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AIBU?

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Unwanted Christmas gifts

53 replies

CoffeeNeededorWine · 16/11/2024 08:20

How do you deal with expensive unwanted Christmas presents?

My mum has bought me something expensive for Christmas. My sister tried to gently suggest it wouldn’t be something o wanted. Sister has told me what it is. My mum is really excited and think I’ll love it. I won’t. It’s something I’d never use and I feel awful because my lovely mum has spent so much money on this gift. We spent a fair amount of time together as a family so she’s going to know I’m not using it. What do I do? How do people deal with this?

AIBU not saying anything? I don’t want to hurt her feelings. But then I don’t want her to waste her money.

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PassingStranger · 16/11/2024 19:16

CoffeeNeededorWine · 16/11/2024 08:20

How do you deal with expensive unwanted Christmas presents?

My mum has bought me something expensive for Christmas. My sister tried to gently suggest it wouldn’t be something o wanted. Sister has told me what it is. My mum is really excited and think I’ll love it. I won’t. It’s something I’d never use and I feel awful because my lovely mum has spent so much money on this gift. We spent a fair amount of time together as a family so she’s going to know I’m not using it. What do I do? How do people deal with this?

AIBU not saying anything? I don’t want to hurt her feelings. But then I don’t want her to waste her money.

Knock present buying on the head easy. This is a fine example of how it's more hassle than it's worth.

Peskydahlias · 16/11/2024 19:30

My dad does this, not my mum. Id never upset him. He's actually bought me a Camara! I use it for family occasions in the house and don't often take it outside. I send him the photos. He's just generous but ultimately bad at picking what I'd actually want. I really wouldn't upset your mum if you have a good relationship with her.

BunnyLake · 16/11/2024 20:13

ElatedShark · 16/11/2024 12:30

You can't be that close if you can't be honest about something so trivial.

Just re gift it back to her on her birthday 😉

I bet you wouldn’t dream of doing such a horrible thing in real life.

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