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To think this ring has been changed

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Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 00:41

Long story short.. I was left a sapphire and diamond ring, I think the diamonds are original but family have a feeling a certain family member has swapped out the sapphire. I’ve cleaned it as best as I can and am able to shine a light from underneath which makes the gem shine green/blueish and appear murky. From above with no light the gem is very dark/almost black
wondering if anyone on here would be able to identify if this is fake or the original? There seems to have been some lighter blue stripes appear where I’ve maybe scraped the dirt from underneath (in first image) a little harder?

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CurlewKate · 28/09/2024 07:23

Sounds like there's a back story here-and for the sake of a second hand sapphire I wouldn't go there, honestly.

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:38

GRex · 28/09/2024 05:53

That stone is old, in what decade is the family member suspected of swapping it, and why? It isn't a big stone, so purchase price new might be around £450. It would cost say £50 to swap it, but you would expect the claws might show damage and the new stone wouldn't be dirty. The stone looks like sapphire but a jeweller would need to confirm, so I'm not sure there's any possible profit in the swap.

I think "family" need to find a new reason to dislike whoever this hapless family member is.

If you look closely there’s actually 4 out of 6 damaged claws
unfortunately this family member did take and pawn the rest of the passed away family members’ expensive jewellery due to addiction so that’s why there is suspicioun

I also don’t think it’s been swapped as there would be no point in finding a fake of the same size and shape when the whole ring could be sold

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GRex · 28/09/2024 07:39

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:38

If you look closely there’s actually 4 out of 6 damaged claws
unfortunately this family member did take and pawn the rest of the passed away family members’ expensive jewellery due to addiction so that’s why there is suspicioun

I also don’t think it’s been swapped as there would be no point in finding a fake of the same size and shape when the whole ring could be sold

With that background, yeah you'd eclectic them to do the whole ring, which might be twice the price of just the sapphire.

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:40

MarkingBad · 28/09/2024 02:28

Sapphire is the second hardest substances we know of so if it is a genuine stone you will not have caused any lines or other scratches. Only diamond is harder than sapphire. If the ring is cleaned and the stone genuine the lines would disappear.

One of the quickest home tests that needs no equipment is to breath on it until it fogs. It will defog in 1-2 seconds no more than that if it is genuine.

If you can get a magnifying glass you can check for inclusions, natural stones have inclusions but some may be tiny so an average magnifying glass may not pick it up so it could look clear if it is a fantastic stone with the tiniests of inclusions, that would be unlikely. If there are airbubbles it is not a sapphire either.

I agree with the PP about asking a jeweller. I would suggest a traditional independant jeweller to look or a lapidarist if you have any in the local area, its not a popular past time in the UK. An independant jeweller will be more knowledgeable about vintage and antique cuts, different gemstones, and settings and could tell you if it has been reset more than most high street chains.

I’ve cleaned it up properly now and the lines are still there and the stone appears more clear and green/blue
The lines seem to be inside the stone so I’m assuming they’re just a part of it, maybe I didn’t notice before because of the dirt
however, there are scratches on the surface of the stone

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Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:44

TheSandgroper · 28/09/2024 06:30

Clean as mentioned above and it will look a lot better. I came on to say that a Pikster (a bottle brush for your teeth) is really useful at getting in and around the diamonds.

I have cleaned it now 😌 didn’t think of the water flosser though, spent ages getting in the gaps with a toothbrush ffs

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Ineffable23 · 28/09/2024 07:47

Wow that's looking lovely now OP! I think you can see more of a blue colour now it's clean?

TheSandgroper · 28/09/2024 07:47

@Ondonotdisturb It looks lovely.

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 28/09/2024 07:53

That's beautiful OP and coming at this from the other side I've spent my life working in criminal justice, I've seen addicts pawn sentimental things, sell them, steal them, defraud vulnerable family members and strangers, rob their employer, the local corner shop but in all honesty if they were going to make money from that ring they would've just sold it, it's worth more as a whole than the stone alone, they've pawned the rest of the jewellery so don't care about it being known, they would want quick money but it's a lot of hassle to cover something up which earned them less money than the pawn shop would've.
I think it's the original stone

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:56

Ineffable23 · 28/09/2024 07:47

Wow that's looking lovely now OP! I think you can see more of a blue colour now it's clean?

Thank you, it’s still very dark but I think that’s just how it was originally? Either that or there’s still some dirt stuck under the setting
either way I can definitely see more green and blue now

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Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:56

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 28/09/2024 07:53

That's beautiful OP and coming at this from the other side I've spent my life working in criminal justice, I've seen addicts pawn sentimental things, sell them, steal them, defraud vulnerable family members and strangers, rob their employer, the local corner shop but in all honesty if they were going to make money from that ring they would've just sold it, it's worth more as a whole than the stone alone, they've pawned the rest of the jewellery so don't care about it being known, they would want quick money but it's a lot of hassle to cover something up which earned them less money than the pawn shop would've.
I think it's the original stone

You are right and this was my thoughts too

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YesIamahippie81 · 28/09/2024 08:09

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 00:41

Long story short.. I was left a sapphire and diamond ring, I think the diamonds are original but family have a feeling a certain family member has swapped out the sapphire. I’ve cleaned it as best as I can and am able to shine a light from underneath which makes the gem shine green/blueish and appear murky. From above with no light the gem is very dark/almost black
wondering if anyone on here would be able to identify if this is fake or the original? There seems to have been some lighter blue stripes appear where I’ve maybe scraped the dirt from underneath (in first image) a little harder?

Until you get to a jewellery expert, there's an app called rock identifier that you take a pic of the stone and it will tell you what it is...maybe worth a check

nottaotter · 28/09/2024 08:09

It looks like a beautiful ring. It may be valuable, Sapphires often are more costly than Diamonds. It generally depends on if it has been heat treated or not, also the supply is more limited than Diamonds so that can put the value up.

I would get at least two valuations.

Aysegull · 28/09/2024 08:19

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 28/09/2024 07:53

That's beautiful OP and coming at this from the other side I've spent my life working in criminal justice, I've seen addicts pawn sentimental things, sell them, steal them, defraud vulnerable family members and strangers, rob their employer, the local corner shop but in all honesty if they were going to make money from that ring they would've just sold it, it's worth more as a whole than the stone alone, they've pawned the rest of the jewellery so don't care about it being known, they would want quick money but it's a lot of hassle to cover something up which earned them less money than the pawn shop would've.
I think it's the original stone

Agree with this. If they’ve pawned other jewellery, why did they not pawn the whole ring rather than go through the effort and stress of changing the stone. It makes no sense.

LadyPoison · 28/09/2024 08:24

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 07:56

Thank you, it’s still very dark but I think that’s just how it was originally? Either that or there’s still some dirt stuck under the setting
either way I can definitely see more green and blue now

That does look a lot better! Gemstones need light to be able to pass through them to sparkle and all that dirt was in the way!

Sapphires come in a very wide range of colours. I saw some gorgeous pink ones yesterday and I have some yellow ones I need to set.

I would still get it checked by a jeweller as you’ve said the claws are damaged. They can check the setting is still secure and confirm what the centre stone is. It’s quite hard to scratch a sapphire which is one reason they are popular in engagement rings. The rock app isn’t going to help here. You need good light and a loupe.

Is it hallmarked? If it is, that can give you a load of information. Take a picture on your phone and zoom in.

mitogoshigg · 28/09/2024 08:24

@nottaotter

Unfortunately second hand jewellery has very low value, having just had to value for probate it was quite upsetting how a lifetime's collection of expensive jewellery was only worth a few thousand when the owner thought it was worth many times that when alive

nottaotter · 28/09/2024 08:31

@mitogoshigg ahh thats such a shame, yes I agree mostly it does.

However with some stones they can hold value especially if they are not heat treated (Rubies, sapphires). Stones of a decent size and clarity are harder to find in Sri Lanka as mining is such a big industry there.

BarbaraHoward · 28/09/2024 08:32

That's beautiful now it's clean OP, gorgeous ring and I don't usually love that particular style.

My engagement ring is a ruby, which is a red sapphire. They're more prone to inclusions than diamonds, when mine is clean (Blush) you can easily see what looks like a large crack inside the stone with the naked eye. Just a feature of the stone, and our budget at the time!

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 08:35

LadyPoison · 28/09/2024 08:24

That does look a lot better! Gemstones need light to be able to pass through them to sparkle and all that dirt was in the way!

Sapphires come in a very wide range of colours. I saw some gorgeous pink ones yesterday and I have some yellow ones I need to set.

I would still get it checked by a jeweller as you’ve said the claws are damaged. They can check the setting is still secure and confirm what the centre stone is. It’s quite hard to scratch a sapphire which is one reason they are popular in engagement rings. The rock app isn’t going to help here. You need good light and a loupe.

Is it hallmarked? If it is, that can give you a load of information. Take a picture on your phone and zoom in.

Yes it is hallmarked, I will attach photos but Mumsnet ruins the quality.
the hallmark says 7599 AJW

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Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 08:37

LadyPoison · 28/09/2024 08:24

That does look a lot better! Gemstones need light to be able to pass through them to sparkle and all that dirt was in the way!

Sapphires come in a very wide range of colours. I saw some gorgeous pink ones yesterday and I have some yellow ones I need to set.

I would still get it checked by a jeweller as you’ve said the claws are damaged. They can check the setting is still secure and confirm what the centre stone is. It’s quite hard to scratch a sapphire which is one reason they are popular in engagement rings. The rock app isn’t going to help here. You need good light and a loupe.

Is it hallmarked? If it is, that can give you a load of information. Take a picture on your phone and zoom in.

Sorry, up side down

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Gardendiary · 28/09/2024 08:41

YourLoudLilacGuide · 28/09/2024 01:12

It’s so dirty that it looks like it’s been set in the ring for a long time. That’s multiple years of buildup.

If a jeweller had switched the stones they would have polished it- and they wouldn’t have put in a dirty stone.

I think this is the original stone. The claws etc don’t appear to be new and the grade of sapphire is in keeping with the grade of the rest of the ring

I agree with this. It all looks to be in keeping and of a similar age. To replace it with something exactly the same size wouldn’t actually be that easy and you’d need a skilled jeweler so it would be unlikely to be worth the pay off. In the scheme of things a sapphire from a ring like that would be unlikely to be particularly valuable and unless done for sentimental reasons I can’t see it being worth anyone’s time to swap.

Mt563 · 28/09/2024 08:51

Honestly, the ring looks a good age and worn, I'm not surprised a few claws are damaged and there are some scratches on the stone, seems like fairly normal wear and tear if it's actually been worn and possibly not taken to a jewellers regularly.

Ondonotdisturb · 28/09/2024 08:55

In the sun this morning

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YellowphantGrey · 28/09/2024 08:58

AJW will be the maker of the wrong but I don't know what 7599 is. 750 is 18 karat gold and 833 is 20 karat gold

Any other markings on there?

OhTediosity · 28/09/2024 09:03

As others have said you need to have it appraised by a jeweller but a natural sapphire has a hardness on the Mohs scale of 9 and is unlikely to be scratched by cleaning. The lines that you can see may be inclusions in the natural stone. A gemologist would be able to tell if it has been heat-treated; unheated large natural stones can be more valuable.

Cherrysoup · 28/09/2024 09:04

I took a ring my great aunt/godmother left, just wanted to know if the rubies were real. I chose an old independent jeweller who had a look and kindly gave a free valuation and verified that the rubies are real. I’ve used them to replace a stone in another ring and I’m taking them an almost identical sapphire ring to yours to repair, my engagement ring, shame it’s too big to wear. It was made much bigger for me when I got it, no idea if they can shrink it!