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Love the uk life

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Vegasxxcort · 13/11/2024 02:50

I am on here daily wishing i was like ya'll born in the uk .

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eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 13/11/2024 17:00

What a random post...

Lisanoonan · 13/11/2024 17:01

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 13/11/2024 17:00

What a random post...

Mine?

I was replying to a poster

So how could it be random .

Have you been following the thread?

Lisanoonan · 13/11/2024 17:06

My point is : some people on this thread wrote that we are lucky to live in the UK, because it is very difficult for other people to get into the UK to live here. That they have to give up a lot.

I pointed out that it's the same everywhere, due to visa issues.

It's very hard for non EU people to get citizenship in the republic of Ireland. I've lived in Ireland. One man told me that it took him 7 years to get citizenship of Ireland.

It's also extremely hard for people to get a visa to live in the USA , if they were not born there.

People not being able to get in to live in the UK easily, doesn't mean that the UK is great

That is how the visa process is everywhere

hailu · 13/11/2024 18:12

timetodecide2345 · 13/11/2024 05:25

Did your neighbour vote Trump?

Don't tell me - you would like to move to Scotland? You imagine curling up reading Harry Potter by a big open fire on the banks of a loch with deer roaming outside?

In reality without a shed load of cash you may end up in a high rise flat in Preston.

Only joking. I just keep seeing endless threads on Instagram about Americans wanting to relocate to Scotland. Not England, just Scotland!

And the local Lord turns up to help when something goes wrong in your cottage, except you don't know he's the Lord because he's scruffy looking and soon you fall in love and then find out he lives in the castle and is filthy rich. Then you have a wedding with everyone dressed in kilts and you have a ceilidh and live happily ever after.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 13/11/2024 18:16

timetodecide2345 · 13/11/2024 16:34

@EverythingAllatOnceAllTheTime you know the opposite of woke is basically Nazism don't you? You believe in racism and discrimination.

Do you actually know what the word woke means?

Words change meaning. Like many words, woke simply does not mean what it originally meant.

RamblingEclectic · 13/11/2024 18:25

YANBU. I immigrated to the UK a couple decades ago, am quite happy here, and am glad my children have most of the benefits of being native born.

you know the opposite of woke is basically Nazism don't you?

To my knowledge, the original opposite of woke is unaware - woke just meant someone fully aware of the situation, as opposed to sleeping on it/unaware.

As others said, then its meaning shifted to mean a particular political/ideological view, aware within a very specific lens that treats itself as the only lens that is now mostly used in mockery of that idea, so the opposite would be willing to use multiple viewpoints.

ArcticBells · 13/11/2024 19:20

I'd love to live in the US. There's just so much space and I long to live in the middle of nowhere. Most Americans are also much more cheerful and polite than the Brits

dottiehens · 13/11/2024 19:50

Well your sarcasm is spot on British so are sure you are not from here?

Lisanoonan · 13/11/2024 19:52

The uk is a bit of a dump lately to be fair

KimberleyClark · 13/11/2024 20:45

I’m another who loves the UK and feel lucky to have been born here. I embarrass myself sometimes, with how I feel about it.

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 13/11/2024 23:45

It's really not that great, I wouldn't recommend it to anybody. Shitty weather, shittier salaries, high taxes, high cost of living. I know Trump is an incompetent piece of shit but hopefully you can shut him out and work on making things better locally. Unless you live in a Republican state in which case, move, ASAP.

TooBigForMyBoots · 14/11/2024 00:19

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 13/11/2024 18:16

Words change meaning. Like many words, woke simply does not mean what it originally meant.

What does it mean nowadays?

Lisanoonan · 14/11/2024 00:21

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 13/11/2024 23:45

It's really not that great, I wouldn't recommend it to anybody. Shitty weather, shittier salaries, high taxes, high cost of living. I know Trump is an incompetent piece of shit but hopefully you can shut him out and work on making things better locally. Unless you live in a Republican state in which case, move, ASAP.

Where is really not that great. Do you mean the UK?

BetterInColour · 14/11/2024 00:27

@Newnamehiwhodis I love it too. Spent a lot of time there - but it was long ago, and really, is there anything at all to beat London in the ‘90’s … ahhhh it was so lovely I lived in London in the 90s and early 2000's when it was all Cool Britannia, and it did feel cool. Loved it so much, Bridget Jones type lifestyle in a lovely if small studio, on a starter wage, the best times.

BetterInColour · 14/11/2024 00:29

I love my bit of the UK, but I have been to many places where I would not want to live. It's pretty free though, the downside is it looks scruffy but on the upside, no one is expecting you to have a manicured lawn, no-one cares what you look like and there are a lot of different types of people all living alongside each other, mostly getting on ok. This is very different than even our close neighbours in Europe, depending on where of course.

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 14/11/2024 00:41

Lisanoonan · 14/11/2024 00:21

Where is really not that great. Do you mean the UK?

The UK is not great. I've lived in both the UK and US and US has a much higher standard of living.

timetodecide2345 · 14/11/2024 00:50

@AnotherChildFreeCatLady what do you base your assessment of 'higher standard of living'?

Lisanoonan · 14/11/2024 00:52

timetodecide2345 · 14/11/2024 00:50

@AnotherChildFreeCatLady what do you base your assessment of 'higher standard of living'?

Well there's more to do for a start

Elphamouche · 14/11/2024 00:54

I wouldn’t live anywhere else! We travel a lot, but there’s nothing like coming home.

Yes the COL is tough, we are a couple in our 30s with a baby. We both work 2 jobs and that’s tough - but we can enjoy life with a bit of planning because of that.

user1484745101 · 14/11/2024 00:55

Crushed23 · 13/11/2024 06:37

MN isn't the place to find love for the UK.

I personally LOVE it here.

I am sadly emigrating very soon (due to stagnant wages / COL) but I will definitely miss it like crazy.

I loved it too but moved to a very high quality of living country ( acc to ratinngs) in Europe but I find it dull here and prefer UK, waiting for things to get better so can move back.

user1484745101 · 14/11/2024 00:57

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 14/11/2024 00:41

The UK is not great. I've lived in both the UK and US and US has a much higher standard of living.

It depends what you define high standard of living. Material things yes, otherwise not really.

user1484745101 · 14/11/2024 00:59

Lisanoonan · 13/11/2024 19:52

The uk is a bit of a dump lately to be fair

Many places are.

user1484745101 · 14/11/2024 01:01

ArcticBells · 13/11/2024 19:20

I'd love to live in the US. There's just so much space and I long to live in the middle of nowhere. Most Americans are also much more cheerful and polite than the Brits

Polite?? Have you been to the state lately?

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 14/11/2024 01:06

timetodecide2345 · 14/11/2024 00:50

@AnotherChildFreeCatLady what do you base your assessment of 'higher standard of living'?

Better salaries, lower tax, lower overall cost of living, bigger country with more to explore, better and bigger houses, better weather, better healthcare (if you can afford it of course), umm I'm sure there's more.

AnotherChildFreeCatLady · 14/11/2024 01:12

ArcticBells · 13/11/2024 19:20

I'd love to live in the US. There's just so much space and I long to live in the middle of nowhere. Most Americans are also much more cheerful and polite than the Brits

I have said the same thing about Americans being more cheerful and people always laugh and think I'm crazy but it's very true. My experience of the people in the UK (not friends or family, but neighbours, service workers, strangers you see regularly) is that they are bitter and downright horrible most of the time. We were driven from our last house largely bc the neighbours were absolute cunts. Oh, the one and only upside to being in the UK, I can say "cunt" and nobody cares. I guess that's something ..

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