When we were looking for a three bedroom, a lot of homes (non-new build) were advertised as three bedrooms but what they actually were were two bedrooms (not doubles) and a third that was could barely fit a crib. The one we did find eventually, the third bedroom was a bit bigger and there was a massive garden but we ended up having to move because the last owners had some work done by a builder friend and he hadn’t done it properly and it was something that an inspector would miss because it was underneath the house.
It was an older house and DH didn’t want to go through it again with another older house so he looked into new builds. We’ve been in ours and love it, four double bedrooms, three loos, front and back garden, plenty of parks and safe, well-lit areas to walk, close to everything we need including public transport.
Only downside for us, well, autistic DS1 is it not being detached. I don’t hear the neighbours’ appliances (semi-detached) unless I really strain but he does.
Looking back at the other house we were in, it would have been a problem for him and us and we would have had to move anyway because where we were last, it was a narrow path separating us from the neighbour on one side and a wall from the neighbour on the other.
I would rather buy out our neighbours if we could than move somewhere else.
Detached homes in our county are an extra £100,000 from what I’ve seen and I think that is ludicrous.