ok I have a friend that I think may never speak to me again, as I told her I thought she was being irisponsable (sp?). Right this friend phoned me yesterday, asking if I knew anyone with any kittens, as she wanted one, an aquaintance of mine has some, so I said i'd give her a ring and find out. The aquaintance said yes she had one, which would be ready tuesday, friend said could she pick it up yesterday, which she did. I had a text earlier saying did I know of anyone that would like a kitten as she has changed her mind and now doesnt want it, as it had an accident last nite,(poor thing didnt know where the litter tray was), it kept her awake meowing and wont sit on her knee. I said she needed to give it a couple of days to settle in, she said she would put it in the shed if she had to listen to it tonite. I said I thought she was being irasponsable, and that she shouldnt have got it. Next thing I know shes saying she doesnt want to see me anymore as I dont understand her. am I being unreasonable to tell her what I thought? I thought honesty was the best policy!