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To ask if anyone deliberately plans/uses their sick leave as part of their entitlement?

315 replies

OneOpenRedShaker · 30/09/2024 18:49

I know some people who treat sick leave as an entitlement and plan/schedule when to use it, even when they’re not seriously ill. I’m curious to know if anyone else does this, or if most people reserve it for when they’re genuinely sick. Do you view sick leave as a right to use as needed, or is it something that should be used sparingly?

OP posts:
Holidayhell22 · 30/09/2024 19:50

I’m all fairness my boss let my do a different role when I was at work ill.
If she hadn’t then I probably would have taken sick leave as I could not do my regular job.

MyApa · 30/09/2024 19:50

If I haven’t been sick for let’s say 6 months I will take a sick day and uses it as a mental health day. I don’t take the piss and I genuinely do it to get back on top of life/emotions etc

mynameiscalypso · 30/09/2024 19:51

This is such a bizarre idea to me. Unless I'm properly sick, why would I take a sick day when I'd just have to do all the work the next day?

thicklysettled · 30/09/2024 19:51

Where are people working that there are people taking months of sick leave on a regular basis? Why aren't they being managed out?

JudgeJ · 30/09/2024 19:52

Walkingtheplank · 30/09/2024 18:57

I have about 1 day off sick every 2 years. So I use it correctly.

Sadly quite a few of my colleagues use it as part of their leave, e.g. falling ill the week before and after their wedding but being on top form for the day itself. Have some colleagues who have 3-6 months off sick every year.

When I was teaching we knew when the caravan sites had opened for the Summer by the frequency of Mondays and/or Fridays that a couple of women phoned in sick!

Alconleigh · 30/09/2024 19:52

birthdaymom · 30/09/2024 19:43

DH gets 3 fully paid "sick days" a year, if he doesn't use them then he loses them. He usually keeps them and uses them when the kids are off school Ill or on holiday and we're stuck for childcare.
If it's in your entitlement then why wouldn't you use it?

I'd get up to forty days paid sick leave per year but that doesn't mean I'm taking 8 weeks off per year because I'm entitled to it. Nor are any of my colleagues. Because it's for when you're actually ill. They're not a different version of Bank Holidays!

LondonFox · 30/09/2024 19:52

I use sick leave for interviews for a new role 🤣
And 3-4 days a year when I just cannot be bothered to work.
On a flio side, I am never really ill so there are noother sick days from me.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 30/09/2024 19:53

Alconleigh · 30/09/2024 19:32

Where are the people working that allow people to so blatantly rinse it? Is it public sector?

Definitely not public sector - from the replies sounds like it’s very much the private sector, and driven by employers specifying the number of days employees can have off sick - making them regard that as a target number.

I’m public sector and people don’t go off sick unless they need to be off sick.

Bringautumnnights · 30/09/2024 19:53

HarrietJonesFlydaleNorth · 30/09/2024 18:58

No, but.... I have taken a couple of days off here and there over the years when feeling absolutely wrung out, burnt out and good for nothing, and tbh I've called in with stomach sickness rather than explaining my mh because quite frankly it's easier.
I know it's not right but it doesn't feel 100% wrong either.

The only thing not right is it should be socially acceptable to have mental health recovery days rather than having to lie about it

Alconleigh · 30/09/2024 19:53

This thread is quite illuminating in terms of the low productivity of this country.

HillsNValleys · 30/09/2024 19:55

I’ve never looked at sick leave like this. I use it when I’m ill or occasionally over the years when I’m exhausted and need to recuperate or I know I will be ill.

I’ve ‘chucked a sickie ’ in my younger days when I was much more reckless or in jobs with little responsibility (although not for many years), but I’ve never pre-planned using up sick leave as annual leave.

BiccysR4dunking · 30/09/2024 19:55

Apotofgold · 30/09/2024 18:53

There’s an individual in my team who has taken 4-6 months off on sick leave every year since they’ve been there. They have somehow managed to get a promotion in that time as well then promptly went off on the sick again.

I have a friend that does this. Never genuinely ill just milks that they can take sick leave on full pay for up to 6 months. They've worked there for years and done this for many years it's always amazed me how they've gotten away with it.

SomeKindOfPermanentlyExhaustedPigeon · 30/09/2024 19:56

Pandasandtigers · 30/09/2024 19:00

I go off sick when I’m sick and also take 3 days in a row, once a year when I’m not ill, normally in December.

Use it or loose it. 25 days annual leave is far too short when you have a family.

Amazing.

Don't be so arrogant to think your employer doesn't know you're a slacker. I suspect your performance isn't up to scratch elsewhere too.

northernballer · 30/09/2024 19:57

I work from home and not had a sick day sInce that started, so 6 years or so now. If I went to the office I would have had a few as there is a big difference to an hour on the tube to a busy office than a day working at home when ill.

I know people who abuse sick days. PIsses me off but I guess I could do the same just choose not to be a dick.

FS90 · 30/09/2024 19:57

NoOffButton · 30/09/2024 19:27

I only get 5 paid sick days a year. I tend to go in when I’m sick or WFH and save the sick days for when my (very healthy) DC is unwell. In the end, I didn’t take a single sick day last year.

5 days!? That’s appalling. Do you have private sick insurance at least?

MakeItRain26 · 30/09/2024 20:00

I have heard of people doing this in companies where the paid sick leave is only a few days. I can see it may feel like an entitlement in that way although I would be too worried about using them up and then needing them.

I work in the public sector and get 5 months full sick pay and 5 months half currently. I obviously don’t take that as an entitlement. My workplace is good to me so if I am unwell I usually try to just reschedule things and work from home. I have had 1.5 days off sick in the last 4 years. I will say however that I have been guilty in previous jobs of taking a sick day when I felt unwell on a Friday and had exciting plans at the weekend that I wanted to feel better for…but otherwise was probably well enough to make the effort to go in.

AddictedtoStarmix · 30/09/2024 20:00

I was always fortunate enough to have not used my sick leave and thank goodness, as an emergency operation has left me unable to work.
As I hadn't used any leave it has enabled me three months recovery on full pay. I am already concerned that this will effect my employability in the future, so can only surmise people who misuse their sick leave must work in a different field to me.
If people are that ambiguous or hate their jobs that they manipulate sick leave (which is a perk, not a right), I wish they would just get another job, their absence impacts on someone and to do it regularly is narcissistic and selfish.

Holidayhell22 · 30/09/2024 20:00

Yes my company use the Bradford system and it is ridiculously tight.
Any parent taking sick leave during school holidays would be flagged. Same for Mondays and Fridays. Or sickness on birthdays or know families birthdays. Or sick the same/similar week each year.
Tne reason this was brought in was due to abuse of the system by previous colleagues who no longer work here.
Thanks for that!

SomeKindOfPermanentlyExhaustedPigeon · 30/09/2024 20:00

birthdaymom · 30/09/2024 19:43

DH gets 3 fully paid "sick days" a year, if he doesn't use them then he loses them. He usually keeps them and uses them when the kids are off school Ill or on holiday and we're stuck for childcare.
If it's in your entitlement then why wouldn't you use it?

What the holy fuck am I reading?

It's an entitlement IF YOU ARE SICK.

By your (entitled) argument, are non-pregnant women entitled to 9 months of paid leave, because if you don't use it you lose it?

Hmm, I get 6 months fully paid leave in my 'entitlement'. Maybe I should call in sick tomorrow and for the next six months, despite not being sick, because if I don't use it I'll lose it?

And what happens if your husband were to use up the 3 days and then actually be too unwell to work?

IVbumble · 30/09/2024 20:01

The trouble with thinking that you are 'entitled' to sick days is that if you do become genuinely ill for example with cancer - you'll really need those sick days but will have run out.

Scirocco · 30/09/2024 20:02

Sick leave is for when you're too sick to work. That's why it's called sick leave.

I would be very unimpressed if anyone in my team tried to use it as 'bonus' annual leave.

BESTAUNTB · 30/09/2024 20:03

IVbumble · 30/09/2024 20:01

The trouble with thinking that you are 'entitled' to sick days is that if you do become genuinely ill for example with cancer - you'll really need those sick days but will have run out.

This is what puts me off pulling sickies. More so than the moral aspect tbh.

Windchimesandsong · 30/09/2024 20:03

Icanwalkintheroom · 30/09/2024 18:51

I don’t know how to vote as you haven’t said what you think but I think it’s massively unreasonable to use sick leave in this way. It’s not what it’s there for and makes it harder for people to take genuine sick leave if it’s known that others are exploiting the system.

All of this.

Also I'm too superstitious to do that. I don't want to tempt fate by claiming I'm sick - and then actually getting sick.

HillsNValleys · 30/09/2024 20:04

Alconleigh · 30/09/2024 19:53

This thread is quite illuminating in terms of the low productivity of this country.

These threads do bring out the pisstakers, but they also bring out the ‘I haven’t had a day off sick in 10 years’ brigade, too. Do they want a medal for being lucky enough not to have been too ill to work?

SomeKindOfPermanentlyExhaustedPigeon · 30/09/2024 20:05

thicklysettled · 30/09/2024 19:51

Where are people working that there are people taking months of sick leave on a regular basis? Why aren't they being managed out?

We had a guy like this in my last job.

He was at work for 6 months of the year, then would go off for 6 months, then return just before the half pay was due to kick in.

So he was paid for a full year, but only work for 6 months each year. This went on for years and as far as I know he's still there, doing the same.

He majored the condition he had that is officially a disability and threatened to throw the book at them. Weak management too. Funny how he was suddenly well enough to work for the 6 months of the year he wouldn't have been paid in full for.

Still makes my blood boil to this day.