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To ask how I can successfully ringfence this money? (Please don’t post for moral judgement)

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Jaalp · 02/10/2024 14:26

I am a single parent to a 3 year old who will start school in the next two years. I have saved up a significant amount of money for schools fees. As a single parent I am constantly worried about job loss or anything else that could affect things. I am aware that if for some reason I was made redundant, for example, if I have more than a certain amount in savings then I would be expected to use this before claiming universal credit etc.

I have no intention of claiming universal credit but life happens and I have to be conscious of the potential things that could happen.

My question is, is there any way to put this money in an account for my child that would be protected as theirs and not counted in an assessment for universal credit etc should that ever happen?

Please don’t make this is a private school bashing thread or about playing the system etc. I’ve worked hard all my life and intend to continue to do so. Thanks.

OP posts:
Chateauneufdu · 02/10/2024 21:18

MuchasSmoochas · 02/10/2024 21:09

I am assuming it’s catastrophical thinking aloud, which is what happens when you are worried about something which might never happen. But instead of support, OP is being hounded.

Yep just seems a waste of energy & moral judgement is exactly what you will get on here

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 21:19

Acommonreader · 02/10/2024 21:11

Nonsense. You are a family unit and are purchasing an expensive luxury service for your child.
You do not appear to be interested in the much repeated sensible advice here so I won’t bother.
However, please beware the additional costs, universal credit will rightly not touch the sides of them ! This year I have spent an additional £3000 on trips, uniform, books and music lessons/ instrument hire on top of fees. Also fees rise every year with both inflation and by school year ( year 13 costs more than year 7).
It would be unfortunate and disruptive for your child to have to leave their school because you cannot plan sufficiently.

@Acommonreader i am aware there are additional costs associated with a private school. The 200k is making money and I have therefore included that element. That said, there’s no need for my child to go on every trip available or have every music lesson going.

OP posts:
BESTAUNTB · 02/10/2024 21:20

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 21:16

@BESTAUNTB i am a single parent and want to stay close to family.

Understandable!

Crikeyalmighty · 02/10/2024 21:21

@Jaalp it does not highlight how people view education but does hilight that most of us view private education as an expensive 'choice' people are entitled to make , if they can afford it- which if you needed to be claiming UC you clearly cannot. If you want to use your savings to pay fees and your living expenses then I for one have no issue- I do have an issue if you are claiming off public funds and yet have plenty stashed away.

Ownedbykitties · 02/10/2024 21:24

Dartmoorcheffy · 02/10/2024 14:35

If You can't afford private school then your kid doesn't go to one. There's no need for it and be honest, would you be able to afford all the expensive extra curricular activities that your child would like to do? If not then it's very unfair, almost cruel to send your child to a place where they will feel like the poor one while all their schoolfriend come from much wealthier families and he doesn't. Think about him.

It sounds like you don't know an awful lot about private schools. They are not all Eaton and Harrow. Most have a mix of children from different backgrounds.

Frogmarch89 · 02/10/2024 21:25

God what an awful thread. Can I live off tax payers money and send my kid to private school with the money I have stashed away. Jesus fucking Christ even if you legally can are we expected to not have an opinion about that?

ratherbesurfing · 02/10/2024 21:25

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 20:59

@Bachboo if you think buying a 100k car is the same as buying education you are a very sad person. Education matters. Flashy cars do not.

You’re the only person talking about cars from what I can see. Trying to distract from your questionable morals.

WhimsicalGubbins76 · 02/10/2024 21:28

Let’s just take a moment to absorb this OP. Whatever way you want to slice it, what you’re asking is for advice on how to commit benefit fraud. It’s your money, that you earned, and you’re asking for ways to hide it (using the word “ring fenced”, which does not exist in terms of benefits) so that you can claim from the taxpayer-who will be the ones essentially finding your child in private school.
This is fraud. Fraud. There is no other word for it, and if I were you id be asking the moderators to remove your post

Prinzesa · 02/10/2024 21:29

InterIgnis · 02/10/2024 21:11

Much like posters on mumsnet then?

😅

Youcantwinthemall · 02/10/2024 21:29

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 14:56

@Freakydeak how are school fees a benefit to me….?

Errr because you get to have a kid who has a great education. Presumably, given you value private education so much, you’d feel rubbish if you failed to give your child that. Much like people who genuinely need UC feel rubbish because they can’t afford food or warmth for their kid.

Another2Cats · 02/10/2024 21:32

ANightingaleSang · 02/10/2024 20:59

Thanks, appreciate it. 17k is total savings not deposit. Sounds great on paper but not realistic. What about an emergency fund and moving costs? Full time nursery fees plus mortgage repayments, plus moving away from my support network. I think you'd need double that as a deposit. Also factor in the pay cut from moving outside London...it's just not feasible.

"I think you'd need double that as a deposit."

There are plenty of 95% mortgages available. So, take a typical two bed house at £180k. A 5% deposit would be £9k and a mortgage of £171k. Then just checking on Money Saving Expert, the best deals at the moment.

Virgin Money, Coventry Building Society and Skipton Building Society all have deals at around 4.98% fixed for five years which would mean that the monthly payment for the next five years would be fixed at between £995 and £999 per month.

You would also only have paid £9k as a deposit.

I don't know how much that compares to the current rent that you're paying?

"...plus moving away from my support network"

That, I agree with you is a really big issue.

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 21:32

WhimsicalGubbins76 · 02/10/2024 21:28

Let’s just take a moment to absorb this OP. Whatever way you want to slice it, what you’re asking is for advice on how to commit benefit fraud. It’s your money, that you earned, and you’re asking for ways to hide it (using the word “ring fenced”, which does not exist in terms of benefits) so that you can claim from the taxpayer-who will be the ones essentially finding your child in private school.
This is fraud. Fraud. There is no other word for it, and if I were you id be asking the moderators to remove your post

@WhimsicalGubbins76 a trust fund for fees is not fraud. As has been explained to me many times on this thread.

OP posts:
Angelou79 · 02/10/2024 21:32

Hi would you continue to pay the fees if on UC? I assume you haven’t saved enough to cover 12 years?

InterIgnis · 02/10/2024 21:33

WhimsicalGubbins76 · 02/10/2024 21:28

Let’s just take a moment to absorb this OP. Whatever way you want to slice it, what you’re asking is for advice on how to commit benefit fraud. It’s your money, that you earned, and you’re asking for ways to hide it (using the word “ring fenced”, which does not exist in terms of benefits) so that you can claim from the taxpayer-who will be the ones essentially finding your child in private school.
This is fraud. Fraud. There is no other word for it, and if I were you id be asking the moderators to remove your post

No, she can legally do it. Legally. Not fraudulently, and not by stealing. Legally.

That some posters don’t want her to be able to do it, or think it shouldn’t be legal, is irrelevant. She asked whether there was a way she could do it, and she got her answer.

Sharptonguedwoman · 02/10/2024 21:33

Nastyaa · 02/10/2024 19:57

Does your child have to go to a private school? Why don't you just put the money into a trust for them to do with what they want when they reach 18? That would be a lot wiser than throwing a load of money at a pretentious private school.

Nastyaa, perhaps you misunderstood. OP is asking about ring fencing money for private education not about whether or not they are pretentious. Some are, some are not but that's not the point of the question.

Bachboo · 02/10/2024 21:35

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ANightingaleSang · 02/10/2024 21:36

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 19:35

@wombat15 oh I didn’t know this. So it’s only assessed on savings if you claim beyond six months? I’d not be happy being out of work for a month, let alone six, so this is the hypothetical cushion I was hoping for.

This is bullshit btw. You can't claim UC if you have savings over £16,000. If you have savings above £6000, your payments are reduced accordingly and you do not receive the full benefit.

Acommonreader · 02/10/2024 21:37

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 21:19

@Acommonreader i am aware there are additional costs associated with a private school. The 200k is making money and I have therefore included that element. That said, there’s no need for my child to go on every trip available or have every music lesson going.

The extras like music and trips are what makes private school worth the money.
Please consider how your child will feel not being able to participate in concerts and trips- they are strongly encouraged and part of school culture.
I’d advise more research into school fees not universal credit as your £200 k won’t even cover fees alone.
Credit to you for accumulating the money and you can give your child a fantastic life with these savings in many ways but you don’t really have enough for private school.

CheekyHobson · 02/10/2024 21:37

I’m not sure I’m buying this thread. A single mum who’s been able to sock away £50k a year since her pregnancy test came back positive (or who has been speculatively saving for years before then?) as well as secure a home, who doesn’t understand the basic concept of a trust fund and who is so insecure in her presumably high-paid career that she’s worried she’ll end up on benefits?

Sharptonguedwoman · 02/10/2024 21:39

WhimsicalGubbins76 · 02/10/2024 21:28

Let’s just take a moment to absorb this OP. Whatever way you want to slice it, what you’re asking is for advice on how to commit benefit fraud. It’s your money, that you earned, and you’re asking for ways to hide it (using the word “ring fenced”, which does not exist in terms of benefits) so that you can claim from the taxpayer-who will be the ones essentially finding your child in private school.
This is fraud. Fraud. There is no other word for it, and if I were you id be asking the moderators to remove your post

No it isn't. I'm not an expert by any means but I do know there are things called educational trust funds or similar. It doesn't matter who pays in, granny, whoever. That money can only be used for education, I presume. It's not illegal or immoral, just a way of saving.
OP isn't unemployed so benefit fraud doesn't even come into it.

Jaalp · 02/10/2024 21:39

Acommonreader · 02/10/2024 21:37

The extras like music and trips are what makes private school worth the money.
Please consider how your child will feel not being able to participate in concerts and trips- they are strongly encouraged and part of school culture.
I’d advise more research into school fees not universal credit as your £200 k won’t even cover fees alone.
Credit to you for accumulating the money and you can give your child a fantastic life with these savings in many ways but you don’t really have enough for private school.

@Acommonreader the fees are 15k a year currently. Even with VAT and increases there is more than enough.

OP posts:
WhimsicalGubbins76 · 02/10/2024 21:39

CheekyHobson · 02/10/2024 21:37

I’m not sure I’m buying this thread. A single mum who’s been able to sock away £50k a year since her pregnancy test came back positive (or who has been speculatively saving for years before then?) as well as secure a home, who doesn’t understand the basic concept of a trust fund and who is so insecure in her presumably high-paid career that she’s worried she’ll end up on benefits?

You know what, you’re absolutely right 🤣 I’m not buying it either.

Lou670 · 02/10/2024 21:39

I wouldn't have thought you would be able to 'ring fence' this money as you have made this your priority. It would be like saying 'but I have saved up all this money for a long time for a holiday of a lifetime'. There is a savings threshold for a reason, people should not be claiming if they are sitting on thousands in the bank. Yes you would like your child to be privately educated but it is not a necessity.

Crikeyalmighty · 02/10/2024 21:41

@WhimsicalGubbins76 yep something about it doesn't seem quite right-

VivX · 02/10/2024 21:43

You are asking people how to circumvent the UC rules on deprivation of capital to enable you to potentially receive UC, at the taxpayers expense instead of spending (some of) that capital on supporting yourself.
This kind of situation is precisely why deprivation of capital rules exist.

Anyway, only certain trusts are disregarded for UC, the rest are still counted as capital for UC.

There's also such a thing as notional capital where the DWP treats you as still having the money if you have spent it in order to receive Universal Credit.

(And being a single parent is beside the point)