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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To say no to covid vaccine for DS?

337 replies

Clarabell77 · 20/10/2024 08:55

My DS10 has asthma - mild albeit a chest infection 14 months ago ended up in an overnight in hospital on a nebuliser/steroid and he’s had to have a steroid once during that time for another infection.

He’s been identified as being at risk and offered a Covid vaccine. I’m not sure whether to allow him to have it as I’m sure he’s had Covid quite a few times when we’ve all tested positive at home - can’t test him as he won’t let me near him with a swab. He’s had mild symptoms, even when ours weren’t.

He’s had the flu vaccine twice and taken unwell within weeks on both occasions so I’ve opted out of that one this year. Does anyone have any thoughts on the Covid one? Ideally someone who has actual knowledge, not from YouTube, I’m not a covid denier or anti vaxxer.

AIBU to not get him the vaccine?

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Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 20/10/2024 10:32

HornyHornersPinger · 20/10/2024 10:28

Right! No dilemmas to be had, just funerals to plan...

You don't have to vaccinate ALL your children - just the 1's you definitely want to keep.

😅

sleepwouldbenice · 20/10/2024 10:32

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Jesus
The risk is higher from covid. Find another rabbit hole

midgetastic · 20/10/2024 10:33

You have opted out of the flu vaccine for an asthmatic child because the vaccine made him a bit poorly?

Put bluntly that choice could kill your child.

Flu and asthma is a terribly serious combination.

Covid to date doesn't seem to have hit most asthmatics that hard - and you don't automatically get offered the covid vaccine now just because of asthma - it has to be classed as quite bad asthma

At the very least please reconsider the flu jab and get him protected

Please

Hereforaglance · 20/10/2024 10:33

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ExtraOnions · 20/10/2024 10:33

I’ve had my Covid vaccine this year, and my flu one .. I have them every year. I think vaccines are one of the greatest things ever created by mankind.

When I look at the suffering of the generations before us, the early deaths, and the lifelong disability caused by measles, German measles, Polio etc. The joy that my daughter won’t go through that.

My grandma was one of 13, 3 of her siblings died in early childhood due to things now preventable due to vaccines and anti-biotics.

You anti-vaccine types would still have people dying of smallpox..

HornyHornersPinger · 20/10/2024 10:33

The people like @Victoriancat who say they've had flu many times and just go to bed and sweat it out are the ones who've obviously never really had flu...

Howmanycatsistoomany · 20/10/2024 10:34

He’s been identified as being at risk and offered a Covid vaccine.

YABU to ignore the advice of actual health professionals and instead ask a load of randoms without so much as an O level in biology on Mumsnet for advice about this.

sleepwouldbenice · 20/10/2024 10:34

howdoIrecover · 20/10/2024 09:11

I work in pharma, please do not give your baby the Covid jab.

Rubbish

PandoraSox · 20/10/2024 10:36

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Sheep! Ha! Time to get the anti-vaxxer bingo card out!

BTW, I thought everyone who had the vaccine back in 2020/21 was supposed to be dead by now 🫠

MonkeyToHeaven · 20/10/2024 10:36

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I've just finished working on a research project alongside some of country's leading immunologists and oncologists which began just before covid hit. None work for big pharma but are all researchers at Univerities.

Every single one of them had the initial vaccine and the boosters and every single one of them would tell you you're spouting ill informed nonsense.

The OP asked about vaccinating a vulnerable 10 year old. Not a perfectly healthy child or even teenager. Unless you have specific data relating to those circumstances and the background to assess that data, I'd refrain from commenting.

TheFlakyPoster · 20/10/2024 10:37

Difficult to give unbiased advice as I am a nurse practitioner in A+E and very pro vaccine particularly having seen the recent influx of poorly Covid patients again. I'm asthmatic myself so always have my Flu and Covid boosters but I have needed steroids for wheezy respiratory illnesses over the last few winters so that forms part of my decision making process. To those stating myocarditis can be a side effect of the vaccine, you are more likely to get this as a post viral or post infectious complication which is the only time I've seen it clinically. Obviously there are risks and benefits to any medical procedures including vaccines and its up to the individual to weigh up the pros and cons for themselves. For me the benefits vastly outweigh the risks.

Itsallsostressful · 20/10/2024 10:37

howdoIrecover · 20/10/2024 09:11

I work in pharma, please do not give your baby the Covid jab.

Erm...its not a baby ! And 'work in pharma' is quite a wide reaching phrase.

HornyHornersPinger · 20/10/2024 10:37

PandoraSox · 20/10/2024 10:36

Sheep! Ha! Time to get the anti-vaxxer bingo card out!

BTW, I thought everyone who had the vaccine back in 2020/21 was supposed to be dead by now 🫠

Or at the very least swapped all our Apple software for Microsoft and sworn allegiance to Bill Gates 🤣

notnorman · 20/10/2024 10:37

Pericarditis isn't fun and he is in the cohort for this to be a side effect

Hereforaglance · 20/10/2024 10:38

Not my problem you fell hook line n sinker for a scam lol tjat your problem

Mumtobabyhavoc · 20/10/2024 10:39

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Are you ok?

Areolaborealis · 20/10/2024 10:39

Bellatrixpure · 20/10/2024 09:01

I had a text saying my child was at risk of complications. I’m unsure what risks because she doesn’t have asthma or any other health conditions. I’ve ignored text and think they’re pushing people to take up unused vaccines that will go in the bin otherwise

Interestingly, I've been offered the booster this year but I don't know why. Its the first time since 2021 that I have been offered. I have mild asthma for which I have never been hospitalised and I am a bit overweight but no other health issues to justify a booster.

PandoraSox · 20/10/2024 10:39

Hereforaglance · 20/10/2024 10:38

Not my problem you fell hook line n sinker for a scam lol tjat your problem

What is the scam, exactly?

sleepwouldbenice · 20/10/2024 10:41

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Let me guess, you read the Light

PandoraSox · 20/10/2024 10:41

Areolaborealis · 20/10/2024 10:39

Interestingly, I've been offered the booster this year but I don't know why. Its the first time since 2021 that I have been offered. I have mild asthma for which I have never been hospitalised and I am a bit overweight but no other health issues to justify a booster.

I think the NHS has widened the criteria for being offered the vaccine this year.

SemperIdem · 20/10/2024 10:42

howdoIrecover · 20/10/2024 09:11

I work in pharma, please do not give your baby the Covid jab.

As what, a receptionist?

DelilahRay · 20/10/2024 10:42

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Singleandproud · 20/10/2024 10:42

I have a conversation with DD, explore the pros and cons and let her decide.

She had two vaccines because the first time she had COVID (prevaccine) she was quite unwell, with flu symptoms but it never went to her chest. The second time she had it post vaccine she only had sniffles, She has decided to decline the last two that were offered as she has some immunity but does have the flu vaccine.

ilovesooty · 20/10/2024 10:44

RunnerDown · 20/10/2024 09:19

You are getting responses based on posters own biases here. No- one has any evidence for their opinions. It’s all anecdotal.And mostly from people with no medical background .
It is a difficult decision to make but I definitely wouldn’t make it on the basis of emotive posts pasted here.

Exactly. You have to make your own mind up but I think you need to be careful about being swayed by the anti vaxx stuff being pedalled here.

Tekphobebruvva · 20/10/2024 10:44

There’s no way I’d accept this for a 10yo asthmatic or not.

I urge you to do a lot of your own research though. There are a lot of fanatical people on here who will attempt to guilt you for simply considering whether or not to have it rather than just blindly accepting it.