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To ask how I can successfully ringfence this money? (Please don’t post for moral judgement)

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Jaalp · 02/10/2024 14:26

I am a single parent to a 3 year old who will start school in the next two years. I have saved up a significant amount of money for schools fees. As a single parent I am constantly worried about job loss or anything else that could affect things. I am aware that if for some reason I was made redundant, for example, if I have more than a certain amount in savings then I would be expected to use this before claiming universal credit etc.

I have no intention of claiming universal credit but life happens and I have to be conscious of the potential things that could happen.

My question is, is there any way to put this money in an account for my child that would be protected as theirs and not counted in an assessment for universal credit etc should that ever happen?

Please don’t make this is a private school bashing thread or about playing the system etc. I’ve worked hard all my life and intend to continue to do so. Thanks.

OP posts:
Cerealkiller4U · 02/10/2024 16:02

GabriellaMontez · 02/10/2024 15:58

Is education a luxury?

It would be fine to have a couple of teslas on the drive... now that's a luxury.

Of course it is

otherwise we’d all get it.

Maria1979 · 02/10/2024 16:03

Seriously OP, unless your child is SEN absolutely no need to put him in private school before secondary. That is what all my son's teachers have done with their children and I did the same.

LakieLady · 02/10/2024 16:03

twomanyfrogsinabox · 02/10/2024 15:06

A trust fund seems like what you need, but it may cost a bit to set up. I think you could specify that one purpose of the trust was to pay school fees. You would lose control of the money apart from using it for your child, so if you might need it yourself at some point it might not be such a good idea.

For funds held in a trust to be disregarded for benefit purposes, they have to be in a discretionary trust where trustees decide on who gets help and what the money can be used for.

I think that any trust that had as its main or sole purpose the payment of school fees for a specific, named child might not be regarded as truly discretionary.

ratherbesurfing · 02/10/2024 16:04

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 15:36

@Justcallmebebes im not sure I am classed as ‘very wealthy. I still have a mortgage

You can afford to save enough money to send your kid to private school, of course you’re wealthy. You’re either being disingenuous with this statement or you have no idea how the other half live which is probably why you keep coming back to the daily mail tropes about expensive TVs and cars in relation to people on universal credit.

I don’t care whether you asked for opinions or not, you’re going to get mine. Just because your kid is going to private school and you can afford to squirrel away money in trust funds to hide it from the government, morally that makes you no less of a benefits cheat than people who fake illness for PIP in my opinion.

Cerealkiller4U · 02/10/2024 16:05

Ohfuckrucksack · 02/10/2024 15:59

I think the problem is that you're looking at protecting privilege - a privilege that you want to retain even if you can't afford it.

So you want your child to be kept away from children whose parents can't afford a privileged education and yet are happy to use those parent's to pay for your living costs whilst your child doesn't have to experience their 'lesser' company.

You're asking to keep luxuries whilst other people pay for your necessities.

This.

Fluffyelephant · 02/10/2024 16:05

Crikeyalmighty · 02/10/2024 16:01

@GabriellaMontez so say I'm saving up for a house deposit ( we rent ) and have say £45k - is housing a luxury?? There's no difference. It's money the OP has -- what she wants to spend it on is irrelevant to the universal credit folks

Exactly!

This is what I found unbelievable too. A few years ago when I was on £15k full time wage I lost my job and found out I couldn't claim anything because I had been so frugal and put £10k aside over the years partly to be sensible and in the hope of one day using it for a house deposit or a car if a new job ever needed.

I was literally penalised for having savings while people who had been earning more but spent it were entitled to UC.

Cerealkiller4U · 02/10/2024 16:06

LakieLady · 02/10/2024 16:03

For funds held in a trust to be disregarded for benefit purposes, they have to be in a discretionary trust where trustees decide on who gets help and what the money can be used for.

I think that any trust that had as its main or sole purpose the payment of school fees for a specific, named child might not be regarded as truly discretionary.

Agreed

GabriellaMontez · 02/10/2024 16:06

Crikeyalmighty · 02/10/2024 16:01

@GabriellaMontez so say I'm saving up for a house deposit ( we rent ) and have say £45k - is housing a luxury?? There's no difference. It's money the OP has -- what she wants to spend it on is irrelevant to the universal credit folks

I think the OPs point is that it's not irrelevant.

If she bought 100k of jewellery or a prestige car, that would be fine.

If she's saving for education that's not.

Im not sure what you mean about the house deposit but, they do make a short term allowance for a deposit for a house.

OldieButBaddie · 02/10/2024 16:06

YOu could set up an Educational Trust Fund
Secret Tax Benefits of an Education Trust Fund - MoneyMagpie

I know FIL did one years ago for one of his granddaughters
I know nothing about them though

Cerealkiller4U · 02/10/2024 16:07

ratherbesurfing · 02/10/2024 16:04

You can afford to save enough money to send your kid to private school, of course you’re wealthy. You’re either being disingenuous with this statement or you have no idea how the other half live which is probably why you keep coming back to the daily mail tropes about expensive TVs and cars in relation to people on universal credit.

I don’t care whether you asked for opinions or not, you’re going to get mine. Just because your kid is going to private school and you can afford to squirrel away money in trust funds to hide it from the government, morally that makes you no less of a benefits cheat than people who fake illness for PIP in my opinion.

Yes. Spot on. It’s abhorrent

Butchyrestingface · 02/10/2024 16:08

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 15:36

@Justcallmebebes im not sure I am classed as ‘very wealthy. I still have a mortgage

I was actually just thinking about your mortgage. Grin

Are you the one who was on a while ago agonising about how your single parent self is setting your toddler up for a life of irreversible penury by having a perfectly normal sized ginormous mortgage?

If not, others share your fears.

Cerealkiller4U · 02/10/2024 16:08

OldieButBaddie · 02/10/2024 16:06

YOu could set up an Educational Trust Fund
Secret Tax Benefits of an Education Trust Fund - MoneyMagpie

I know FIL did one years ago for one of his granddaughters
I know nothing about them though

She’d have to pay tax on this. The government would then know about it. Then they’d know about it if she asks for UC

Beezknees · 02/10/2024 16:08

GabriellaMontez · 02/10/2024 15:58

Is education a luxury?

It would be fine to have a couple of teslas on the drive... now that's a luxury.

Private education is a luxury, of course it is.

Hyperbowl · 02/10/2024 16:09

Why on earth would you not just put that money towards your mortgage which would be a much better way to protect your assets if you lose your job?

Miffylou · 02/10/2024 16:11

GabriellaMontez · 02/10/2024 16:06

I think the OPs point is that it's not irrelevant.

If she bought 100k of jewellery or a prestige car, that would be fine.

If she's saving for education that's not.

Im not sure what you mean about the house deposit but, they do make a short term allowance for a deposit for a house.

That’s the second post where you talk as if children won’t get an education unless their parents pay for one. I’m sure you know really that that is not the case. Education in state schools is free.

RoundAgain · 02/10/2024 16:13

Hi @Jaalp,

I think that what you are proposing is benefit fraud and you are proposing it on a public form. I'm not sure that that is really a good idea.

Nanny0gg · 02/10/2024 16:13

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 14:53

@Crikeyalmighty i suppose I think it’s different as the schools fees are clearly for my child and are of no benefit to me.

Just move near decent schools

There are some out there

LakieLady · 02/10/2024 16:14

Tellysavelas · 02/10/2024 15:31

Even if it’s not OP’s money anymore?

Giving money away in order to maximise benefit entitlement is exactly what the deprivation of capital rules are there to prevent.

twistnslide · 02/10/2024 16:14

OP this is no different to trying to hide money away for any other luxury. Your are intentionally trying to play the system using the guise of education to justify it. But this is no different to wanting to hide money to pay for holidays, cars or home improvements whilst expecting the tax payer to give you money.

You should be ashamed.

GabriellaMontez · 02/10/2024 16:16

Miffylou · 02/10/2024 16:11

That’s the second post where you talk as if children won’t get an education unless their parents pay for one. I’m sure you know really that that is not the case. Education in state schools is free.

I really don't know what gave you that impression.

Tellysavelas · 02/10/2024 16:18

LakieLady · 02/10/2024 16:14

Giving money away in order to maximise benefit entitlement is exactly what the deprivation of capital rules are there to prevent.

Not when it’s invested in an education trust fund.

Education trust funds are separate to the rest of your estate and are liable for Capital Gains Tax.

OP would not be doing anything illegal.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 02/10/2024 16:19

Having your child in an independent school won't be much comfort if your house is repossessed and you're stood in the queue at the Foodbank because you've either been sanctioned for attempting to hide money - or it's actually put in a place where you can't access it and UC alone doesn't cover your mortgage and bills (or the contracted fees if you only get offered temporary accommodation 260 miles away).

Fluffyelephant · 02/10/2024 16:20

twistnslide · 02/10/2024 16:14

OP this is no different to trying to hide money away for any other luxury. Your are intentionally trying to play the system using the guise of education to justify it. But this is no different to wanting to hide money to pay for holidays, cars or home improvements whilst expecting the tax payer to give you money.

You should be ashamed.

Edited

But ironically if she spent all the private school savings on holidays, cars and home improvements THEN lost her job she would be fully entitled to tax payers’ money.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

LakieLady · 02/10/2024 16:20

Fluffyelephant · 02/10/2024 16:05

Exactly!

This is what I found unbelievable too. A few years ago when I was on £15k full time wage I lost my job and found out I couldn't claim anything because I had been so frugal and put £10k aside over the years partly to be sensible and in the hope of one day using it for a house deposit or a car if a new job ever needed.

I was literally penalised for having savings while people who had been earning more but spent it were entitled to UC.

Your UC entitlement must have been very low for £10k to reduce it to zero.

The first £6k is disregarded and tariff income on the rest is only £4.35 a month for each £250.

thepariscrimefiles · 02/10/2024 16:20

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 14:42

@InformerYaNoSayDaddyMeSnowMeIGoBlameALickyBoom im asking if there is a way to protect my child’s school fees. It’s not playing the system, I have no intention of using the system at all. I hope to never have to.

Protecting your child's school fees is playing the system. If you lose your job, you want to hide your savings so that you can claim Universal Credit. How would this not be benefit fraud?