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My coffee order wasn’t weird?

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MeetyouatMidnight · 09/10/2024 18:34

Went to a local volunteer run cafe and a woman at the till was training someone.

I asked for a black americano with a shot of vanilla.

She looked at me like I was crazy and said “you mean a white americano”. I explained I definitely did not.

(I don’t have dairy and don’t really like any sort of milk in coffee anyway, but I like something to sweeten it. I prefer it to a sweetener.)

she said SO loudly “I’ve never seen that before! A latte or something yes, but really!”

and then the girl started to make it but was getting confused so the woman kept very loudly, in a quiet cafe, banging on about how she would be confused because it was a strange order but the customer is always right…

Am I a freak and I never realised!?!?

OP posts:
TeenLifeMum · 09/10/2024 20:32

This is my order too op! However, I’ve also been told it’s unusual. Iced black americano with vanilla syrup blows their mind 😂 but I love it!

Chateauneufdu · 09/10/2024 20:36

Tbh it's weirder to start a thread about it.

TotHappy · 09/10/2024 20:39

I miss the days when you could just order black filter coffee. Costa did it for a little while, £1 a cup too and a million miles nicer than an Americano.

Ger1atricMillennial · 09/10/2024 20:56

Its good she checked... its not good that she had a melt down over essentially a black coffee.

I ordered a ristretto once and the drama that caused was ridiculous!

MakeItRain26 · 09/10/2024 20:57

I’ve never heard anyone order that’s - vanilla latte, vanilla cappuccino. Vanilla black Americano is a bit odd op but you do you

WonderingWanda · 09/10/2024 20:58

She sounds like an idiot. I mean an American is a black coffee. You wanted a black coffee with a shot of syrup. It's not weird or rocket science.

ForGreyKoala · 09/10/2024 21:36

MeetyouatMidnight · 09/10/2024 18:41

On the board it says white americano/black americano!

Well, that's weird, as an americano is always black. I just ask for an americano and no-one has ever asked if I wanted milk with it. We do take coffee more seriously where I live however Wink

BlackOrangeFrog · 09/10/2024 21:37

MeetyouatMidnight · 09/10/2024 18:37

I will admit I’m not the most cultured and was a bit worried there was some sort of “only syrup with milk” rule I’d missed over the years 😂😂

Sometimes I order a hot milk with a shot of syrup 😋

exitstrategyideas · 09/10/2024 21:38

BusySittingDown · 09/10/2024 18:39

Well an Americano IS black so you just need to order an Americano with a shot of vanilla. If you want it with milk it is then that you have to specify. You said that you wanted a black Americano - she probably thought that she had misheard or that you had meant to say white but mistakenly said black.

I drink Americano (black) and if you don’t ask for it black, they put milk in, so I ALWAYS say ‘black Americano’!

bluebirdholiday · 09/10/2024 21:40

volunteer run cafe

Xmasbaby11 · 09/10/2024 21:40

I actually think it’s unusual in that I’ve never heard anyone order it and I have a lot of friends who I go for coffee with.

however I’ve never worked in a coffee shop and I imagine they have heard it all. The whole point of an expensive hand made coffee is to have it exactly how you want! She was rude to make a thing of it!

EngineEngineNumber9 · 09/10/2024 21:40

I don’t order it when out, but my coffee “order” at home is a very strong americano with a teaspoonful of Biscoff spread stirred into it. Highly recommend it!

BlackOrangeFrog · 09/10/2024 21:51

EngineEngineNumber9 · 09/10/2024 21:40

I don’t order it when out, but my coffee “order” at home is a very strong americano with a teaspoonful of Biscoff spread stirred into it. Highly recommend it!

Hmmmm .... Not convinced. Does it not just taste like a biscuit dunked in coffee?

EngineEngineNumber9 · 09/10/2024 21:57

BlackOrangeFrog · 09/10/2024 21:51

Hmmmm .... Not convinced. Does it not just taste like a biscuit dunked in coffee?

A bit, but not in a bad way! It just takes the edge off the bitterness and adds a hint of spice.

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 09/10/2024 22:08

TeenLifeMum · 09/10/2024 20:32

This is my order too op! However, I’ve also been told it’s unusual. Iced black americano with vanilla syrup blows their mind 😂 but I love it!

These are my orders, too!

Milky coffee shop coffee makes me feel sick.

Starlightstarbright3 · 09/10/2024 22:11

I also have it with a caramel shot not vanilla . I might switch it up and try vanilla

ForGreyKoala · 09/10/2024 22:53

exitstrategyideas · 09/10/2024 21:38

I drink Americano (black) and if you don’t ask for it black, they put milk in, so I ALWAYS say ‘black Americano’!

Then they have no idea what an americano is.

Clafoutie · 09/10/2024 23:55

TotHappy · 09/10/2024 20:39

I miss the days when you could just order black filter coffee. Costa did it for a little while, £1 a cup too and a million miles nicer than an Americano.

I completely agree. If places still offered filter coffee, it might help avoid some of the confusion around whether Americano is expected with/without milk. An Americano is meant to be a specific drink, espresso based, served black. A filter coffee is not espresso based and probably closer to what people have in mind when they just want a ‘ coffee with milk’. I get so fed up of asking for filter coffee and they say ‘ we don’t do that but you could have an Americano’ ( watered down!). That is not the same drink at all!

2Rebecca · 10/10/2024 00:19

I have my americano with a small amount of milk. Lots of people in the UK don't want the large amount of milk you get in a Latte and I don't think having an Americano with milk is odd, it's a different drink to a latte. Milk in an expresso is more unusual. I'll occasionally have a syrup in it but usually find them too sweet, I'd like the flavour with less sweetness. Putting a shot of syrup and a bit of milk in an americano isn't difficult

KenAdams · 10/10/2024 00:25

MeetyouatMidnight · 09/10/2024 18:37

I will admit I’m not the most cultured and was a bit worried there was some sort of “only syrup with milk” rule I’d missed over the years 😂😂

Nope. You're paying for the coffee you have it as you like. Don't feel inferior, they're the weird ones.

Doingmybest12 · 10/10/2024 00:42

The thing is you went to a volunteer led cafe. I imagine the volunteers are there because they have some sort of need or because the cafe has a particular ethos which is beyond serving coffee. If I wanted a really slick experience in a coffee shop ,then I would go to somewhere else.

GlennCloseButNoCigar · 10/10/2024 00:55

This actually sounds really nice, I’m going to try it.

But no I don’t think it’s weird or you either! Surely it’s the same idea as having one of those vanilla Nespresso pods? But obviously much better quality?

Grimgrump · 10/10/2024 00:57

Is an Americano known as a Long Black in Australia?

chaosmaker · 10/10/2024 01:03

@MeetyouatMidnight nope, not weird. Lately when I've asked for a bog standard white coffee, they all seem to think it's a flat white. Why? I only like a little bit of milk or cream if they have it (which is also what they think that squirty crap in a tin is but is actully foamy sugar).

Saschka · 10/10/2024 01:05

ForGreyKoala · 09/10/2024 21:36

Well, that's weird, as an americano is always black. I just ask for an americano and no-one has ever asked if I wanted milk with it. We do take coffee more seriously where I live however Wink

DH drinks mostly iced black americanos, and he usually has to specify no milk multiple times. And even then he often still ends up with milk.