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Weekly food shop… AIBU or is it still costing more?

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Foodshopthoughts · 04/10/2024 11:07

Can’t get it under £100 for two of us. We shop at one of the cheapest supermarkets. That does include every meal though, and all toiletries etc. I don’t eat meat and DH rarely. Family of 3 but baby won’t be adding to the cost us for a while due to breastfeeding. I thought prices were supposed to be coming down yet it seems to be going up and up?!

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zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:00

NoWordForFluffy · 06/10/2024 08:42

And if you don't have the money for the upfront cost? Which was my point.

They can be rented or even borrowed in some areas or purchased second hand. They don't have to be fancy shaped ones, terry nappies are fairly cheap. They can also be used for the next child or sold on. I sold a few of mine and donated a few (I bought more than needed and only had one child).

Redlettuce · 06/10/2024 09:11

Foodshopthoughts · 04/10/2024 11:14

I feel a lot better seeing this! My friend was saying she can do it for £60, two adults and one child. I think when people give prices like this though it can’t be every meal and must not include top up shops or household items

When you think that a pack of chicken is £5 its hard to see how you can eat well for £60. Meat alone for 7 days is around £35 and that doesn't include breakfast and lunches.

I know you can eat non meat meals which cuts down the cost bit, but you still need to watch out you're still getting enough iron and protein.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:13

Redlettuce · 06/10/2024 09:11

When you think that a pack of chicken is £5 its hard to see how you can eat well for £60. Meat alone for 7 days is around £35 and that doesn't include breakfast and lunches.

I know you can eat non meat meals which cuts down the cost bit, but you still need to watch out you're still getting enough iron and protein.

Who eats meat 7 days a week?

dragonflygirl1 · 06/10/2024 09:19

Warning - long post! We have recently changed how we cook and eat and it has greatly reduced our food shop bill and that has surprised me. I need gluten free and vegan so some items cost a lot more than your general basics. We used to have 5 of us at home and our food bill was huge, but now myself and my husband are empty nesters. That's been the case for a year and our food bill was quite steady. However, our food bill has changed a lot over the last month. We used to cook our main meals and use the leftovers for lunches, especially me because I work long hours and need to take food with me.

Instead of doing that, we have been splitting what we cook across 2 evening meals e.g. bolognese, chilli and curry and reheating on the second night. We are doing that at least twice over the week (so 4 meals, or 6 if we can). We realised that the amount of veg we were putting into meals for the 2 of us hadn't changed much compared to when we were cooking for 5, so we don't have to add much extra (e.g. an extra can of chopped tomatoes and more herbs) to make the meal feed us for 2 nights instead of 1. I am then taking other, simple things to work for lunch made from the extra bits of veg that are left in the packs we got for other meals, along with cooking a little extra rice or pasta alongside whatever we are having, or using the veg to fill pitta breads. I am taking more fruit with me too.

We always planned our meals before and always tried to use up leftovers, but we've vastly reduced our food waste doing this and our last few food shops have been noticeably cheaper.

For us, which wouldn't affect someone eating meat, there are a couple of things I buy in a tray from Amazon now and that saves quite a lot too. I know this is mumsnet and people do amazing things in terms of meal prep and getting loads of meals out of one thing they cook. What we are doing is way simpler.

We do eat lots of things like lentils, which I know some people wouldn't want to do. I have stopped buying plant milk and make it now, but that would only have made a little difference, I think - I wasn't having tonnes of the stuff before. We eat lots of different beans too, but tend to get organic canned ones rather than dried. I totally appreciate some people wouldn't want to do that, but there's not much comparison between the cost of a can of organic butter beans and the cost of 2 portions of meat, I suppose.

It's just shocked me how the small change of how we're cooking has made so much difference. The first week, I just thought we just didn't need to get so much that week in our shop. It's carried on though.

We do shop online for food as much as possible, as we get very easily distracted by things we don't need in a store. Plus, we then check what we have and see if we have enough for what we're planning. We also try and start our meal plan from what we already have here to use it up. It's all basic stuff lots of people are probably doing anyway.

We're really enjoying the food as well, importantly! We didn't do it this way to make savings - we were just being practical during a busy week initially. It's our favourite meals we are doubling up on too.

We tend to alternate the meals so that leftovers are eaten 2 days later than the first meal. We thought we were just cooking the same food in a different order, but it is making more difference than we thought.

I don't very often shop in the budget supermarket near us as we can't quite get what we need from there and it doesn't seem to save us money - it works best for us to do the online shop. We're big eaters - we like big portions!

I feel like (strangely) we're having more things that feel like luxuries too. If we want something like pizzas, the ones at Morrison's counter are amazing and 2 for £5. There are cheaper pizzas available, but not vegan and gluten free options. We like these the best too and they really pile on the toppings. Plus, you can see them make them and know they are being careful re: allergens. We don't get those online though, but luckily the counter is near the door, so it is possible to get them without buying loads of extra things!

We do try out new products if we come across them and they interest us, but I am aware that the cost of the rest of our meal probably balances that out. We are generally using our Instant Pot or air fryer to cook and so our energy costs are really low too. We love shoving potatoes and other veg we have in the fridge into the air fryer at the weekend with some veggie sausages and we feel like we've had a roast dinner that way. It's all easy stuff.

I am sure there will be ways you can slightly change what you are making that will make more difference than you expect too.

I am sure you will have loads of great suggestions on here too. I haven't read through them all.

Lex345 · 06/10/2024 09:22

I have definitely noticed food has gone up so much!

I can do it for £100/week or under if I can get away with it for 5 of us (3 adults, 2 older teens), but I do have to meal plan and be careful.

I used to follow the old style board on MSE and picked up a lot of tips there; for example a big pack of mince I will make a chilli or bolognaise but I bulk it out with grated carrots, spinach, beans, pearl barley, or even rice at a push so it does 2 or even 3 meals-for chilli for example, works out about £8.70 and that will comfortably do 2 meals for us all, usually 3.

Corned beef hash, egg fried rice with chicken, potato and leek soup, sausage casserole, homemade pasta, omelettes are all fairly cheap to make.

we usually have a sunday roast and I will purposefully buy a larger than we need joint-Pork is still really decent in price (beef and lamb only when offer!) and then use the rest for meals in the week; with pork ill do a home made sweet and sour/add to fried rice instead of chicken, beef-I always make a homemade gravy, so will do a beef stew with dumplings/strognanoff/meat pies.

I waste nothing, like fresh broccoli, I will use the stalks chopped up for soups, stir fry or in fried rice.

it is definitely not as easy to be frugal though. I remember when we first got married you would have been hard pushed to spend £100 on a trolley in aldi/lidl/netto; but easily could spend that on a couple of bags of shopping now.

Redlettuce · 06/10/2024 09:25

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 04/10/2024 15:09

@Missmarplesknittingbuddy less smug, more disbelief. 2 adults, 3 children. I don’t even try hard to not spend much. I really don’t get how people are spending so much. I know you’re taking the piss, but thought I’d have a go at pricing anyway….

Literally just made tea just now for later. Tuna pasta. Will make enough for tonight plus lunch for adults tomorrow.
tin of tomatoes 59p
2 cloves garlic 10p
mixed herbs 15p
bay leaves from garden
tbsp olive oil 10p
tom puree 15p
2 tin tuna 2 * 66
pasta 30p

Total £2.71 for 7 meals…

Might go nuts and add some cheese… third of a block is about a £1.

So let’s assume I spend more than that each night. Sometimes will be less for a JP or egg on Toast. Sometimes might have a roast chicken. So let’s assume £6 a night on average, a lot more than the above, it’s still only £36 ( we eat out once a week).

Kids usually have wholemeal bread and eggs for breakfast. Assume 2 loaves at 79p and 6 mixed weight free range eggs (only 99p in Aldi). We are on 2.57 for the week. Husband and I usually have porridge, so let’s assume a whole bag of oats 90p and 2pints milk 1.20.
4.67 for everyone for breakfast.

kids eat at school. We’ve then got 100- 4.67-36 = 59.33 for fruit, lunches, toiletries, cleaning, snacks etc.

I don’t really find it hard to stay under. We aren’t strapped for cash but still wouldn’t want to be spending more than 120. Some of the comments in this thread re spends are eye opening.

Edited

This is OK fir a one off but making 2 cans of tuna stretch between 7 might mean you're not getting enough iron. Women need 15mg per day and loads of us are deficient.

40g of tuna would have less than 0.5mg of iron.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:27

Redlettuce · 06/10/2024 09:25

This is OK fir a one off but making 2 cans of tuna stretch between 7 might mean you're not getting enough iron. Women need 15mg per day and loads of us are deficient.

40g of tuna would have less than 0.5mg of iron.

Yes, these portions sound a bit meagre - fine for a lean week, not ideal routinely.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 09:31

Redlettuce · 06/10/2024 09:25

This is OK fir a one off but making 2 cans of tuna stretch between 7 might mean you're not getting enough iron. Women need 15mg per day and loads of us are deficient.

40g of tuna would have less than 0.5mg of iron.

I cannot tell you how much I regret telling people what we are having for tea on one night of the month 😂

This evening we are having pulled pork with bao buns and broccoli. I’ll wait to be told that’s too expensive for my budget. Then I’ll say I’m having a JP on Monday with beans, but that’ll be too ‘grim’ for Mumsnet 😂.

My original point that a couple people’s post about spending 250 - 400 a month is wild stands. A couple should have no issue being in under £100 if they shopped at a ALDI or Lidl. people can spend their money where they like, but above a point £££ it becomes a lifestyle choice that they cannot complain about.

Lovelysummerdays · 06/10/2024 09:34

I’m generally astounded by the cost of food. I’m feeding 5 and even cheaper meals seem to be £££. Yesterday had a pasta dish, pack of fancy spaghetti with a whole in the middle, home made pasta sauce from a tin cherry tomatoes, tin of chopped tomatoes, chorizo ring chopped up and fried off a few herbs, chilli , garlic, served with a salad. £14 from Aldi. I had Salmon on Friday nice veg and a pudding £33 quid again from Aldi. I like to eat nice food and the kids are a bit fussy. I do 50/50 with their dad, which saves me a fortune on food far more than the paltry maintenance he used to pay.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:34

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 09:31

I cannot tell you how much I regret telling people what we are having for tea on one night of the month 😂

This evening we are having pulled pork with bao buns and broccoli. I’ll wait to be told that’s too expensive for my budget. Then I’ll say I’m having a JP on Monday with beans, but that’ll be too ‘grim’ for Mumsnet 😂.

My original point that a couple people’s post about spending 250 - 400 a month is wild stands. A couple should have no issue being in under £100 if they shopped at a ALDI or Lidl. people can spend their money where they like, but above a point £££ it becomes a lifestyle choice that they cannot complain about.

Again, it's less about the actual budget and more that prices are increasing across a range of products and a range of price levels. 😵‍💫

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 09:36

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:34

Again, it's less about the actual budget and more that prices are increasing across a range of products and a range of price levels. 😵‍💫

Yes you’re right, they are. But a couple should be able to get in under £100. Again, I was commenting specifically against the person that was spending over 250 a week. M
Huge regrets 😂

Fluufer · 06/10/2024 09:40

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:00

They can be rented or even borrowed in some areas or purchased second hand. They don't have to be fancy shaped ones, terry nappies are fairly cheap. They can also be used for the next child or sold on. I sold a few of mine and donated a few (I bought more than needed and only had one child).

Edited

One you account for the washing powder, water and electric, and wear and tear on the machine, even if you get the nappies for free and sell them at the end, you're probably saving a £ or 2 a week at the absolute most. Not really worth it for the cost savings.
I used terry squares for my middle (covid baby) for environmental reasons, because we had abundant spare time. It's saving anyone any significant cash though.

Statsworry1 · 06/10/2024 10:04

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:13

Who eats meat 7 days a week?

I added in a meal plan with meat for all 7 dinners. My supermarkets do deals of 3 for 9 of 3 for 9 I got 2 mix and matches this week I got
chicken breasts - for curry
beef steak - for a casserole
Pork mince- for Asian meatballs
beef mince- for spaghetti bolognaise
pork loin chops
cod fillets (this was only a pack of two because one of my dc doesn’t like cod so she’ll have fishfingers
i also bought a whole chicken

so that was €23

WiserOlderElf · 06/10/2024 10:22

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 09:13

Who eats meat 7 days a week?

We do. Not for every meal, obviously, but we’ll have meat at least once a day, every day. Chicken salad for lunch etc. I don’t think it’s that unusual really.

PayYourselfFirst · 06/10/2024 10:27

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 08:07

yeah I’d do half a bag for the family. No one goes hungry though 🤷‍♀️. Just do a yogurt or some icecream as pudding.

but honestly, even if I did a whole bag, it wouldn’t be that different.

I have two adults and 3 primary school children and spend about £100. My point wasn’t about whether or not some people spend a tenner more than me. It was that some people are literally spending triple and complaining/ worrying about it. £100 a week is not a particularly tight amount and plenty survive on much less. We are a higher income household, there’s just no need to go nuts on the weekly shop.

But you are consistently posting half portions , in the case of the magic eggs it was a quarter of what you would use.
Half a bag of pasta between 5 plus 2 extra adult portions is well under half the recommended portion size.
As I have said we can all cut down to skimpy,unhealthy rations to get our bills down plus I doubt the quality of 66p tuna is up to much .

The weekly current minimum spend is 35 pp , any lower than that is considered poverty

The thread is about the rising cost of food and providing our families with a healthy diet which is becoming increasingly difficult.
It's not about one person exaggerating and cutting portions in half just to win the thread and gaslight others.

Lex345 · 06/10/2024 10:40

One thing I have found helps keep chicken costs down as well (I love chicken!) is I will buy chicken drumsticks, the big packs and bone them, then stuff them for a roast; or if I buy a whole chicken, I take the legs and wings off, the legs I stuff (the wings generally end up as DH's snack!) and cook the crown, generally pull off the oysters/any other scraps as well. I have tried making soup from the carcass but personally find it very greasy and not particularly nice, instead I chop the bones to make a nice gravy with tarragon.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 10:44

PayYourselfFirst · 06/10/2024 10:27

But you are consistently posting half portions , in the case of the magic eggs it was a quarter of what you would use.
Half a bag of pasta between 5 plus 2 extra adult portions is well under half the recommended portion size.
As I have said we can all cut down to skimpy,unhealthy rations to get our bills down plus I doubt the quality of 66p tuna is up to much .

The weekly current minimum spend is 35 pp , any lower than that is considered poverty

The thread is about the rising cost of food and providing our families with a healthy diet which is becoming increasingly difficult.
It's not about one person exaggerating and cutting portions in half just to win the thread and gaslight others.

I literally used half a bag that night. You’re right about the extra portions, you wouldn’t rewarm pasta 🤢

I wish I could remove any trace of posting - huge regrets. But I spend £500 a month on supermarket. Doesn’t include school lunches and 1 meal out a week. No one goes without. Not trying to gaslight anyone.

i shop at Aldi, I don’t think hard about it, no ones hungry. Aldi tuna is nicer tasing than other brands I’ve had. I can’t believe I’m arguing over a packet of pasta and tuna. I regret being goaded into posting prices 😂.

my bad on the eggs 🤦‍♀️.

I completely agree prices have gone up. By about 20% in Aldi i would guess over the past 2 years. I have noticed they’ve plateaued though.

Comedycook · 06/10/2024 10:48

I always remember prices of things...before the cost of living crisis. I remember the following prices...

Two pack of chicken breasts...£1.49
Cucumber....49p
Head of broccoli...49p

These items are now

Two pack of chicken breasts...£2.69
Cucumber....89p
Head of broccoli....£1.15

These are huge increases

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 10:56

WiserOlderElf · 06/10/2024 10:22

We do. Not for every meal, obviously, but we’ll have meat at least once a day, every day. Chicken salad for lunch etc. I don’t think it’s that unusual really.

Most families I know don't eat meat every day.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 10:57

Comedycook · 06/10/2024 10:48

I always remember prices of things...before the cost of living crisis. I remember the following prices...

Two pack of chicken breasts...£1.49
Cucumber....49p
Head of broccoli...49p

These items are now

Two pack of chicken breasts...£2.69
Cucumber....89p
Head of broccoli....£1.15

These are huge increases

They are huge increases however food was actually ridiculously cheap at that point.
Re the broccoli it's often around 70p in Tesco or Lidl.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 10:59

@phonicshaskilledmeoff I definitely re-warm pasta/pasta dishes.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 11:01

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 10:59

@phonicshaskilledmeoff I definitely re-warm pasta/pasta dishes.

Depends on if it’s in a saucy sauce I think. I find it’s not quite the same second time around. Also someone once told me it can be a bit dodgy like rice with E. coli so I just don’t bother.

Comedycook · 06/10/2024 11:01

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 10:57

They are huge increases however food was actually ridiculously cheap at that point.
Re the broccoli it's often around 70p in Tesco or Lidl.

Edited

Food being cheap or expensive is all relative. The problem is wages aren't going up at that speed and we all still need to eat. So what happens is we end up having less disposable income...this then has a knock on effect on other businesses.... beauty salons, hairdressers, leisure activities, clothes shops etc....as people cut back in these areas.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 11:04

Comedycook · 06/10/2024 11:01

Food being cheap or expensive is all relative. The problem is wages aren't going up at that speed and we all still need to eat. So what happens is we end up having less disposable income...this then has a knock on effect on other businesses.... beauty salons, hairdressers, leisure activities, clothes shops etc....as people cut back in these areas.

I fully understand the problems of rising prices but it was also apparent that the ridiculously low prices would eventually have to increase.

zeitweilig · 06/10/2024 11:05

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 06/10/2024 11:01

Depends on if it’s in a saucy sauce I think. I find it’s not quite the same second time around. Also someone once told me it can be a bit dodgy like rice with E. coli so I just don’t bother.

If you heat food to the required temperature and add liquid as required it's normally fine. Obviously if it were a seafood sauce or something more high risk then I'd avoid reheating.