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40 grand a year

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Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:24

Would you consider this a good wage?

Could you live on it fairly comfortably?

Two adults, one dc and dog, South west, renting

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Woollypullover · 06/10/2024 22:25

Total household income is £40k after tax?

Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:26

@Woollypullover Yes

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Overtheatlantic · 06/10/2024 22:27

Not bad if the kid is in school.

Octaviusoctober · 06/10/2024 22:29

We lived on far far less two adults one child we got benefits but literally only enough to cover food (which I was and am extremely greatful for)
No extras, hair nails all that crap... I made it a job to buy good quality reduced food and lovely clothes but second hand.

The biggest issue was no shavings for boiler stuff and our boiler was about 20 years old.

Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:30

@Overtheatlantic Dc in school.

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Okonomoyaki · 06/10/2024 22:30

No, I'm sorry to say but absolutely not.
2 adults and 1 dog (no dc) in the North West. Household income is over double what you suggest and we are barely comfortable

Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:32

@Okonomoyaki Are you serious? That’s worrying

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DixonD · 06/10/2024 22:34

I would also say it’s a bit tight, if that’s the whole household income.

Anonym00se · 06/10/2024 22:35

Cue the rush of the deluded rich of Mumsnet to tell you it’s a pittance. Keep in mind that the average household income in the UK is £37K, so it’s slightly more than average (assuming you’re single).

SunsetSkylane · 06/10/2024 22:35

No way, that's a wee bit less than half of our household income. We'd need to move to a smaller house and lose a car. Even as things are we struggle to afford holidays etc, and won't be having one until 2026.

Okonomoyaki · 06/10/2024 22:35

Very much serious. Small 3 bed semi in a 'nice' area, but no parking and tiny garden.
Two basic European city breaks a year, plus a UK week away with dog.
Try to do a long haul every 5 years or so.

Octaviusoctober · 06/10/2024 22:36

Op I've just told you we had a around 20 grand and benefits that covered food.
We managed.

DixonD · 06/10/2024 22:36

Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:32

@Okonomoyaki Are you serious? That’s worrying

It’s all relative though isn’t it? We’re also on over double that, and get by just fine. We have a child, mortgages, a smallholding and lots of animals. We don’t struggle. We would on a combined income of 40k, and just wouldn’t be able to manage.

GalaticalFarce · 06/10/2024 22:36

If you can afford your bills, to feed and clothe yourselves and have some extra for savings and pleasure, then yes, it's a good enough wage.

MaybeImbad · 06/10/2024 22:36

Anonym00se · 06/10/2024 22:35

Cue the rush of the deluded rich of Mumsnet to tell you it’s a pittance. Keep in mind that the average household income in the UK is £37K, so it’s slightly more than average (assuming you’re single).

This. Bloody hell.

everyone’s different but a vast amount of the population have less than this. It’s impossible to tell OP without listing your mortgage/rent and bills etc with budget

bergamotorange · 06/10/2024 22:37

South West? It seems a bit tight.

The amount is below average household income in an area with quite high costs.

All depends on incomings vs. outgoings. What's the rent, any debt, travel costs etc.

fashionqueen0123 · 06/10/2024 22:39

Okonomoyaki · 06/10/2024 22:30

No, I'm sorry to say but absolutely not.
2 adults and 1 dog (no dc) in the North West. Household income is over double what you suggest and we are barely comfortable

Why? Unless you’ve taken out a mortgage you can’t afford.

Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:40

So the rent looks to be around £1500-£1700

This would just be my partners wage to begin with, then I would likely earn around £28-30 later on. I’m just interested in the initial 40,000 and how that would be.
We have a house and mortgage in another country, but would be renting that out
I have zero idea about bills etc in the U.K.

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Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:41

@Okonomoyaki What’s your mortgage/rent, if you don’t mind me asking?

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pastlives · 06/10/2024 22:41

It’s not clear whether this is before or after tax? As a gross salary it’s doable but you won’t have much left for luxuries. As a net income it’s pretty good.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 06/10/2024 22:42

I live in the south west and am
In a shared ownership house, it's comfortable for dd and I.

I think it would be tight to support two adults and a child on but not impossible.

Howmanytimeshasshesaidimnotgonnalie · 06/10/2024 22:42

@pastlives After tax

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Champere · 06/10/2024 22:42

Per wage earner? Just about comfortable but not wealthy.

Whole household? No that’s not really enough.

Pepperama · 06/10/2024 22:42

We managed fine on somewhat less than that for several years until we were on two salaries again - actually probably pretty similar due to inflation- but it wasn’t enough to not have to be quite careful with money. An extra £18k part time second salary made a big difference - holidays, eating out, day trips with entrance fees, extracurricular stuff etc

mitogoshigg · 06/10/2024 22:42

That's more than the average gross household salary for the U.K. so yes it's doable.

It will be fairly tight but how much rent is varies so much as to how much is left for extras

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