MIL in hospital, DH agreed to look after her cat (I’m mildly allergic so not impressed but antihistamines are working).
The thing is I have a fish and shellfish allergy. Cat is given fish or prawns every day. Obviously we can’t do that and have been giving alternatives but DH thinks it’s unfair on the cat, has told MIL who is now sad in hospital and texting about it - all the time. I’ve told dh is anyone mentions it to me one more time I’m putting the cat in the carrier and taking it over to SIL flat and that will be the end of us looking after it as I’m not prepared to risk my health.
Apparently I’m unkind and should be putting cat first as she’s in a strange house and being given different food