oh yes, so you are, kerryk is probably right.

Probably right about her being intimidated I mean, you're definitely very attractive.

they didnt do it in a group.she seems to be attracted to older men.

btw FreddysTeddy and kerryk thankyou-i think your screen must need cleaning but thankyou

Cheesesarnie, agree with freddy, ignore her, shes acting like a child because she is one. I cant believe she can truly understand the enormity of the harm she helped cause, shes to young to know that, so to me its just silly girl behaviour.

Be strong, head up, a knowing glance if need be, but only in a smarmy way, no aggression, and blank the girl from your mind.

Although you could be right, you may well have looked extremely lovely today and she was in ore!!

Cheese I just checked you out, you look good, dh must have a white stick, right then, exude confidence next time you see her. Nothing to worry about!!

pmsl-i put my pics on profile because it was a thread saying are all mners pretty.i said no im not

yes you are!

I would ignore her, as if you don't recognise her.