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Told I can’t use this premium bonds money for our house deposit as it’s illegal?

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kiav · 27/09/2024 11:19

We have two premium bonds accounts. One is in my name and one is in DD’s name. We have 50k in mine and 30k in DD’s.

we are now in a position to buy a home. We will need the 50k for a deposit and we also need the 30k for things like stamp duty, new sofa, to do a small bit of work that needs doing in the downstairs etc.

I have been told by a friend it’s illegal to use Dd’s 30k for this? This is money we have saved from our income but now our circumstances have changed we need it. Surely premium bonds should tell you this before you invest??

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llamali · 27/09/2024 20:56

I'm now thinking if parents are just using it as an extra tax free savings account and using the money to buy houses etc they should just do away with them

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 27/09/2024 20:56

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:25

It was her (the parent) money to begin with

To begin with yes but not after it was given to the child. Would you expect to reclaim a gift you freely gave to a friend?

Cobblersorchard · 27/09/2024 20:59

TeenToTwenties · 27/09/2024 11:31

You should never put money in to your child's name you might want to access. You can always have an account and mentally designate it for the child without effectively giving them the money.

It may well be possible to cash in the bonds and access the money but the OP would do well not to save in her child's name in future.

Actually it’s not always the best advice. I have put money in an account in DD’s name so it is not marital money and cannot be included in a divorce.

I had money in my own name at 18 (in the region of £50k some decades ago) as my dad wanted it to go to me. I managed it entirely properly and bought a house at 22.

mrsm43s · 27/09/2024 21:03

If the money belongs to you, then you were committing tax evasion by putting it in you DDs name. This is a crime.

If the money belongs to your DD, then you are stealing her winnings from her each month If you are having them paid into your account, and if you use the money for your expenses such as stamp duty for a house not in her name or buying yourself furniture then you are also stealing her capital. Stealing your childs money is a crime.

So which is it? Your money or her money?

(You absolutely have the ability to legally withdraw her money from her PB account as her responsible person, but her money has to be managed in her best interests. Paying for your sofa or your stamp duty bill is obviously not in her best interests!)

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 21:08

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 27/09/2024 20:56

To begin with yes but not after it was given to the child. Would you expect to reclaim a gift you freely gave to a friend?

lol you can’t compare this to gifting a friend…. Actually that comparison is BS

Mia85 · 27/09/2024 21:15

Yes because the presumption of advancement applies to transfers to your minor children, but not to friends. It is much more difficult to argue that it is not a gift to your children than friends.
Of course your child is less likely to be able to object.

LarkspurLane · 27/09/2024 21:36

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 27/09/2024 20:56

To begin with yes but not after it was given to the child. Would you expect to reclaim a gift you freely gave to a friend?

If the friend was going to live in the house, it might not be that unreasonable.

MrsSunshine2b · 27/09/2024 21:42

LarkspurLane · 27/09/2024 21:36

If the friend was going to live in the house, it might not be that unreasonable.

If they had no stake in ownership of the house, that would be pretty unreasonable.

neepsa · 27/09/2024 21:42

ThisOldThang · 27/09/2024 11:26

I really don't understand the way some people respond to these threads.

Just cash in the Premium Bonds. Transfer the money into your account and use it to buy the house.

This.

mrsm43s · 27/09/2024 22:02

Mamabobogo · 27/09/2024 20:52

I’ve got to say this to you… in the same way you speak to others!

THE ROOF OVER THE CHILDS HEAD WOULD VE THOUGH!!!

GET IT???

No, it wouldn't necessarily. It would go to the joint owner if owned as joint tenants. Otherwise it would go to whomever it was left to in the will.

AmberPanda · 27/09/2024 22:03

sophiasnail · 27/09/2024 19:01

Then you are committing tax fraud. If you have more savings than the £50k personal limit for premium bonds, you should be paying tax on the interest.

Do you understand premium bonds? It’s not interest. It’s winnings.

mrsm43s · 27/09/2024 22:17

AmberPanda · 27/09/2024 22:03

Do you understand premium bonds? It’s not interest. It’s winnings.

Do you understand Premium Bonds?

There's a maximum investment of £50K per person in Premium Bonds, as winnings are paid tax free. If someone holds £80K of their money in premium bonds they are tax evading, even if they nominally put some of their money in someone else's name.

Basically, it's not legal to pretend that some of your money belongs to someone else to gain a tax benefit, which putting it in your child's name, whilst still treating it as if it's yours is doing.

Mamabobogo · 27/09/2024 22:26

llamali · 27/09/2024 20:56

I'm now thinking if parents are just using it as an extra tax free savings account and using the money to buy houses etc they should just do away with them

Including ISAs?

I mean £30,000 in premium bonds must be making a whole heap of difference!

no wonder the country is on its knees!

mrsm43s · 27/09/2024 22:46

Mamabobogo · 27/09/2024 22:26

Including ISAs?

I mean £30,000 in premium bonds must be making a whole heap of difference!

no wonder the country is on its knees!

Yes it's also illegal to put your money for your benefit into someone else's name to get an ISA tax avantage you're not entitled to.

Up to your limit is fine and legal. Any of your money over that (whomever's name irs in) is illegal tax evasion.

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 22:54

A few guidelines

Told I can’t use this premium bonds money for our house deposit as it’s illegal?
stammergreetings · 28/09/2024 02:56

Cobblersorchard · 27/09/2024 20:59

Actually it’s not always the best advice. I have put money in an account in DD’s name so it is not marital money and cannot be included in a divorce.

I had money in my own name at 18 (in the region of £50k some decades ago) as my dad wanted it to go to me. I managed it entirely properly and bought a house at 22.

You know that the divorce settlement can be reopened if that's discovered, right? I know that this is Mumsnet but I'm still surprised that you're opening admitting hiding assets in divorce proceedings and making a false declaration on Form E (which is perjury). Plus of course the fraud when opening the premium bonds account, but that's probably the smallest issue!

Please tell me people get this is illegal?!

kiav · 28/09/2024 07:17

stammergreetings · 28/09/2024 02:56

You know that the divorce settlement can be reopened if that's discovered, right? I know that this is Mumsnet but I'm still surprised that you're opening admitting hiding assets in divorce proceedings and making a false declaration on Form E (which is perjury). Plus of course the fraud when opening the premium bonds account, but that's probably the smallest issue!

Please tell me people get this is illegal?!

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@stammergreetings ….

@Cobblersorchard isn’t even getting divorced or is divorced from her child’s father. Why do so many people struggle with reading on here.

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stammergreetings · 28/09/2024 07:31

kiav · 28/09/2024 07:17

@stammergreetings ….

@Cobblersorchard isn’t even getting divorced or is divorced from her child’s father. Why do so many people struggle with reading on here.

I have put money in an account in DD’s name so it is not marital money and cannot be included in a divorce.

This was in response to:

You should never put money in to your child's name you might want to access.

I don't know @Cobblersorchard personally so I don't know if she has divorced or was just saying she has been arranging her assets in preparation for divorce and is just planning to commit perjury, but hasn't yet done anything but commit fraud when opening the account. I admit I did jump to the former as the explanation, and maybe shouldn't have done but I'm not struggling with reading.

Cobblersorchard · 28/09/2024 08:06

stammergreetings · 28/09/2024 02:56

You know that the divorce settlement can be reopened if that's discovered, right? I know that this is Mumsnet but I'm still surprised that you're opening admitting hiding assets in divorce proceedings and making a false declaration on Form E (which is perjury). Plus of course the fraud when opening the premium bonds account, but that's probably the smallest issue!

Please tell me people get this is illegal?!

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I’m not getting divorced!

The money has always been saved in DD’s account, monthly, since she was born. It has never been a marital asset it has always been hers and my DH is fully aware. It’s a large amount (5 figures).

Should I get divorced (wouldn’t rule it out-everyone in my family is) the money is DD’s and my awful with money DH can’t access it or spend it. He would given half a chance.

My dad saved money for my brother and I in our own names, he and my mum did divorce- but it wasn’t hidden my mum was also well aware of the savings.

I didn’t mention hiding assets, just that it is a consideration to give money directly to children if you wouldn’t want it being included in a future divorce. I will inherit a lot and a big chunk of that that will also go direct to DD if I am married at that point.

stammergreetings · 28/09/2024 08:21

Cobblersorchard · 28/09/2024 08:06

I’m not getting divorced!

The money has always been saved in DD’s account, monthly, since she was born. It has never been a marital asset it has always been hers and my DH is fully aware. It’s a large amount (5 figures).

Should I get divorced (wouldn’t rule it out-everyone in my family is) the money is DD’s and my awful with money DH can’t access it or spend it. He would given half a chance.

My dad saved money for my brother and I in our own names, he and my mum did divorce- but it wasn’t hidden my mum was also well aware of the savings.

I didn’t mention hiding assets, just that it is a consideration to give money directly to children if you wouldn’t want it being included in a future divorce. I will inherit a lot and a big chunk of that that will also go direct to DD if I am married at that point.

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Ok so this is your DD's money, sat in your DD's account and you do not have any intention to use that money for your own purposes? Obviously thats fine but it's completely irrelevant to the post you were responding to which was about what to do if (like this thread) you are saving money for a child, but might want to change your mind later on whether it's actually the child's money.

It's terrible advice to say that a reason to put money you might want to access for your own purposes later into a child's name is to keep it out of divorce proceedings. Which is what you said if you read the post you were disagreeing with.

brightpompoms · 28/09/2024 08:27

Surely you can just take it out of her account and transfer it to yours? You are investing it for her in the house anyway and when you die it'll be hers anyway.

Don't feel bad about. She's five

greentreeseverywhere · 28/09/2024 08:32

We had to use our daughters (not as much as yours £10.000) when she was 5 tomake our house safe after some things happened. We paid it all back and started saving again for her when we could.

llamali · 28/09/2024 08:35

Mamabobogo · 27/09/2024 22:26

Including ISAs?

I mean £30,000 in premium bonds must be making a whole heap of difference!

no wonder the country is on its knees!

A JISA is completely different. You can't get the money out only the child can when they are old enough. Unless they die or are diagnosed with a terminal illness.

PrincessOlga · 28/09/2024 08:48

In my mind, this could be construed as an attempt to "get round" the £50,000 limit. If the money "theoretically" belongs to you, how would you like it if you won a million pounds... then told you were disqualified because you have gone above the limit and YOU are holding £80,000...???

BIossomtoes · 28/09/2024 09:59

PrincessOlga · 28/09/2024 08:48

In my mind, this could be construed as an attempt to "get round" the £50,000 limit. If the money "theoretically" belongs to you, how would you like it if you won a million pounds... then told you were disqualified because you have gone above the limit and YOU are holding £80,000...???

That’s about as likely as me waking up tomorrow and finding I’m 18 again.

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