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To ask why people do this when staying in holiday cottages

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TellerTuesday · 21/10/2024 11:12

I look after and clean a holiday cottage for a family friend.

I'm having to take an early lunch at the minute while I wait for a friend to come and help me because - for reasons known only to themselves - the guests that have left this morning decided that the massive set of double drawers would be better on the next floor up.

You honestly would not believe how often something like this happens! It's ridiculous!

Once, I walked in to find the dining table and 4 chairs missing from the kitchen, they'd been moved up a tight set of stairs (with a turn) and plonked in the middle of the living room.

Please, please, please if you're staying in a holiday cottage, leave the furniture where you find it.

And if you really can't bear the current arrangement and insist on moving things around..... put them back before you leave!

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DiscoBeat · 25/10/2024 16:58

Acsa · 21/10/2024 11:55

This is something my ex would have done. He wanted to leave a sink full of dirty dishes after one stay because "That's what they're paid for, to clean up after me". Seriously. I did make him clean his dishes and put them away, but if all adults in the property are of the same mindset I can see how this type of situation arises.
He was very full of his own self-importance and would definitely be smug and arrogant enough to move something and leave it, thinking his positioning of furniture was "better" than the original set-up!

Ex - well done! 👍

DiscoBeat · 25/10/2024 17:00

cheesychips15 · 21/10/2024 13:17

I don't spend my whole holiday rearranging kitchen cupboards, but if I'm staying somewhere that has a cupboard that contains only 4 eggcups and a teapot, but there's no empty cupboards to put my food I'll probably do a bit of rearranging to make some space. I do try to remember where everything came from and put it back but it's not easy to remember!

I usually do this too, as we always do loads of cooking with lots of ingredients and there's never enough space for that but plenty of half empty cupboards. I forget where things went too!

Auburngal · 25/10/2024 20:24

We have put the breakfast stuff and if we ate in the accommodation the evening before in the dishwasher and let it run before we vacate it.

We put a note that there is a load in the dishwasher so the owner/cleaner knows to empty it.

What I don't get are places that have a washing machine and not a dishwasher as most people are only staying for a few days. They pack enough clothes to last the stay. Whereas a dishwasher is used daily.

I doubt the washing machine is used by the owners to wash the bedding as washing machines they have in holiday accommodation are not big enough to put 2-3 beds worth of bedding in a single wash.

Fizbosshoes · 25/10/2024 20:37

Flossflower · 25/10/2024 15:26

Not having full length mirrors may be a safety issue with young children.

Potentially they could be attached or fixed to the wall? Or a mirrored wardrobe?
I'm pretty short so often I don't even get to see more than my forehead in the bathroom mirror 😔 and no indication of full length appearance at all!

Is it so vain or unreasonable to want a suitable mirror?

Phineyj · 26/10/2024 05:43

I would think the washing machines are there because they predate the place becoming a holiday rental/give flexibility if it is rented for longer. However, they are a selling point for visitors with babies and young children.

TheKoalaWhoCould · 26/10/2024 06:40

@spanieleyes any chance you could send your dad to stay with us?!

Sartre · 26/10/2024 06:49

I would imagine it’s sometimes to appease children in some way or keep them safer and perhaps in the rush of packing up and getting children into the car, they just forget to move it back. It isn’t ideal but these things happen, I wouldn’t say it’s the end of the world, they haven’t trashed the place.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 26/10/2024 06:53

Have a child, have never felt the need to move furniture. View online beforehand, so don’t book anything unsuitable to begin with.

Flossflower · 26/10/2024 08:42

Fizbosshoes · 25/10/2024 20:37

Potentially they could be attached or fixed to the wall? Or a mirrored wardrobe?
I'm pretty short so often I don't even get to see more than my forehead in the bathroom mirror 😔 and no indication of full length appearance at all!

Is it so vain or unreasonable to want a suitable mirror?

Edited

Full length mirrors are still dangerous to young children even if attached to walls or furniture. Mirror glass is sharp and a young child might bash it with something. It is different in a hotel room as you will almost certainly be in the room with your child. Acrylic mirrors are fine but I suspect harder to source and more expensive. By law any glass windows at a lower level must be made of strengthened glass for safety reasons. We have full length mirrors at home in the bedrooms and as we have the grandchildren to stay, I have put an industrial strength safety film on to the back of the mirrors which will hold the glass in place if it breaks. However, if a child picked a bit of this glass out, it could still do damage. We don’t leave our young grandchildren alone except when they are sleeping but some people do leave their children alone.

Audubon · 26/10/2024 10:43

We lent our holiday home to a colleague and she rearranged the large and heavy sitting room sofas for Feng Shui reasons Hmm didn't let her use it again after that.

TwoShades1 · 26/10/2024 13:15

We often move furniture. Usually beds and bed side tables. But we always but things back when we leave. I would never leave things in a new place.

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