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Darrellstclares · 06/10/2024 09:46

cardibach · 05/10/2024 22:47

You don’t sound much like a state school teacher. In 35 years I never felt we needed independents to exist.
Language like ‘rampage’ and ‘hate’ makes you sound a bit OTT too…

Oooh, interesting. I’m a state school teacher and I didn’t realise we all sounded the same. :-)

Blanketyre · 06/10/2024 09:47

Applebutt3r · 06/10/2024 09:43

Nope it’s widely known that private education is the biggest cause of inequality.

Of course it isn't! A simple Google - what us the biggest cause of inequality in the UK - should clear that up for you.

That post has actually made me finally twig that you just want a fight. Go out for a walk maybe?

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twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 09:49

Applebutt3r · 06/10/2024 09:45

The inequalities aren’t just about funding .

No, they are about wealthy parents buying houses in catchment of the best state schools, of using tutors to get their kids into grammar schools, about the existence of faith schools etc.
It is about the virtue signalling of wealthy state school parents funding internships with their contacts for their DC yet crowing about using state schools.
Inequalities run through the whole of society and indy schools aren't the be all and end all of these.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 09:50

Applebutt3r · 06/10/2024 09:43

Nope it’s widely known that private education is the biggest cause of inequality.

No it's not! A simple Google shows you the biggest causes of inequality in the UK.

SmallestMan · 06/10/2024 09:52

@Applebutt3r seems to think if they say it enough times it will come true.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 06/10/2024 09:54

Blanketyre · 06/10/2024 09:47

Of course it isn't! A simple Google - what us the biggest cause of inequality in the UK - should clear that up for you.

That post has actually made me finally twig that you just want a fight. Go out for a walk maybe?

One of the biggest causes of inequality is the school catchment system where people can buy themselves a good education by buying a house near a good school.

It should be a lottery so that it is fair for everyone.

mugboat · 06/10/2024 09:54

RhaenysRocks · 06/10/2024 07:19

I will absolutely claim that. I'm not after "better" for my kids, just tolerable. In my town there are 4 secondaries. 1 is RC, no hope of admission there, 1 is allegedly, according to a decade old OFSTED outstanding and gets great results but is slammed by parents of kids not in top sets as having awful pastoral support and is in an unaffordable catchment, one is failing, and falling down and one is vast with a huge bullying and behaviour issue. The last one broke both my kids so I've scraped together enough to send them to a small, shabby private with help from my parents and 0% credit cards to live life on for the next few years. I get so tired of being told why I'm sending my kids private.

Yes, ok. So you are buying advantage for your children and you are in a privileged position. I'm not poor by any means, but I can't afford to "scrape" together enough to send 3 children to private school. My parents don't have that kind of money and I can't afford to borrow £45k per year for fees plus goodness knows how much for sundries.

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 09:56

mugboat · 06/10/2024 09:54

Yes, ok. So you are buying advantage for your children and you are in a privileged position. I'm not poor by any means, but I can't afford to "scrape" together enough to send 3 children to private school. My parents don't have that kind of money and I can't afford to borrow £45k per year for fees plus goodness knows how much for sundries.

No but then you likely send your kids to a school that was until recently rated outstanding, has less than half the national average of children on FSM and is set in 22 acres.

Whatafustercluck · 06/10/2024 09:57

WowSpeechless · 06/10/2024 09:40

Yes of course it does - but if you had the money to help your child would you?

Or would you decide that your ideology is to help all or no one so you would let your child suffer?

If you know what it is like to have a child suffer in the state education system - then surely you would be the exact person to understand why people move their children private? If you know how hard you have to fight for an ECHP - then you know exactly the reason why some parents have moved their children to private with fighting.

If you won lotto would you spend it on moving your child to safer place or would you spend it on a holiday or home improvements?

I suspect if you are the type of parent to fight for an ECHP than you are a parent who puts their children's needs first and I do think you would spend a lotto win on helping your child whatever that looks like.

As you know an ECHP is something not given out easily - there is a long drawn out process with the parent/s needing to be heavily involved.

My son, with SEN needs, is in an amazing government high school - they've been wonderful with his SEN. My daughter was in a state school which was horrible for SEN - her mental health was suffering and she had developed severe OCD. Where we live there are not a lot of spaces in state high schools to move a child to - we had her on a list for other state schools for over a year before we found a private school who agreed to take her so we moved her.

My daughter is in year 13 now - we can afford the vat increase for two terms but if the vat had of been around when we moved her I am not sure what we would have done.

Yes we are lucky enough to have been able to avoid private school for her. But we rent now and I do wonder if the state school system had been better geared for her needs if we could have saved that money towards a house deposit.

I want your child to have the best chance in life just as I want everyone's children to have to have the best chance in life - and I would be happy to pay more taxes for this to happen. In fact we donate and continue to donate money towards our children's state schools because we believe this.

But private school parents are not the reason the education system is underfunded and this tax has unfairly picked them off as a cheap trick to win votes. State school parents (of which I am one too) are angry at the lack of school funding and so they should be - but the government has been very clever at deflecting this anger to be directed at private school parents rather than where it should be directed at - the government.

I am genuinely interested to hear from parents who don't have an ehcp, and have a SEN child in private education. If I'm understanding you correctly, it's because the standard of private SEN provision is so good that their needs are met without an ehcp?

Do you therefore object to your VAT being used to address the wider inequalities in state SEN provision, which you've freely acknowledged? You've said you want your child to have the best chance in life and you want everyone's children to have the best chance in life - and you would be happy to pay more taxes for this to happen.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 09:59

Whatafustercluck · 06/10/2024 09:57

I am genuinely interested to hear from parents who don't have an ehcp, and have a SEN child in private education. If I'm understanding you correctly, it's because the standard of private SEN provision is so good that their needs are met without an ehcp?

Do you therefore object to your VAT being used to address the wider inequalities in state SEN provision, which you've freely acknowledged? You've said you want your child to have the best chance in life and you want everyone's children to have the best chance in life - and you would be happy to pay more taxes for this to happen.

Money from VAT isn't going to be used to improve SEN provision in state schools though. It is going towards teeth brushing etc

Blanketyre · 06/10/2024 10:01

Whatafustercluck · 06/10/2024 09:57

I am genuinely interested to hear from parents who don't have an ehcp, and have a SEN child in private education. If I'm understanding you correctly, it's because the standard of private SEN provision is so good that their needs are met without an ehcp?

Do you therefore object to your VAT being used to address the wider inequalities in state SEN provision, which you've freely acknowledged? You've said you want your child to have the best chance in life and you want everyone's children to have the best chance in life - and you would be happy to pay more taxes for this to happen.

More taxes should come from income tax so that it is distributed fairly.

It was stupid of Labour to promise not to do this.

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Another76543 · 06/10/2024 10:01

Didimum · 06/10/2024 08:40

Why shouldn’t they be happy to do this? Indy schools are supposed to encourage this as part of their charitable status. This policy isn’t about punishment and/or eradication, it’s about a fundamental right on where VAT should be added.

The Labour Party have voted to abolish private schools in the past. Their hatred is clear. They are now taxing parents to punish them and to harm the sector (it’s got absolutely nothing to do with funding public services - the IFS have said that). Phillipson posts a ridiculous, vindictive post on Facebook on a Saturday evening specifically mentioning astros. You don’t think that there’s a slightest bit of hypocrisy with them then benefitting from using the facilities of independent schools? They are entitled to their opinion. However, if you believe in something so strongly, at least have some backbone and stand by your principles. Don’t just toss your beliefs aside when it suits you.

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:02

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 09:49

No, they are about wealthy parents buying houses in catchment of the best state schools, of using tutors to get their kids into grammar schools, about the existence of faith schools etc.
It is about the virtue signalling of wealthy state school parents funding internships with their contacts for their DC yet crowing about using state schools.
Inequalities run through the whole of society and indy schools aren't the be all and end all of these.

I agree, grammars and faith schools, private tutors (in my area, it's only the catholic schools that ppl are clamouring to get into. The worst school in the area is a C of E secondary) are part of the problem.

Private schools are a big part of the picture too though, let's not pretend otherwise.

I'd argue against catchments for the best schools being in the most expensive areas though. In some cases, yes. In my area, no. I don't live in an expensive house in an expensive area and my child got into a lovely secondary school, it's very sought after. Birth rates in my area are decreasing. Last year she wouldn't have got a place. This year she got a place and there are 2 spare places in her form!

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:03

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 09:56

No but then you likely send your kids to a school that was until recently rated outstanding, has less than half the national average of children on FSM and is set in 22 acres.

huh?

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 10:04

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:02

I agree, grammars and faith schools, private tutors (in my area, it's only the catholic schools that ppl are clamouring to get into. The worst school in the area is a C of E secondary) are part of the problem.

Private schools are a big part of the picture too though, let's not pretend otherwise.

I'd argue against catchments for the best schools being in the most expensive areas though. In some cases, yes. In my area, no. I don't live in an expensive house in an expensive area and my child got into a lovely secondary school, it's very sought after. Birth rates in my area are decreasing. Last year she wouldn't have got a place. This year she got a place and there are 2 spare places in her form!

How can 2500 indy schools out of 32,000 schools be a big part of the problem? The bigger problem is inequality in society in general and the state education sector

Bellaboo568 · 06/10/2024 10:05

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:03

huh?

Maybe that was another poster who was virtue signalling about using state schooling.

Another76543 · 06/10/2024 10:07

Applebutt3r · 06/10/2024 09:24

😂Nice try

Teaching unions have suggested the September date not stopping and concern over a few bilingual private schools in London does not a diplomatic row make.

Newsflash- there is a whole lot of UK outside of London!

Education unions have gone further than that. They have questioned the policy in itself, not just the timing of it.

From the TES:

“Both NASUWT and ASCL, who represent teachers and school leaders across state and independent schools, expressed concerns about the potential negative impact the tax policy could have on state schools.
ASCL warned that VAT on independent school fees could create “unhelpful division across the education sector”, and questioned the government’s choice over how it will raise money for the state sector from “elsewhere in the education system”.
It also warned that potential pupil movement from independent to state schools because of these policies could both “reduce VAT revenue” and “increase costs to the state of educating more pupils”.”

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:07

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 10:04

How can 2500 indy schools out of 32,000 schools be a big part of the problem? The bigger problem is inequality in society in general and the state education sector

Do you understand the wealth gap at all?

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 10:09

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:07

Do you understand the wealth gap at all?

Yes thanks but that's society at large indy schools aren't the main source of inequality in the UK

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:10

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 10:09

Yes thanks but that's society at large indy schools aren't the main source of inequality in the UK

Says who?

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 10:11

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:07

Do you understand the wealth gap at all?

Take away indy schools and you still have the wealth gap and wealth inequality

QuiteAJourney · 06/10/2024 10:11

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:07

Do you understand the wealth gap at all?

That is why any inequality issues are best addressed through income or wealth taxes rather than VAT.

twistyizzy · 06/10/2024 10:11

mugboat · 06/10/2024 10:10

Says who?

Google it

AllyCart · 06/10/2024 10:11

YABU

Diomi · 06/10/2024 10:13

I hate this policy because it is a distraction technique to hide the fact that Labour are doing nothing for state education at all.

Free breakfast for children is not an education policy it is a welfare policy.

Recruit 6500 STEM teachers. Recruiting STEM teachers is not a new idea or policy. That was gov policy when I was training many, many years ago. It is what schools have been trying to do for years. How will Labour actually recruit and retain teachers? They have had years in opposition to think about it.

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