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To detest people that think they own beautiful parts of the world?

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Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 14:19

I grew up in a very ugly and undesirable part of the country and now live in a tourist hotspot. I am becoming increasingly frustrated by people that are born and raised here trying to restrict tourism or stop 'outsiders' moving here. The houses are expensive here because it's such a lovely place to live but there isn't much employment except for from tourism. Despite this many locals that I know feel that tourism should be restricted as it makes the town extremely busy in high season. They also think housing should be subsidised for locals.

I feel that there are only so many beautiful places and those lucky enough to be born in them are no more entitled to live and enjoy them than the rest of us who by luck were born elsewhere. This would effectively condemn future people like me to live and visit only the less desirable of areas whilst my children could stay in this lovely area and be subsidised for doing so. It just feels incredibly unfair!

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Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 18:57

ttcat37 · 03/10/2024 18:53

The fact that you’ve got no idea what I’m talking about says it all. You don’t like the locals, well they probably don’t like you either.

I never said I don't like them. They are people. I love some, like others and dislike some. I said I detested a certain attitude that some of them had. I can still like or love them as people. Many people may well consider me and my children to be locals now anyway.

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Sunnysundayicecream · 03/10/2024 18:57

I was born and have lived in the lake district most of my life, and we do need tourism to survive.
However I do find it sad that my children won't be able to afford a home here, I can trace my family back to 1540 and this will be the first generation to move out. I also miss the strong cumbrian accents I grew up with.
I do however find that most people who move here appreciate and look after the countryside as well as getting involved in cumbrian life as well as bring valuable skills to the community. People moving here is fine they give back to the community, second homes and Airbnb are the problem.
I also wish businesses wouldn't bring swanky bars/restaurants, it doesn't feel like part of the local tradition.

ttcat37 · 03/10/2024 18:58

Bumpitybumper · 03/10/2024 18:57

I never said I don't like them. They are people. I love some, like others and dislike some. I said I detested a certain attitude that some of them had. I can still like or love them as people. Many people may well consider me and my children to be locals now anyway.

I bet they don’t.

WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 19:00

KnottedTwine · 03/10/2024 18:56

Equally, the tourists subsidise the ferry, no tourists, no ferry for the locals . There is nobody with no gain...

In Scotland that is just not true. CalMac which runs the ferries is publicly owned. Because it is essential national infrastructure. It's actually the Scottish taxpayer who is subsidising the ferry for the tourists.

Do the tourists ride for free then? The revenue from the tourists lowers the subsidy from the tax payer. With no revenue the tax payer may well decide it's just not worth it...

Fluufer · 03/10/2024 19:00

ttcat37 · 03/10/2024 18:58

I bet they don’t.

Attitudes like that and you wonder why the "incomers" might want to change things. How horrible.

KnottedTwine · 03/10/2024 19:09

WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 19:00

Do the tourists ride for free then? The revenue from the tourists lowers the subsidy from the tax payer. With no revenue the tax payer may well decide it's just not worth it...

So the ferries are run by the government.

The prices are set based on road pricing levels which is why a crossing from Ullapool to Stornaway (which takes 2h 40m) for 2 adults and a car is less than £90, which is less or the same as the Dover-Calais ferry which is much quicker. Prices the same year round. The ferry is an essential island service so the Scottish government absorbs the cost and there is no need for it to make a profit. The service will continue however much money it makes/loses.

Tourists pay the same rate as islanders, or anyone else in Scotland wishing to use the service as there is not two-tier pricing. Ferry places are limited and if the tourists buy up all the tickets, the locals can't get off the island.

As with many things in Scotland, it would be easy to come up with some sort of charging to make it cheaper for residents, more expensive for tourists. This is very common between the Spanish balearic islands, or between the Balearics and the mainland. Residents pay a fraction of the tourist price.

Yelloworangetomato · 03/10/2024 19:11

WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 19:00

Do the tourists ride for free then? The revenue from the tourists lowers the subsidy from the tax payer. With no revenue the tax payer may well decide it's just not worth it...

Not free but it's road equivalent tariff now isn't it?

Nowdontmakeamess · 03/10/2024 19:12

ttcat37 · 03/10/2024 18:55

Please tell me how we can police house sales? People sell their homes in good faith and hope they’ll fit in with the community. And they don’t.

In the town I’m from some people ask potential buyers to write a letter explaining why they want the house if they only want a family to live there, but really they could write anything just to get their hands on it.

schloss · 03/10/2024 19:13

I have tbh and say there has been a change in the type of tourists visiting here since covid - as I have said before I am happy for people to experience other parts of the UK. The one positive from covid is many people saw parts of the UK which they would never have seen before as they could not fly to other destinations.

What it has done though is change the demographic of those visitors be it for good or bad. People want to view the wonderful environment, see local traditions, shop in small villages and towns, all enjoying what the area has to offer. Sadly there are some visitors who have visited over the last 3-4 years who like the area but want it to adapt to meet their needs, so wanting to park in remote areas where other visitors would walk to, want swanky bars, want more adventure options (zip wires etc) rather than just enjoying what is here naturally.

Some locals are concerned about the changes as they feel they are not all for the good of the area. From that I think it is a natural progression to becoming more protective of our surroundings and more circumspect of visitors and incomers alike.

Cosyblankets · 03/10/2024 19:16

ArabellaScott · 03/10/2024 18:44

Yes. See also the Western Isles - in the summer months locals struggle to leave the island as the ferries book up months in advance with tourists. Yes, tourism is important to parts of the economy, but not to everyone. Lots of people are merely inconvenienced by it, and gain no benefit.

Would there be enough locals to keep the pubs bars restaurants and shops going the rest of the year?

ArabellaScott · 03/10/2024 19:18

WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 18:51

You do know how an economy works? The visitor pays the holiday let owner to stay. The holiday let owner pays the butcher for some meat. The butcher buys some meat at the abattoir. The abattoir pays the farmer for the sheep. The farmer pays the farm shop for some feed..... and so on.

Equally, the tourists subsidise the ferry, no tourists, no ferry for the locals . There is nobody with no gain...

As has been explained, this is totally incorrect re ferries.

Thanks for the patronising economy lesson, though!

ArabellaScott · 03/10/2024 19:20

Cosyblankets · 03/10/2024 19:16

Would there be enough locals to keep the pubs bars restaurants and shops going the rest of the year?

The argument I'm making is not 'no tourists', it's that we need more ferries. Rural areas have scant services and these are easily overwhelmed due to poor planning from those in charge.

Cosyblankets · 03/10/2024 19:21

ArabellaScott · 03/10/2024 19:20

The argument I'm making is not 'no tourists', it's that we need more ferries. Rural areas have scant services and these are easily overwhelmed due to poor planning from those in charge.

In that instance i would be entirely in favour of a two tier system

DraftUp · 03/10/2024 19:27

I live in the Peak District and detest the fact that only those that can afford can live here whether they are outsiders or insiders 😁. I don’t ever see any evidence of outsiders not being wanted. What I do see is nearly half the village being second homes.

Globules · 03/10/2024 19:32

Not read the whole thread, but our town has had a massive influx of Londoners. They don't want to move here for the beauty, they want to move here for the house prices.

My ex-Londoner boss invited me to his Christmas party last year. All the people, bar me, had moved from London. All of them cited their reason for moving as the ability to purchase a large family home and a 2 bed rental flat here for the same price as a 3 bed in London. One of my bosses neighbours lives in his house for 4 weeks in August. The rest of the year it's empty.

It made me sick. So many of my friends can't afford to buy here, as all these Londoners have pushed the price of a house skyhigh.y

FrippEnos · 03/10/2024 19:32

You would have more of a point if it wasn't those that move in that despise the tourists and those that move in after them even more.

Its also equally hypocritical that those that move in almost always try and change the area that they move into. Anything from the church bells are to loud to the local farm/factory is to loud, smelly and dusty.

Winter2020 · 03/10/2024 19:32

Cosyblankets · 03/10/2024 16:18

I don't want to stay in a hotel. I want more space. I don't just want a bed.
I certainly don't want to stay in a caravan. I want a house. And so called lodges are already expensive enough. So that will drive the prices up and the tourists out and what will happen to the jobs where tourism is the main industry?
If locals cannot afford to buy in their area then they need to buy in a cheaper area when starting out. My parents bought in the cheapest area they could, in a town neither of them lived, just to get on the property ladder and they moved up and out when they could afford it.

If the prices are being forced up by investors then the locals who are selling can easily say no, we want to sell to a family or to a couple starting out. But more often than not they sell to the highest bidder, which is often an investor. No one is forcing the vendors to do this.

Families don't want to live in hotel rooms either - but they have to when there is nowhere else to live. I think a families right to a home is more important than a families right to their preferred holiday accommodation.

As for people selling to the highest bidder - you can't expect people to act against their best interests. Legislation is needed to stop residential properties being used as holiday lets e.g. require planning permission for short term lettings and heavily tax or again require planning permission for second (empty) homes.

Crystalbits · 03/10/2024 19:37

maddening · 03/10/2024 16:41

Surely the answer is that those in undesirable areas should put pressure on the local government to improve those areas rather than expect other areas to build up for everyone to move to.

Well sadly the buggers living in wealthy areas tend to vote for central governments that don’t like spending much on poorer areas. Hence most of the south (apart from parts of London) historically loving the Conservatives, voting them in repeatedly.

Jabtastic · 03/10/2024 19:37

Where I live is very beautiful but second home owners are a bit of a scourge. They buy up houses, demolish them, build McMansions and then only stay in them 2-4 weeks a year. It's not good for our community. And yes it's annoying when summer tourists dump litter everywhere and it gets so busy in summer we struggle to get on with life. Simple things like getting to the pharmacy or Post Office become missions.

Saz12 · 03/10/2024 19:40

I know people will rage at this - but having tourist honeypot areas (eg Skye) does protect other wild areas away from these honey-pots from excessive visitor numbers. Obviously it's crap if you live there though!

Generally, people are fairly unimaginative in where they visit (eg hillwalking - they go up Ben Nevis or Ben Lomond, the paths of which which look like a queue on good weekends in the summer - but that leaves other munro's much quieter, means loads of businesses open nearby, keeps everyone safe and contained...).

WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 19:45

Jabtastic · 03/10/2024 19:37

Where I live is very beautiful but second home owners are a bit of a scourge. They buy up houses, demolish them, build McMansions and then only stay in them 2-4 weeks a year. It's not good for our community. And yes it's annoying when summer tourists dump litter everywhere and it gets so busy in summer we struggle to get on with life. Simple things like getting to the pharmacy or Post Office become missions.

Translation: Where I live second home owners pour hundreds of thousands of pounds into the local economy and make little demands on infrastructure. In summer so much tourist money is poured into the local economy, that sometimes it gets a bit busy

NinetyNineOrangeBalloons · 03/10/2024 19:48

Cosyblankets · 03/10/2024 16:18

I don't want to stay in a hotel. I want more space. I don't just want a bed.
I certainly don't want to stay in a caravan. I want a house. And so called lodges are already expensive enough. So that will drive the prices up and the tourists out and what will happen to the jobs where tourism is the main industry?
If locals cannot afford to buy in their area then they need to buy in a cheaper area when starting out. My parents bought in the cheapest area they could, in a town neither of them lived, just to get on the property ladder and they moved up and out when they could afford it.

If the prices are being forced up by investors then the locals who are selling can easily say no, we want to sell to a family or to a couple starting out. But more often than not they sell to the highest bidder, which is often an investor. No one is forcing the vendors to do this.

Someone’s desire for a specific type of holiday should be way down the priority list after someone who needs that house to live in.

skyfalldown · 03/10/2024 19:50

Moving to a beautiful area to make a life for yourself and your family? Sure, go right ahead. Buying up a house that could have gone to a local and turning into a holiday home you visit once a year? Get tae fuck.

KnottedTwine · 03/10/2024 19:52

Two tier pricing is common in other places. We are planning a trip to Fuerteventura soon and looked at ferry prices. For a non-resident to travel Fuerteventura to Lanzarote it's 17 euros one way as a foot passenger. For a resident, the same journey is 4.25 euros - 25% of the price.

Nobody is saying we don't want tourists in rural Scotland. We welcome s manageable number of tourists, but some of the most popular places are overrun to the stage that ambulances can't get through.

Jabtastic · 03/10/2024 19:57

WithManyTot · 03/10/2024 19:45

Translation: Where I live second home owners pour hundreds of thousands of pounds into the local economy and make little demands on infrastructure. In summer so much tourist money is poured into the local economy, that sometimes it gets a bit busy

You're being very simplistic.

These people raise prices for houses which means local people can no longer afford them. Their houses lie empty all through the winter meaning street after street of dark windows. Older people have no neighbours to keep an eye on them (empty houses) and their children and grandchildren can't afford to buy locally. I'll be one of those older people in a few years and I'm disabled so I will need people around me.

We don't really want second home owners here to be honest. They don't contribute much at all after their house renovations are complete (and often use outside contractors anyway) but they make huge demands on housing stock. Our home is our home, not a tourist playground.