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To think public smoking should be banned

238 replies

CreamLampshade · 29/10/2024 15:57

I live in London and am sick of constantly trying to avoid breathing in disgusting cigarette smoke or the weird sickly smell of vapes. There’s only so much you can swerve, speed past people or cross the road. I feel it’s very selfish to smoke in public spaces, especially crowded streets when people can’t avoid breathing it in. Why can’t people take responsibility for their own health - and others - and just give it up? It’s disgusting and really selfish.

OP posts:
Nhggb · 03/11/2024 11:50

I'd like to ask smokers how and why you started?

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 12:03

Nhggb · 03/11/2024 11:50

I'd like to ask smokers how and why you started?

I guess it was cool in the 80s.

It's very calming.

I'd like to ask non-smokers, how and why you didn't start??

BIossomtoes · 03/11/2024 12:04

Nhggb · 03/11/2024 11:50

I'd like to ask smokers how and why you started?

I’m not a smoker any more but I started because all the cool kids did. I still miss it like an old friend 12 years on.

Nhggb · 03/11/2024 12:04

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 12:03

I guess it was cool in the 80s.

It's very calming.

I'd like to ask non-smokers, how and why you didn't start??

I don't want lung cancer. I don't feel the need/urge to.

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 12:21

Nhggb · 03/11/2024 12:04

I don't want lung cancer. I don't feel the need/urge to.

No-one wants lung cancer.

We're all going to die though.

Nhggb · 03/11/2024 12:47

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 12:21

No-one wants lung cancer.

We're all going to die though.

Yes this is why I don't engage in activities that would drastically increase my chance of lung cancer and thus hasten my death. I like breathing 😀

Whatbloodysummer · 03/11/2024 13:00

OP, are you saying that smokers/vapers should always stay at home to do it, and never be allowed out in public?

And that they are in 'your space' when they are outside/in public?

So you'd be happy to limit their 'freedom' to suit you and your likes/dislikes?

Presumably, from your comments, and, in your mind at least, they are somehow 'less' than you, and are therefore 'ignorant', 'selfish' 'poor' people, and so don't matter somehow?

So what makes you 'better' than them exactly?

You take the bus/tube/train in London, a city that has atrocious pollution levels everywhere, yet you choose to live there regardless of the damage done to your lungs from the ceaseless pollution? In fact you actively add to it simply by living there and using any transport at all ! (except Shanks pony)

Yet you somehow see yourself as 'virtuous' for not being a smoker/vaper 😂
Judgmental much ??🙄Do you drink? Do you travel? Do you work? Do you have gas heating? Do you own leather shoes?

Everything we do affects 'pollution', but you see yourself as 'blameless' and smokers/vapers as the enemy somehow?

Get off your bloody high horse and let others decide what they want to do and where they want to do it ffs ! It's bugger all to do with you what others decide to do with their money/time/bodies.

If you don't want to be exposed to 'pollution/smoke/vapes' then go live in the country/stay at home and never go out, cos no-one is forcing you to breathe anything in, it's you who is choosing to live amongst other humans who do things that you don't 'agree' with?

But no-one is asking you to agree with it, so if you don't like it, then YOU are free to leave, aren't you??😱

Whatbloodysummer · 03/11/2024 13:18

Ah,

Just did a search of past posts by the OP, and this explains the OP's 'issues' about smoking. (funny how the OP is 'struggling' with hoarding/OCD etc though, surely ALL 'addictions' can be easily overcome by pure 'will', so I have to wonder why isn't that working for the OP??

CallYourselfAChef · 03/11/2024 13:20

Who do you think would be able to enforce it? I don't smoke, I hate the smell of cigarettes, weed and vapes - but I avoid at all as much as possible.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 03/11/2024 13:21

I don’t think it should be banned in public places. If so, people who lived in flats would have to smoke indoors, and if they had children that would be awful. Better that they’re still able to go outside for a fag.

But I agree it should be regulated where people can smoke, and not allowed in any kind of queue or place where people might be sitting to eat.

marriagehelpplease · 03/11/2024 13:22

Sorry but you're being ridiculous. I say this as a non smoker...

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 13:25

Ignorant

Selfish

Poor

EalingLucy · 03/11/2024 18:47

Gloriana1 · 03/11/2024 10:15

@CreamLampshade judgy fuck like you should surely want everyone to die as soon as possible.

Do you want all the people you hate to live forever?

I guarantee you don't.

Do you realise that all of your messages don’t make any sense?

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