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To ask why people do this when staying in holiday cottages

211 replies

TellerTuesday · 21/10/2024 11:12

I look after and clean a holiday cottage for a family friend.

I'm having to take an early lunch at the minute while I wait for a friend to come and help me because - for reasons known only to themselves - the guests that have left this morning decided that the massive set of double drawers would be better on the next floor up.

You honestly would not believe how often something like this happens! It's ridiculous!

Once, I walked in to find the dining table and 4 chairs missing from the kitchen, they'd been moved up a tight set of stairs (with a turn) and plonked in the middle of the living room.

Please, please, please if you're staying in a holiday cottage, leave the furniture where you find it.

And if you really can't bear the current arrangement and insist on moving things around..... put them back before you leave!

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rayofsunshine86 · 22/10/2024 20:08

I've stayed in a couple of places where we were using them for photoshoots. We'd move items around to get a bit of variety, and sometimes we'd forget where things were.

That was a long time ago, I wouldn't do it now 😆

ThinWomansBrain · 22/10/2024 20:13

I regularly rent the same cottage - has an amazing garden, and french windows that open out onto it.
the space in the lounge directly in front of the windows is completely empty, it's bizarre. It's my favourite place to sit if it's a bit chilly in the garden - there's a small chair in the bedroom that I always move there so that I can sit & watch the garden and keep an eye on my cat.
I think I mostly remember to return it tot the bedroom.

Flossflower · 22/10/2024 21:05

Elphame · 21/10/2024 12:48

We rarely get the furniture moved, but the contents of the kitchen cupboards are always being reorganised - and not generally for the better.

It's very odd. Who wants to spend a holiday re-organising their host's kitchenware.

There was however the memorable guests who actually removed all the furniture for the duration of the holiday. It was returned, just dumped anywhere and everywhere. One of the sofas was upside down.

People like me usually rearrange kitchen cupboards because you usually find them with all the things spread out and no place for the guests to put their own food/stuff. I would put them back if I could remember where they went. Perhaps you could leave a plan or leave empty space for the guests. I can’t remember moving furniture.

Auburngal · 22/10/2024 21:20

SeaToSki · 21/10/2024 12:40

I have moved the odd chair, foot stool and lamp. But if I am cooking in the kitchen in a rental and the cooking gear is all over the place and mixed up, I might straighten it out a bit while waiting for the water to boil. But thats more along the lines of putting all the sharp knives together and saucepans with their lids etc. One place had a drawer with a corkscrew, 3 forks, a coffee scoop and some paper napkins, the other drawers were similarly mixed.

My DM does this too - cutlery in one drawer, cooking utensils in another drawer, random things like paper napkins, tablecloth in another. Don't think she bothered to make the drawers in a random state again.

Two years ago we went to a place where is was for 5 people for my parents and myself and only had ONE, yes, ONE wine glass. I went into the town centre, a ten minutes walk from the rental. Went into a charity shop and got 4 glasses for £1.50. They looked neutral and acceptable for the rental. DF commented that owners should check the numbers of items in the kitchen as they get broken, replace. They gave us a £10 M&S gift card as apology.

Auburngal · 22/10/2024 21:27

Flossflower · 22/10/2024 21:05

People like me usually rearrange kitchen cupboards because you usually find them with all the things spread out and no place for the guests to put their own food/stuff. I would put them back if I could remember where they went. Perhaps you could leave a plan or leave empty space for the guests. I can’t remember moving furniture.

I think that was the reason why DM moved things about. As one cupboard had two things in it - cheese grater and a teapot. Then another cupboard has the crockery and an empty shelf. Then a few rentals we stayed at had things like vinegar, salt, pepper, dried herbs etc. I think its a mix of the owners and what previous renters left behind.

MsAdoraBelleDearheartVonLipwig · 22/10/2024 21:28

We stayed in an AirBnB near Richmond last year. I think it was probably new to the market. It was very sparsely furnished. It had a lovely roomy kitchen full of cupboards that were mostly empty. There was one frying pan, one saucepan, three plates, three mugs, one bowl, a couple of glasses, a handful of cutlery and that was it. Not even an oven tray or a bottle opener. No sharp knives, no cookware, etc. Bizarre.

I help a friend look after a holiday cottage. We were there one day when the owner popped in to do something in the kitchen. I asked him where a food shopping delivery would go as there was no cupboard space. He said well there’s plenty of worktop space. There isn’t, actually. And even if there was it still wasn’t ideal.

Inertia · 22/10/2024 21:31

Elphame · 21/10/2024 12:48

We rarely get the furniture moved, but the contents of the kitchen cupboards are always being reorganised - and not generally for the better.

It's very odd. Who wants to spend a holiday re-organising their host's kitchenware.

There was however the memorable guests who actually removed all the furniture for the duration of the holiday. It was returned, just dumped anywhere and everywhere. One of the sofas was upside down.

Reorganising at least some of the kitchen cupboards is often one of the first things I do on holiday., because it’s rare that any cupboards have been left empty for guests to put food away in.

We usually arrive at a SC holiday let with a big shop. I’d rather spend 10 minutes rationalising the cupboards than have all my food out on worktops for a week.

Gagaandgag · 22/10/2024 21:35

I think as long as people put things back and there’s no damage then what’s the issue

Gagaandgag · 22/10/2024 21:36

I think as long as people put things back and there’s no damage then what’s the issue

wildfellhall · 22/10/2024 21:46

I hate it when they have precisely 4 measly small mugs; when I go away I want big steaming mugs of tea all day, that what being on holiday is for. I don't want to spend the day washing up mugs!

I always give that on my feedback. Please have enough crockery so I'm not washing up all day you Airbnb misers!

Violaceae · 22/10/2024 21:48

TellerTuesday · 22/10/2024 08:06

A lot of people fixating on cottages not being functional, trust me it really isn't that.

Another example:

One set of guests stripped the beds (always appreciated) left the pillowcases, sheets and duvet covers on the beds but carried 3 duvets and 8 pillows to the bathroom and left them in the bathtub, how would that ever make sense?

Another set, take the tv from the stand in the living room, place a floor vase on it and lay the tv on one of the single beds in the very top of the cottage, so they carried it up two flights of stairs.

This isn't just limited to me, several friends also look after holiday cottages (tourist town) and weird shit like this happens frequently.

People are just bizarre!

In my family that would happen if someone told my teenage son to "take the duvet covers and pillowcases off the beds and put everything in the bath".

Violaceae · 22/10/2024 21:49

Our last holiday cottage specifically asked for all bedding and towels to go in the bath so putting the pillow cases in there would make more sense.

blondiepigtails · 22/10/2024 21:54

rainfallpurevividcat · 21/10/2024 13:49

I don't book places with an early check out or late check in unless it matches with travel plans. But as a rule of thumb <10am check out and >4pm check in can fuck off.

So when do you think the cleaning happens?

TellerTuesday · 22/10/2024 21:54

Gagaandgag · 22/10/2024 21:36

I think as long as people put things back and there’s no damage then what’s the issue

Absolutely no issue with that. The issue is that they don't put it back and I turn up single handed to clean and change bedding, I don't have the physical strength to carry extremely heavy furniture up and down staircases on my own

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Northoftheterritory · 22/10/2024 21:58

IOSTT · 21/10/2024 15:10

I wouldn’t move a thing, or leave anything dirty - I’d be too worried about not getting my deposit back!

Wherever takes a deposit??

Bernardo1 · 22/10/2024 22:01

If people move things for their own convenience that's fine, but clearly they should return to the default position.

It's just like cleaning, you should leave reasonable clean and tidy, even if there is a non negotiable cleaning fee.

TheBluntTurtle · 22/10/2024 22:02

Never moved furniture and I do try and leave the place as clean as I found it. However it baffles me that holiday cottages are so cheap on the cleaning equipment - I’ve stayed in 4 places this year and there has either been no washing up liquid/ bin bags/ kitchen roll/ hand soap/ loo roll or the absolute bare minimum - 4 dishwasher tablets and 2 loo rolls for a week. Surely it’s in the owners and cleaners interest for adequate cleaning supplies and soap to be provided for the place to be left clean!

Northoftheterritory · 22/10/2024 22:03

spanieleyes · 21/10/2024 18:17

@niadainud

Thankfully, he did a good job, sanded it down, removed the door handle, two coats of paint and replaced the handle!
He wasn't very good at sitting doing nothing!
So, if you ever rent a cottage on the edge of the Forest of Dean, have a look at the doors!

Fabulous! Did he keep it the same colour? What did the owners say?!

Flossflower · 22/10/2024 22:11

I think the chest of drawers/sideboard being moved was to separate 2 children who didn’t get on and were not used to sleeping next to each other. It should have been taken back though.

LoveTheRainAndSun · 22/10/2024 22:28

What an odd thing to do. Especially if you don't put it back.

I just make do in holiday cottages. I'm on holiday, not setting up home.

Washingupdone · 22/10/2024 22:35

TellerTuesday · 22/10/2024 21:54

Absolutely no issue with that. The issue is that they don't put it back and I turn up single handed to clean and change bedding, I don't have the physical strength to carry extremely heavy furniture up and down staircases on my own

Why isn’t it put into the contract with photos so that if all isn’t correct extra charges can be asked for?

Nannamia · 23/10/2024 06:22

I've never moved furniture but I hate (as in really hate) those "LIVE", "LOVE", "EAT" decor things, so if they're made up of individual letters I always rearrange them (EVIL, VOLE, ATE etc). I know it's really childish but it makes me very happy and apart from that I'm very clean, tidy and well-behaved.

Clafoutie · 23/10/2024 07:10

SwedishEdith · 21/10/2024 11:48

I'm sure the owner came to terms with it. Since his furniture choices were style over comfort, I feel completely fine about it.

This thread was started by someone who ends up having to move furniture by herself, or has to get help, in addition cleaning the property. I would not feel ‘completely fine’ about that.
So many posts on here suggest that people are forgetting it is not actually their property.

TheBluntTurtle · 23/10/2024 08:05

Nannamia · 23/10/2024 06:22

I've never moved furniture but I hate (as in really hate) those "LIVE", "LOVE", "EAT" decor things, so if they're made up of individual letters I always rearrange them (EVIL, VOLE, ATE etc). I know it's really childish but it makes me very happy and apart from that I'm very clean, tidy and well-behaved.

@Nannamia - I do that too! If with friends I like to see how long it takes for them to notice!

Ineke · 23/10/2024 08:58

I run a holiday cottage and have a small polite notice to say that guests can leave at a specified later time, provided that the beds are stripped, all garbage has been taken out, and the dishwasher has been run. It works every time. In three years the only furniture that was out of place was a garden trestle bench table which I decided to keep where the guests had rearranged it. Sometimes another eye does help but the place should be left exactly as it was when the guests entered the cottage. Cleaning up after people is hard enough without having to move furniture back in place.