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To wonder how on earth they will sentence a 96 year old?!

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dreamer24 · 28/09/2024 22:52

news.sky.com/story/woman-96-admits-causing-death-of-pedestrian-after-she-panicked-and-mounted-the-kerb-13204265

A 96 year old woman killed a woman in her 70s after she lost control of her car. Due to be sentenced on Monday, apparently. It's obviously completely tragic that a woman has died, but I can't imagine a woman who is almost 100 will get a custodial sentence?

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snowmichael · 29/09/2024 21:14

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 28/09/2024 23:06

Where do we draw the line though? Who gets to decide when people are 'too old' to be in possession of a driving licence? And what age should people have to give it up? 70? 75? 80? 85? I know plenty of younger drivers who are poor drivers - and dangerous, and who need their licence taking off them. Conversely, I know plenty of over 75s who are really good safe drivers. Including a few people in their 90s.

We can't just have a blanket rule that says pensioners should stop driving! It's a lifeline for many, being independent with their car, and most are good, safe drivers If over 70s need to re-test every 2-3 years say, then so should everyone else.

Sad for this woman who died of course, and the story is tragic. The 96 y.o. woman can't go to jail, and it's ridiculous for anyone to say she should. But to say all elderly folk should be re-tested every few years (and no-one else should) is just ludicrous.

Of course she can go to jail
By her actions she killed someone
Her age is irrelevant (Justice is blind, remember)

It would be very easy for insurance companies to consult their actuarial tables and find out at what age drivers become involved in more collisions, set the retest age at that and then every 3 or 5 years thereafter

Although as you correctly pointed out, many young drivers are terrible. Maybe everyone should be retested every five years?

Dogsbreath7 · 29/09/2024 21:18

Saschka · 28/09/2024 23:18

Nobody is saying there should be a blanket ban on pensioners driving. Just that they should retake their test.

If they are safe to drive, there’s no problem. If they aren’t, better to find that out in a test and not when they plow into a child on a zebra crossing.

I’d have no issue with everyone retaking every 5 years regardless of age, if that makes you feel happier. I don’t think nervous 25 year olds who won’t go above 40 or overtake on a motorway should be driving either.

I would add nervous drivers of any age or the numpties who think they are saving fuel. Country roads round here so speed limit 60 and on windy roads 50 is still comfortable yet we have people driving 8 miles to nearest town at 35 miles per hour driving slower than the village speed limits of 40mph. And they NEVER pull over to let other cars pass.

On M5 yesterday and everything was calm most people sticking to 70mph and on the inside lane- sudden big braking because of a tosser driving at 50mph. There should be as much focus on these people as there is on the ones doing extreme speeding.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 21:32

KnittingPattern · 29/09/2024 20:27

The graph in my previous post (government figures) would suggest that the decline starts in the 70s rather than the 60s.

No. The graph shows you’re more likely to be hurt if you’re in a car accident as you age, like you’re more likely to be hurt falling on the pavement the older you are.

It doesn’t show older people are more likely to CAUSE casualties.

I support the idea that the elderly should have to have some sort of evaluation and monitoring process to ensure their safety on the road, but this graph doesn’t prove what you’re trying to claim it does.

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 21:36

snowmichael · 29/09/2024 21:14

Of course she can go to jail
By her actions she killed someone
Her age is irrelevant (Justice is blind, remember)

It would be very easy for insurance companies to consult their actuarial tables and find out at what age drivers become involved in more collisions, set the retest age at that and then every 3 or 5 years thereafter

Although as you correctly pointed out, many young drivers are terrible. Maybe everyone should be retested every five years?

Maybe everyone should be retested every five years?

Who will pay for this?

How long will wait times be?

Will you been suspended from driving every 5 years until it was passed again?

How would this impact people who drive for a living when they struggle to get driving tests booked?

How many driving tests would need to be provided daily to ensure everyone could continue to drive?

BIossomtoes · 29/09/2024 21:39

Dogsbreath7 · 29/09/2024 21:18

I would add nervous drivers of any age or the numpties who think they are saving fuel. Country roads round here so speed limit 60 and on windy roads 50 is still comfortable yet we have people driving 8 miles to nearest town at 35 miles per hour driving slower than the village speed limits of 40mph. And they NEVER pull over to let other cars pass.

On M5 yesterday and everything was calm most people sticking to 70mph and on the inside lane- sudden big braking because of a tosser driving at 50mph. There should be as much focus on these people as there is on the ones doing extreme speeding.

If you did 50 on some of the roads round here you’d have a suicide wish. We have a dual carriageway with a 40 limit and a stretch of the A1 which is 60.

Somanypiessolittletime · 29/09/2024 21:53

CassandraWebb · 29/09/2024 13:18

And for disabled people surely? I mean we have lots of elderly people saying they shouldn't be subject to the same scrutiny I am under as a disabled person with a medical licence. Surely that flips both ways.

Yes. Of course 🙂

ThistleTits · 29/09/2024 22:19

@80sballetgirl was it a traffic offence?

Monkey1z · 29/09/2024 22:31

drivers 'no more dangerous' www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-37292951 Numbers

so, the numbers for the UK are crunched here and don’t justify sweeping changes. The picture is likely to improve a little as, as I mentioned previously, skill level isn’t just attributable to age related cognitive or physical change, it’s related to lifetime experience. There’s been a generation of women who are second drivers due to one car ownership and drive more once they lose a spouse. Lifetime experience is a protecting factor and women are now more likely to own and drive their own car.

KnittingPattern · 29/09/2024 23:05

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 21:32

No. The graph shows you’re more likely to be hurt if you’re in a car accident as you age, like you’re more likely to be hurt falling on the pavement the older you are.

It doesn’t show older people are more likely to CAUSE casualties.

I support the idea that the elderly should have to have some sort of evaluation and monitoring process to ensure their safety on the road, but this graph doesn’t prove what you’re trying to claim it does.

Are you saying you believe there is no decline in abilities which affect driving from 70 upwards and that all the increase shown in that graph is due to increased frailty in an accident?

I take it you haven’t looked at the rest of the data on that page?

GreenTeaLikesMe · 29/09/2024 23:30

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 21:36

Maybe everyone should be retested every five years?

Who will pay for this?

How long will wait times be?

Will you been suspended from driving every 5 years until it was passed again?

How would this impact people who drive for a living when they struggle to get driving tests booked?

How many driving tests would need to be provided daily to ensure everyone could continue to drive?

A previous poster suggested the Spanish system, whereby you have to do a test of your faculties and do a simulated driving test with a simulation machine. Would be feasible and would not add to the waitlist times for a real driving test place.

As for "who should pay for this"--frankly, the driver should pay for this. Most people of 75 or over are not working, meaning that almost all have the choice of giving up the car and doing a mixture of public transport and taxis, so driving is a choice and they should pay for the cost of the test, which probably would not be very much, certainly far cheaper than a driving test.

Weekendsonly · 30/09/2024 00:01

PeepDeBeaul · 29/09/2024 19:41

Since you obviously have experience in this situation, how did you get your elderly isolated relative who relies on their car to give up driving?

Using guilt and FOG to get what you want doesn't work...ever. Your response is full of both of those. I need practical advice, not guilt trips and emotional blackmail.

I’m not trying to use guilt to make you do anything actually. You had said you were decided on doing nothing and I wasn’t expecting to change that decision.

I was just stating what I’d personally do -ie. Report to relevant authority and agreeing with the previous posters in pointing out the flaw in your logic about “no kids on the road”.

And also I was wondering if you had a troubled relationship with your mum if you thought she would end things with you over reporting it to DVLA or whoever to have a look? I think this would be an extreme reaction from a parent which is why I asked.

Rachie1973 · 30/09/2024 00:07

People have the idea that prison is simply about punishment. It’s not.

The idea is to rehabilitate and protect society from offenders.

Would putting this woman in prison protect the public? I can’t imagine she would present a huge risk to anyone else so long as she doesn’t drive anymore.

Can she be rehabilitated? Does she need to be? Is she feeling guilt and horror at her own actions?

TENSsion · 30/09/2024 06:21

KnittingPattern · 29/09/2024 23:05

Are you saying you believe there is no decline in abilities which affect driving from 70 upwards and that all the increase shown in that graph is due to increased frailty in an accident?

I take it you haven’t looked at the rest of the data on that page?

I take it you didn’t read the rest of my post.

Somanypiessolittletime · 30/09/2024 06:21

Well it's also a deterrent. If people aren't sent to prison because they're elderly when they commit their dangerous driving crimes then there is nothing to prevent other elderly people driving when they shouldn't be.

TENSsion · 30/09/2024 06:26

KnittingPattern · 29/09/2024 23:05

Are you saying you believe there is no decline in abilities which affect driving from 70 upwards and that all the increase shown in that graph is due to increased frailty in an accident?

I take it you haven’t looked at the rest of the data on that page?

And I’m happy to look at any graphs or data you have on the matter.

I’m just pointing out that what you have inferred from the one you posted is not a correct interpretation of the data.

MoveToParis · 30/09/2024 06:29

SockFluffInTheBath · 28/09/2024 23:03

There must have been people around the driver who knew she was unsafe and did not stop her. They’re equally guilty.

No they aren’t.

Monkey1z · 30/09/2024 06:39

again - link to some data. Is age a factor behind the wheel? https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-46916429

(1) The magnitude of this ‘problem’ is not sufficient to justify whole sale retesting (2) age and simulated tests are poor predictors of likelihood to have an accident (3) driving is a multi faceted skill set so pulling out a test that predicts likelihood to have an accident is challenging; medical issues like sight aside (4) we already have a system for safeguarding based on health and the ability to report anonymously (5) age related changes are characterised by variability; there is insufficient uniformity to justify identifying a cut off (6) there is a balance of harm to be had; policies that overreach and take drivers off the road prematurely cause other issues.

you can’t create a risk free, fail safe system. Yes, it’s terrible when someone is severely injured or killed but look at data, not anecdata.

Older person driving

Older drivers: Is age a factor behind the wheel?

As the number of over-90s with driving licences continues to rise in the UK, are there any safety fears?

https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-46916429

laraitopbanana · 30/09/2024 07:07

Completelyjo · 29/09/2024 18:47

@laraitopbanana You can’t stop people needing to drive

You literally can stop someone though.

No you can’t stop them needing to drive hence the support somewhere is needed.

Completelyjo · 30/09/2024 07:15

laraitopbanana · 30/09/2024 07:07

No you can’t stop them needing to drive hence the support somewhere is needed.

If someone isn’t fit to drive then they shouldn’t, no amount of “support” is good enough to address the safety element.

Should younger people be “supported” by free driving lessons because they also “need” to drive? Or is it just older people who are allowed to be a hazard.

Ukrainebaby23 · 30/09/2024 07:31

dreamer24 · 28/09/2024 23:03

I had similar thoughts tbh. I wouldn't be driving at that age, that's for sure.

If you were in your right mind, you'd have probably given up, but sometimes our minds play tricks on us and we think we are ok when we are not. Perhaps she refuses to give up driving and thars why they are proceeding with prosecution.

Also, driving, for alot of people, equals independence, not wanting to give up independence is what keeps people going to an older age.

KnittingPattern · 30/09/2024 07:33

TENSsion · 30/09/2024 06:26

And I’m happy to look at any graphs or data you have on the matter.

I’m just pointing out that what you have inferred from the one you posted is not a correct interpretation of the data.

Fair enough. You are correct.

Rewis · 30/09/2024 07:35

TENSsion · 29/09/2024 21:36

Maybe everyone should be retested every five years?

Who will pay for this?

How long will wait times be?

Will you been suspended from driving every 5 years until it was passed again?

How would this impact people who drive for a living when they struggle to get driving tests booked?

How many driving tests would need to be provided daily to ensure everyone could continue to drive?

I can only talk what it was like in my mother's case in our home country. We don't have driving test yet. Only doctors note.

The driver Pays. Private GP offer standardised drivers licence renewal tests. As for the queues. When you make an institutional change it requires initial investments for equipment and staff.

The doctors note depends on the private hospital offerings in your area. Could be a day could be two weeks. The queue for driving tests are currently 4 weeks. Only paper renewal the queue is few weeks and then another few weeks for the new licence to arrive. If the driving test would become mandatory I'm sure driving schools would invest in more simulators. Would be a good business.

If you don't pass the doctors test then I'm not sure what happens but I'm sure it is case by case if you can have a redo or not. But if your cognitive abilities are impared at 85, I can't imagine you come back in 5 years. Where as if you have something temporary then you can come back.

AW24 · 30/09/2024 07:50

XenoBitch · 28/09/2024 23:01

Her age should not mean the sentence is more lenient. If she was a serial killer, she would not have a suspended sentence due to her age.
A suspended sentence in this case would be due to other factors.

A serial killer murder with intention.
This was an accident, could've been prevented by intervention from other people, aren't you supposed to take regular driving tests once over a certain age? Family should have respectfully removed keys ...
If the driver went against all of the above then yes, custodial sentence, the chances are tho she wasn't of sound mind at 96 as your mind also deteriorates as well s as reaction times.

tempname1234 · 30/09/2024 09:27

Personally, I think it is pure selfishness to be driving at that age. They KNOW their reflexes are slow. I cannot believe the stupid statement that the accelerator ideal just fell under her foot and she panicked. They don’t just fall - you apply pressure with your gout to make the car accelerate. Clearly she forgot that

I agree, there should be set ages to retake driving test, theory test and me story sight test

does not have to be all at once, spread over years that theory test is retaken, then a few years later retake driving test and then annual or biannual sight test Heck, even discount fee for the tests (perhaps they pay abc get refunded upon passing to encourage going and passing).

licences should expire at a set age so the tests are required. Thrrrfire if they don’t have a valid licence, they can’t drive. Can’t register the car, so no tax paid so it can trigger the getting ticketed is towed away as an untaxed vehicle. Serious repercussion for not keeping their licence up to date

also, she can volunteer at a charity shop or library in her wheelchair. He could go volunteer work at any charity that man’s a call centre as that only means answering a phone and talking

her age should not mean she gets no form of punishment for her killing another person and injuring others.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 30/09/2024 09:36

"Pedal application errors" are the no. 1 cause of serious accidents among elderly drivers. I also think that that excuse was a load of bollocks. She stepped on the wrong thing.