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Stuff that didn’t seem weird at the time but when you tell someone younger they think it’s nuts

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MildGreenDairyLiquid · 31/10/2024 00:27

Just that really.

The other day I explained to my 11 year old niece that when I was at junior school we used to have a small bottle of milk with a straw every morning, and she looked at me like I’d lost my mind.

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Dyslexiateacherpost88 · 31/10/2024 09:31

Going to meet someone, they couldn't come last-minute or got stuck in traffic and without a mobile phone you had no idea. I once waited 2 hours for a friend as she suddenly got poorly and we were meeting halfway. It was only when I hit home and phoned on a landline I found out. You never knew if you had the right place yo meet either do you'd wander round e.g. meet at the entrance, without Internet you might not know there's 3 different entrances and you're walking around to different ones looking for each other and keep missing each other. There were so many tannoy announcements. Couldn't find my cousins at a concert and turns out they were standing once side of a pillar and we were the other. We found them at the end. Ha!

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:33

mitogoshigg · 31/10/2024 01:10

But phone boxes still exist, and we still watch live tv with my dc - and my dc had milk at school too. These things aren't obsolete

I was going to say about phone boxes, although some of them now have a defibrillator inside rather than a phone.

UtterlyOtterly · 31/10/2024 09:33

The main library in our city had a record lending department. You had to take your record player needle in to show to the very scary man behind the desk. He would inspect it with a magnifying glass to make sure it wouldn't damage the records and then you got a special card. You could borrow three records at a time. My adult DC find that almost unbelievable now.

I still have various things my mother got with green shield stamps. An early form of loyalty card I guess.

Did anyone else do "three rings"? If you were travelling home from family, you had to phone them when you got back and let the phone ring three times before putting the receiver down. Then your mum or whoever would do the same back to let you know they had got the message that you were back safely. All to save about a farthing on the cost of actually saying you were home.

Doing "Bob a Job" for Brownies where you knocked on complete stranger's doors and asked if you could do a house or garden task in return for a shilling. A complete safeguarding fail, but I never heard of anything actually going wrong.

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:36

tobee · 31/10/2024 02:53

My adult autistic dd still thinks it's weird that teenagers and young women had short/shoulder length hair in the 80s!! She's always slightly shocked by them if there's any tv shows from that era.

Phoning up British Rail Inquiries to ask the time of your train journey

Phoning a recorded message and it listing all the show times on at the cinema

Do no young women now have short or shoulder length hair? I haven't noticed that.

Watching old re-runs of Brookside, I was reminded of 90s things we hardly ever see now - French plats is grown women's hair and wearing a very baggy top with a long skirt.

Fgfgfg · 31/10/2024 09:36

anon202420252026 · 31/10/2024 09:07

Staff used to smoke in the staff room at school.

Teacher smoked a pipe at his desk. Some of the women teachers had overflowing ashtrays on their desks and the most glamorous one used a cigarette holder. 1970's

HelenInHeels · 31/10/2024 09:37

distinctpossibility · 31/10/2024 07:14

I'm only 36 but I am often reminded of my mum's "Days out folder" which lived in the cupboard under the stairs - a collection of leaflets, handwritten holiday cottage recommendations, vouchers from local newspapers and letters back from B&Bs she had made enquiries with. This would then be decanted into a smaller and more precise "Days out envelope" which she kept in her handbag when we went on a day out / holiday.

Going for a day out from 10am until 6pm in the height of summer on one carton of Kia Ora. I remember how incredulous we all were when my mum once "treated us" to a bottle of Volvic on a day out - to share between the 5 of us and "whet our whistles".

The Little Chef on long journeys and the orange lollipop being such a treat.

Getting a new rented tv "and VCR!" in about 1996

I have one of those and it's in the cupboard under the stairs!

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 09:37

RockyRogue1001 · 31/10/2024 00:52

I was going to say a landline telephone with a number you knew off by heart ☎️

Trying to explain to the grandchildren that we didn't have a phone in the house when I was growing up, they couldn't get their heads around that at all, how we made any arrangements in person by actually talking to people!

Matronic6 · 31/10/2024 09:39

We found a box of old videos in school a few weeks ago. And the year 4s were in complete amazement. They had no understanding how the film fit in the box and what you would play it on. Favorite comment "so are these like fossils?"

BestZebbie · 31/10/2024 09:40

scalt · 31/10/2024 09:03

When neighbours of my secondary school complained about pupils smoking in the streets outside their houses, the head told us he would give these neighbours disposable cameras.

Another flying toy I came across in 2003, which an autistic boy I worked with once bought (with his mum's help), and I was amazed it was sold, and was probably once quite popular: a model rocket (not a firework) that could actually take off, and go quite a long way up. The fuel for it was in a cylinder behind the counter, and strictly for sale to over 18s only. Some models had a 110-size camera attached (how quaint), so it could take photos while up in the air. Another forerunner to drones.

These model rockets are still sold now, there are enthusiast clubs (which tbf may include at least some people who were autistic boys in 2003 in their membership) and they hold monthly meet-ups on farmland to set them off etc.

Ozgirl75 · 31/10/2024 09:41

That you could go on a night out, have a dance and a million drinks, do totally dumb things and have a massive laugh and there be basically NO photographic record of your shenanigans.

A group of my friends found some old photos recently and there was one where two of them (a girl and boy) were just standing there smiling at the camera, looking totally normal apart from the fact that they’re wearing each others shoes. I can like, vaguely recall what led to this, but not really in detail.

Loved having nights out where we could all talk about it in vague terms the next day over a Coke and a bag of Doritos without someone whipping out a load of photos!

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 09:42

ObelixtheGaul · 31/10/2024 07:27

Still do where I live. He shouts 'rag BOOONE' through a loud hailer. Doesn't have a horse and cart though.

When the rag and bone man came round on his horse and cart my Dad would be out there with a bucket and spade to collect the horse's 'droppings', Dad had lovely roses!

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:45

Fireworknight · 31/10/2024 05:29

Everyone wears hoodies now, but growing up I seem to recall that they were really uncool. Looking back at uni photos, I don’t see anyone wearing them,except maybe genuine sportsmen. I don’t recall them as being worn by women much (80s).

And then around 2010 they were associated with petty crime because you could hide your face from a camera. David Cameron wanted to 'hug a hoodie'.

drspouse · 31/10/2024 09:46

PassCaring · 31/10/2024 08:43

Screen savers on PC monitor. Now they just auto turn off.
At work having your own allocated desk with set of drawers for favourite stapler. Bliss. None of that hot desking nonsense.

BT phonecard where as a student I dialled a long number before the phone number and it got billed to my parents. Suspect it was pretty pricey.

Mine still has a screen saver (I could set it to turn off but it isn't as pretty) and I still have my own desk.

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 09:47

scalt · 31/10/2024 07:29

@MistressoftheDarkSide Oh yes, the shops being closed for ages after Christmas. If parents forgot the batteries for new toys, no shops would be open for several days, especially if Christmas Day was on a Friday!

More recently, when Oyster cards had come in, but you couldn't yet use a contactless credit or debit card: Barclaycard sent me a "hybrid" card. It was a credit card, but it doubled as an Oyster card, which you could top up. A shopkeeper was baffled when I tried to top this up in a shop. They didn't last long, though; they were superseded by being able to use contactless directly.

A few years ago we were buying fireworks in a local shop run by an Asian family, they were taking delivery of loads of batteries. I asked if they knew something we didn't and she laughed, telling us that they opened on Christmas Day from 7am until mid afternoon and sold more batteries on that one day than during the rest of the year combined. In some years there had been people waiting outside the shop when they arrived to open at 7am, usually guilty looking fathers, as she said it wasn't a special day for them so it made sense to open, almost a community service.

godmum56 · 31/10/2024 09:47

MathsAnxiety · 31/10/2024 00:48

I talked to a group of Year 7 students (age 11) about the paper round I did as a teen. None of them knew what it was!

Kids still do paper rounds here.

Gwenhwyfar · 31/10/2024 09:47

TerrazzoChips · 31/10/2024 07:28

My grandmother was a Dr (GP) in the 50s and she took her baby (my father) to work and just had him in his pram in the surgery until he was old enough not to need breast milk and was walking around. I don’t know exactly and it’s too late to ask now but I assume he would have been about 9-12m and she went back to work when he was about 2m old.

A friend did this as a nurse. She's around 60 now so it would have been the 90s I think.

ObelixtheGaul · 31/10/2024 09:48

JudgeJ · 31/10/2024 09:42

When the rag and bone man came round on his horse and cart my Dad would be out there with a bucket and spade to collect the horse's 'droppings', Dad had lovely roses!

Brilliant.

RainbowColouredRainbows · 31/10/2024 09:49

I was reading a book with my year 7s last term that was set in the late 90s. They looked perplexed at reference to "the Internet noise" and more confused as I explained we either got the phone or the Internet.

pinkyredrose · 31/10/2024 09:49

Being whipped at school.

maudelovesharold · 31/10/2024 09:50

zeddybrek · 31/10/2024 01:14

ASOS started as an online company selling stuff you saw in TV shows or movies. As Seen On Screen.

I remember buying a replica keyring from Kill Bill when it came out.

I didn’t know that! I wonder if they ever stocked the iconic Starsky cardi? Used to love Starsky and Hutch!

Stuff that didn’t seem weird at the time but when you tell someone younger they think it’s nuts
TriangleLight · 31/10/2024 09:51

The Berlin Wall

Anyotherdude · 31/10/2024 09:51

Carrying half a crown (taped with sticking plaster) into the arch of a shoe for emergencies on a night out…

Blarn · 31/10/2024 09:52

We used to have Christmas parties at work on a spare floor. We all clubbed together for a dj and drinks. I don't think anyone I work with would even consider having a glass of wine at lunch now, let alone drinking cava from a plastic cup at their desk, pre-party!

Dc were intrigued by tv programmes just stopping on the BBC, National anthem playing and then ceefax or the OU playing until morning.

I remember it being fine to let dogs out and they would return around teatime. Just dogs roaming around.

snowmichael · 31/10/2024 09:52

I see you've given away that you're not in the UK
Really, you shouldn't comment about things you know nothing about

DancingNotDrowning · 31/10/2024 09:52

Netflix posting out DVDs

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