Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Is ExH entitled to enter property after all this time?

157 replies

Lollygirl15 · 28/11/2024 07:51

Been separated 8 years but kept family home in joint names until DC finished education. I have paid mortgage solely. He has own place and all belongings were sorted on separation so has nothing at the house. Been fairly amicable until recently but strained now as we are divorcing and sorting finances. After one of his solicitor appointments he mentioned having a key! New door was fitted a few years ago after old one broke and he has never had a key.
I understand that as joint owner he has a legal right of entry and I’d happily let him if if he had a legitimate reason but surely after all these years he can’t get a locksmith to break in or come change the lock? He has no ID for the house. Surely I have a right to family life and privacy?

OP posts:
exprecis · 04/12/2024 21:26

Lollygirl15 · 28/11/2024 08:16

I accept legally he has a right of entry. So how would he go about this? Would a locksmith change the lock on his say so if I was on holiday for example? Surely he would need to produce some sort of proof?

I don't know what a locksmith would ask to see but I can't see that it would be difficult for him to prove he is an owner - he could get a copy of the title register quite straightforwardly or show a copy of of the deeds or a recent mortgage statement

Dogsbreath7 · 04/12/2024 22:18

You need to clarify with your solicitor but certainly morally he has no right of entry just as a landlord has no right to enter a tenanted property without ( emergency/ prior notice) reason. I hope you have your financial position in relation to your sole contribution to the mortgage protected but given increase in property prices it was rather silly not to have had an agreement at point of separation that his % share was limited to the value at that time.

If he purchased another property and also gained on that increase value you should argue that that is equally marriage assets.

Mygrandkidsaregreat · 05/12/2024 00:49

Put bolts on the door you give him a key to and go out of the house through the other door!

prh47bridge · 05/12/2024 07:36

Dogsbreath7 · 04/12/2024 22:18

You need to clarify with your solicitor but certainly morally he has no right of entry just as a landlord has no right to enter a tenanted property without ( emergency/ prior notice) reason. I hope you have your financial position in relation to your sole contribution to the mortgage protected but given increase in property prices it was rather silly not to have had an agreement at point of separation that his % share was limited to the value at that time.

If he purchased another property and also gained on that increase value you should argue that that is equally marriage assets.

People keep comparing this with the position of a landlord. The two are very different. This is the marital home. They are still married, and he is joint owner. He is entitled to enter.

OP doesn't need to argue that any home he has purchased is a marital asset. It isn't, but it will still go into the pot to be divided between them.

prh47bridge · 05/12/2024 07:36

Mygrandkidsaregreat · 05/12/2024 00:49

Put bolts on the door you give him a key to and go out of the house through the other door!

Don't do this. If you do, he is entitled to break down the bolted door. If you want to exclude him, the right way to do it is to get an occupation order.

changeme4this · 06/12/2024 00:34

We once re-possessed a company car a former employee was hanging onto. We showed the tow truck driver ownership papers and the car was hooked up straight away and taken elsewhere on our behalf.

I would be getting his name off the records.

SilverChampagne · 06/12/2024 12:11

changeme4this · 06/12/2024 00:34

We once re-possessed a company car a former employee was hanging onto. We showed the tow truck driver ownership papers and the car was hooked up straight away and taken elsewhere on our behalf.

I would be getting his name off the records.

And how exactly would you do that?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread