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Stuff that didn’t seem weird at the time but when you tell someone younger they think it’s nuts

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MildGreenDairyLiquid · 31/10/2024 00:27

Just that really.

The other day I explained to my 11 year old niece that when I was at junior school we used to have a small bottle of milk with a straw every morning, and she looked at me like I’d lost my mind.

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Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:53

"Random teenage girls doing babysitting."

It wasn't generally totally random though as it was usually for neighbours so people knew each other.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 31/10/2024 09:54

VeryGoodVeryNice · 31/10/2024 01:04

Was just thinking about this one tonight. These days, you have thousands of films at your fingertips on Netflix/Prime etc. If you start watching one and it’s rubbish, you just find something else.

We used to have to go to the VIDEO SHOP, eg Blockbuster, and peruse the shelves for a video to hire (for about £4 if I remember correctly which wasn’t cheap!). No online reviews or anything to aid our choices. In my case that also involved driving 12 miles to the video shop. Whilst there you could also buy some overpriced snacks. And if the film turned out to be rubbish, tough bananas. Then the next day you had to drive back to the video shop to take it back. Mind boggling nowadays.

When I was a child we didn't even have the video shop. It was whatever was on TV. It was quite a long time between a film being at the cinema and then being shown on TV and everyone watched whatever the 'big film' was that was shown at Christmas.

drspouse · 31/10/2024 09:55

Blarn · 31/10/2024 09:52

We used to have Christmas parties at work on a spare floor. We all clubbed together for a dj and drinks. I don't think anyone I work with would even consider having a glass of wine at lunch now, let alone drinking cava from a plastic cup at their desk, pre-party!

Dc were intrigued by tv programmes just stopping on the BBC, National anthem playing and then ceefax or the OU playing until morning.

I remember it being fine to let dogs out and they would return around teatime. Just dogs roaming around.

We do in my place - but we make an effort to be sociable - promotions etc., the odd big birthday.

MagicianMoth · 31/10/2024 09:55

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:36

Do no young women now have short or shoulder length hair? I haven't noticed that.

Watching old re-runs of Brookside, I was reminded of 90s things we hardly ever see now - French plats is grown women's hair and wearing a very baggy top with a long skirt.

My 14 year old said “I thought you went to a girls school” when he saw my class photo - because many of the girls had short hair he thought they were boys. Not one of the girls in his class has what I would call short hair, and hardly any have shoulder length, they all have long hair.

edited to add Reading back that’s a bit confusing - I did go to a girls school and he knew that, but when he saw the photo he thought it was mixed

KimberleyClark · 31/10/2024 09:56

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:36

Do no young women now have short or shoulder length hair? I haven't noticed that.

Watching old re-runs of Brookside, I was reminded of 90s things we hardly ever see now - French plats is grown women's hair and wearing a very baggy top with a long skirt.

Most of them seem to. The current Miss France, Eve Gilles, sports a pixie cut. She is absolutely stunning. I don’t normally have any interest in beauty contests but I was delighted to see a winner not conforming to conventional stereotypes of female beauty.

Victoriancat · 31/10/2024 09:56

My son found our old Disc man cd player under the bed and thought it was a Roomba 😅 he also asks me about the 90s constantly like it was a magical time of yesteryear

TattedBarley · 31/10/2024 09:57

RockyRogue1001 · 31/10/2024 00:52

I was going to say a landline telephone with a number you knew off by heart ☎️

Oh my god, I haven’t thought about my childhood landline number for years until this comment…and I’ve realised I still know it off by heart!

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:57

MagicianMoth · 31/10/2024 09:55

My 14 year old said “I thought you went to a girls school” when he saw my class photo - because many of the girls had short hair he thought they were boys. Not one of the girls in his class has what I would call short hair, and hardly any have shoulder length, they all have long hair.

edited to add Reading back that’s a bit confusing - I did go to a girls school and he knew that, but when he saw the photo he thought it was mixed

Edited

Thanks. I do remember certain short styles being fashionable in the 80s, but I hadn't realised no girls have short hair now. Not even shoulder length!

CheekySwan · 31/10/2024 09:59

zeddybrek · 31/10/2024 01:14

ASOS started as an online company selling stuff you saw in TV shows or movies. As Seen On Screen.

I remember buying a replica keyring from Kill Bill when it came out.

It was fab! You could put in your favourite celebrity or tv show and shop the style!

BMW6 · 31/10/2024 09:59

When I joined the Inland Revenue (as HMRC was called then) in 1975 age 17 there were

No computers
No calculators

We calculated people's tax using paper books of tables to give % of any number, a pencil and paper.

As it was all done manually you had to do a reconciliation every time to prove your calculations were correct.

I hadn't been very good at maths at school (CSE grade 2) but I got much better in those conditions

Georgyporky · 31/10/2024 10:00

Sainsburys did not sell bread. You had to queue up at different counters to buy butter, cheese, bacon etc.

M&S did not sell food at all.

SinnerBoy · 31/10/2024 10:01

Gwenhwyfar · Today 09:33

I was going to say about phone boxes, although some of them now have a defibrillator inside rather than a phone.

You've reminded me of a bit of a sad even from 1984, when I was 14.

There was a local bloke called Woody (he was the double of Woody Allen) who was a harmless care in the community case. One evening, I notice him waving at me from a phone box and I went over; there was a kerb stone laid against the door, trapping him.

I went to try to move it and 4 18 / 19 year olds told me, in on uncertain terms, to leave it. I slunk off fearfully. It transpired that he'd rung 999 for help and when the Police turned up, they stood and laughed, then drove off.

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 10:02

CountryShepherd · 31/10/2024 08:12

In 1987, I joined the civil service. We used to have manilla envelopes, closed with a bit of string you wound round a little card circle to close them. You would put your internal memo in, write the destination below the previous recipient in the address box then someone would come round with a trolley and take it to the post room for distribution.

Everyone was addressed by their title eg 'miss karen juniormanager'

I remember a friend working for BP telling me about internal email - mind blown.

I've seen those envelopes although they weren't necessarily used like that when I started working around the millennium. I remember my boss telling me they would push papers down pipes for internal post and I was quite intrigued as well. Everywhere I've worked just had pigeon holes and now even that's been abandoned because the volume of physical post doesn't justify it.

CentrifugalBumblePuppy · 31/10/2024 10:03

I was 14 when I started as a Saturday morning dental extractions nurse (mid 80s-ish). This was back in the old days when you’d have an anaesthesiologist visiting the surgery.

I responsible for washing & autoclaving tools/equipment as the morning progressed (normally at elevensies when we’d swap dentists). Even at the height of the AIDS crisis, we never had gloves (I remember having coagulating blood swirling around my fingers as I rinsed before sterilising), which was pretty bloody stupid then & utterly incomprehensible now, but there was another, extraction nurse duty that sounds so bizarre as to be almost fiction (although I can promise you it isn’t).

When under sedation, some patients would go completely rigid, and would rise out of the chair (a normal reclining dental chair), so my job would be to straddle the planked patient, grab both arm rests and physically hold the patient back down onto the seat.

Then I’d dismount, patient would be brought round, and I’d escort them to the recovery room (calling for their relatives as I went), then off to the next patient.

And that was everything rigid; climbing onto an unconscious bloke, at 14, across his groin… no wonder therapy was not far behind!

Saying that, it wasn’t too bad a job. I knew the Gas Man (dad of daughters I played hockey with), and the dentists themselves were epic, but can you imagine even suggesting this job today?!

I also had to be present for Sunday emergency nursing if it was our turn to be the local dentist on call; 14, doing everything expected of a normal dental nurse (developing X rays, composite fillings, basic emergency surgery, the whole shebang).

And having to walk to the local licensing place to get a work permit every year lol!

The 80s were mad.

I then went into a very long career in tech theatre crewing (continuing thru and beyond Uni where I was training as a teacher), where men were paid £2.58 and hour but not having a penis meant we were paid the ‘woman’s wage’ at £1.85 an hour! FOR EXACTLY THE SAME JOB!

Utterly bonkers!

vegaspot · 31/10/2024 10:04

converseandjeans · 31/10/2024 01:05

  • Landline in hallway & only allowed to use after 6pm
  • Having no phone at uni & having to send handwritten letters
  • Being able to stroll down the high street to a record shop about 3 weeks before Glasto to buy a ticket
  • Smoking in cinemas, restaurants, on the bus etc
  • No remote control
  • No TV at certain times of day
  • Having to wait until roll of film finished to send off photos & so no retakes if it was a rubbish photo
  • All having to watch a TV programme at same time

Yes all of these and the anticipation of photos being delivered after a holiday romance 🤦‍♀️

Laiste · 31/10/2024 10:04

There's one girl in DD4 (yr6) class with a bob. She's got shiney nut brown hair and it does look really nice. She clips up one side with a hair slide.

I was never allowed to have my hair long as a child 70/80s. My mother favoured the bowl cut and short fringe. God forbid a hair got anywhere near an eyeball 😂

I've got 4 daughters and i've always let them grow their hair as long as they liked, with no fringe 🙂 (visibly pissed my mum off and i've no real idea why!)

SinnerBoy · 31/10/2024 10:06

CentrifugalBumblePuppy · Today 10:03

I was 14 when I started as a Saturday morning dental extractions nurse

Blimey! That's quite a story!

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 10:06

Commonsense22 · 31/10/2024 08:34

Lines I actually really wish was still a thing. It's not a cruel punishment and does mark the occasion.

I had to write an essay about why I shouldn't talk in class. Lines would have been much easier! They were already seen as old fashioned in the 90s.

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 10:06

Thepeopleversuswork · 31/10/2024 05:23

I was caned at primary school: was shortly before it got banned. My sister reminded me of this and I mentally double took. It now seems so outrageously cruel and old fashioned I wondered if I had misremembered.

My first teaching job was in the school my OH had attended years earlier and one of the senior teachers found out who I was. One break he called my up to his lab and had a very dusty book on the bench, it was the punishment book from when OH had been a pupil and his name featured regularly, 'caned, late', 'caned, smoking', I pointed out that it didn't seem to have improved him at all, he still smoked too much!

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 10:09

CountryShepherd · 31/10/2024 08:12

In 1987, I joined the civil service. We used to have manilla envelopes, closed with a bit of string you wound round a little card circle to close them. You would put your internal memo in, write the destination below the previous recipient in the address box then someone would come round with a trolley and take it to the post room for distribution.

Everyone was addressed by their title eg 'miss karen juniormanager'

I remember a friend working for BP telling me about internal email - mind blown.

Being probably much older I recall paying in large shops where the assistant would put your money and bill into a little cannister, yank it and this flew across the ceiling, returning a few minutes later with your change!

ElleneAsanto · 31/10/2024 10:10

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 09:42

When the rag and bone man came round on his horse and cart my Dad would be out there with a bucket and spade to collect the horse's 'droppings', Dad had lovely roses!

“Why does your dad pick up the horse poo?”

”To put on the rhubarb”

” yuck.. we put custard on ours…”

Very old dad joke.

Commonsense22 · 31/10/2024 10:11

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 10:06

I had to write an essay about why I shouldn't talk in class. Lines would have been much easier! They were already seen as old fashioned in the 90s.

I know - an essay would be good for particularly egregious misdemeanors I guess! Sometimes I thunk we replace things that are just fine with much worse.

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 10:13

GoldenLegend · 31/10/2024 09:18

The first email I ever sent was to someone in Uzbekistan. They wanted a copy of our annual report but pdfs hadn’t been invented so it had to go snail mail.

I asked how long it would take for the email to arrive.

‘Four seconds.’

Mind. Blown.

I remember an old boss asking (around 2001) 'how much are all these emails costing me?'. He thought you paid per message like with the post.

Thunderlegs · 31/10/2024 10:13

A PowerPoint presentation was on a projector wheeled around. The teacher put hand written transparent sheets on and moved the projector back and forth to focus. One corner was always a bit blurry and unfocused. The writing was often in green or red pen. You had to decipher it as best you could. This was better than chalk on the board

ruethewhirl · 31/10/2024 10:14

Stopsnowing · 31/10/2024 07:13

Rumour parents could know exactly who you had been speaking to (assuming they hadn’t been listening to your call in the hall at the time!) Now we have no idea who are children are communicating with.

Mine had an uncanny habit of needing to make a cup of tea every time I was on the phone (which was in the kitchen). 🙄And if they hadn't managed to figure out who I was talking to, it'd be 'Who was that?' as soon as I was off the phone. I wasn't exactly a wild child so it was total overkill.

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