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AIBU?

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To wonder if everyone has pudding/dessert after their main evening meal?

101 replies

sweeneytoddsrazor · 22/11/2024 19:35

Whenever meal threads come up it seems the majority of MN have something after their main meal even if its just fruit or yoghurt. I usually have fruit or yoghurt as part of my lunchtime meal and evenings are just the one course. Am I in the minority? Obviously if I want anything later as a snack I do so but it's certainly not routine.

YABU you always have something after your main meal

YANBU you never/rarely have something after your main meal

OP posts:
Ribenaberry12 · 22/11/2024 20:05

Yes. Although I really bloody shouldn’t.

coffeesaveslives · 22/11/2024 20:05

Not right away, but I often have a KitKat or a penguin bar or something an hour or two later.

Wendolino · 22/11/2024 20:07

Growing up we had a pudding every night, rice pudding or something with custard.
Now, I rarely have pudding. DH has a yoghurt but I don't bother.

graceinspace999 · 22/11/2024 20:07

Lindjam · 22/11/2024 20:03

Some nights I only have pudding 😂

I had an uncle who lived to 96 eating only deserts like Butterscotch angel delight. He refused dinner.

Towards the end of his life you could practically see through him.

overmydeadbody · 22/11/2024 20:07

Yes we have pudding or some sort every evening. I wouldn't personally but dh and the DC love it and couldn't go without it. Sometimes it's just Greek yoghurt and honey, or a biscuit if there is nothing, but it's mostly a home made cake of some sort. Made by any of us.

We're all slim and all do lots of physical activity so I don't see any harm in it. Don't have anything sweet at lunchtime though.

Rumpunch90 · 22/11/2024 20:09

Always something sweet or a pudding, yes. I’ve a major sweet tooth so “have to!

RockyFowlboa · 22/11/2024 20:11

I rarely eat "dessert." I do often have sweets on their own during the day, though.

Janeypatterson · 22/11/2024 20:13

Always a pudding after lunch and evening meal: fruit and/ or yoghurt.

Janeypatterson · 22/11/2024 20:16

Like the sound of the 96 year old butterscotch Angel Delight eater. I had a great grandma who got by for years on little more than sugar puffs, tea and Guinness.

SocksAndTheCity · 22/11/2024 20:17

Always. I don't feel as if dinner is finished without it, although the specifics vary according to tiredness/energy and the time of year.

Butterscotch Angel Delight is a good shout @graceinspace999 😊

tulippa · 22/11/2024 20:17

I prefer savoury foods so fill up on those. Rarely have dessert after a meal out either - I'd rather have a starter. I have fruit with breakfast,

Pineapplewaves · 22/11/2024 20:18

We always have pudding - cake, rice pudding, ice cream, pie/crumble & custard, chocolate bar, every evening after dinner and if we eat out.

Barney16 · 22/11/2024 20:21

I wish I could, I'm always too full after the main meal. Quite often though I have a cake for lunch. DP has an ice cream every single night. Christmas I love. I have cake for breakfast. Anything goes at Christmas.

Cherrysoup · 22/11/2024 20:22

Never, but I’m a terrible snacker so might have a handful of olives/nuts later or some grapes/bits of protein bar.

SpilltheTea · 22/11/2024 20:22

I don't, but I might have something during the day instead. I look longingly at the dessert menus in restaurants and then am always full after the meal, so I don't get one.

ThePoshUns · 22/11/2024 20:23

Very rarely, maybe in a Sunday. Not something we have ever done really.

CastleTulipCake · 22/11/2024 20:23

We always have pudding.
Child has a yoghurt.
I normally have some chocolate or biscuits. Occasionally a sponge pudding or cake.
I have a big sweet tooth though.

KnopkaPixie · 22/11/2024 20:25

Sometimes I go beserk and have a bit of a sweety treaty to keep me going if the usually quite late evening meal is taking too long to cook, thus,

Ruining my appetite!
Filling up on junk!

Or, as I like to see it, replenishing with quickly absorbable glucose to help me towards the final sprint at the end of a long day.

Other people say, "She's had backwards dinner again."

soupfiend · 22/11/2024 20:28

I wasnt bought up with pudding or afters, but if I was going to have an afters it wouldnt be something like yoghurt or fruit

I would rather go without than have that as a pudding. We dont really do pudding here, Im more likely to go hunting around the kitchen for other snacks like crisps, cheese and biscuits or nuts. We do eat a lot of dried fruit though

MisoMouse · 22/11/2024 20:38

If anything something like 0% fat yogurt, honey and raspberries/blueberries

Elphamouche · 22/11/2024 20:47

We always have some chocolate or something. Actual desserts for special occasions (or after a roast! Special occasion for us, we hardly ever have time!)

stargazerlil · 22/11/2024 20:57

Dark chocolate biscuit or brownie. The dark chocolate is magnesium rich so helps relaxation, the sugar is glucose and glucose helps pass all the minerals from your meal through the digestive tract into the cells and the blood, which will also create relaxation.
Yes there is a scientific reason for pudding! 😀

SpanThatWorld · 22/11/2024 20:57

Always have a dessert. Might be ice cream, yoghurt, chocolate etc. Proper crumbles etc at the weekend.

BoobyDazzler · 22/11/2024 21:00

Only ever on Sundays or high days (Christmas, family meals), i’d be fat as fuck If we had puddings every day.

Frumsn · 22/11/2024 21:01

What no. I'd assume only posh people did it

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