My husband and me have been married 10 months. For the most part we have no problems. But he has mental health issues which mean he can get mood changes day to day. When he's in his low mood he's very short and pissy towards me, and sometimes just won't speak unless i speak to him. He won't be affectionate and can just sit on his phone for days until he snaps out of it.
when he's in this frame of mind i feel like i'm on tenderhooks as i don't know if i'm going to say something to set him off & it makes me feel lonely in our house. For instance one argument started be because i asked him a question & he couldn't hear me, so he snapped 'what' very angrily so i said 'i was only asking.' Then he went off on one saying i shouldn't have been 'f*ng' mumbling. And then he didn't speak for the rest of the day. These little arguments get to the point of it's made me question if i want to stay with him.
he's not on any meds for this , he used to be for anxiety. We both think its perhaps some sort of bipolar as the moods come and go in no time at all. I made him go get a blood test which came back fine and he said he would purse private health care to seek help but he's not making any further steps.
am i being unreasonable/dramatic to think like this , should i just accept everyone has their flaws?