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Told I can’t use this premium bonds money for our house deposit as it’s illegal?

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kiav · 27/09/2024 11:19

We have two premium bonds accounts. One is in my name and one is in DD’s name. We have 50k in mine and 30k in DD’s.

we are now in a position to buy a home. We will need the 50k for a deposit and we also need the 30k for things like stamp duty, new sofa, to do a small bit of work that needs doing in the downstairs etc.

I have been told by a friend it’s illegal to use Dd’s 30k for this? This is money we have saved from our income but now our circumstances have changed we need it. Surely premium bonds should tell you this before you invest??

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sophiasnail · 27/09/2024 19:03

MooFroo · 27/09/2024 18:46

This

the kid is 5 ffs so it’s the parents money 🥴 good luck with the new house purchase

If it is the parent's money, they should be paying tax on any savings not included in their own £50k premium bond limit.

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:04

We have run this passed solicitors in the past and there are no red flags….. it is all legal

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:05

It’s a frigging loop hole unfortunately or fortunately

sophiasnail · 27/09/2024 19:06

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:02

You are not committing fraud…. The parents are the legal guardian and they can legally do what they want with their money.

They are putting their money into premium bonds in their daughter's name because they have reached their own limit. If the money is not their daughters, then they ARE committing fraud.

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:08

Nope they are allowed to create an account for their daughter however as they are under 16 they are not legally allowed to manage to their money. The parents are so they can do as they wish. It is not fraud

NumberNotRecognised · 27/09/2024 19:11

HaveSomeIntrospect · 27/09/2024 18:41

The maximum amount of premium bonds you can have is £50k. By having your dd’s winnings paid straight into your bank account, it sounds as if you are trying to circumnavigate this £50k maximum to your benefit.

In my opinion, taking her winnings is immoral! You are basically stealing from your child.

Also, I’m sure you can’t cash out her premium bonds anyway, they are in her name until she is 18 and chooses what she wants to do with them. I think all premium bonds for minors should have their winnings paid back into their premium bond account.

Good grief. The OP is not stealing and IS spending the money for the benefit of her child - to put a secure roof over her head for the rest of her childhood and so she doesn’t have to constantly move house (and possibly school) at the whim of a landlord while renting!

She will benefit from that for the next 15-20 years probably by which time the OP may well be close to paying off any mortgage so may downsize when the DC leave home and give her money for a deposit of a home of her own or leave it as an inheritance. The money is still there, just tied up in a house.

It was the OP’s decision to put it in the child’s name and her circumstances mean she now needs it for the benefit of the family. From a morality standpoint, I might have a different view if it was savings from a grandparent etc, or the child was a teenager and knew about it, but it’s not. If the OP hadn’t put it in the child’s name it would be the OP’s money.

TunnocksOrDeath · 27/09/2024 19:15

tigger1001 · 27/09/2024 12:54

What tax?

Premium bond winnings are tax free. And even if they weren't - income generated from investments of the parents in the name of minor children are taxed on the parent, unless under £100 a year.

The maximum allowed for an individual is 50k of PBs, but the OP currently regards themselves as having beneficial ownership of 80k of PBs.
By parking the extra £30k which they obviously regard as still actually their own in an account which in their DD's name, the OP has left themselves open to accusations of having done that for the purposes of exploiting the tax-free nature of that specific account, else why not just put the 30k in a cash savings account in their own name, receive interest and pay the tax on it ?

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 27/09/2024 19:22

People often talk about putting a house or money or whatever 'in someone else's name', but there is no such thing. If your adult son or daughter's name is on the deeds of the family home, it is their house to do what they like with. Same with money put into a bank account or premium bonds - they belong to the child, not to you. You might get away with moving the money into your own account and using it for yourself, since you are the custodian of their money, , but best not give it to the child in the first place if you need it for yourself.

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 27/09/2024 19:23

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:08

Nope they are allowed to create an account for their daughter however as they are under 16 they are not legally allowed to manage to their money. The parents are so they can do as they wish. It is not fraud

Managing someone else's money is not the same as owning that money.

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:25

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:02

You are not committing fraud…. The parents are the legal guardian and they can legally do what they want with their money.

No they can't. They've agreed to manage it for the child's benefit. They can't go and spend it all on beer for instance.

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:25

SoNiceToComeHomeTo · 27/09/2024 19:23

Managing someone else's money is not the same as owning that money.

It was her (the parent) money to begin with

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:26

LivelyBlake · 27/09/2024 18:51

Is this correct? (posted above?) NS&I say: "Any Bonds bought and any prizes paid in relation to them will belong to the child. The parent or guardian will have responsibility for managing the Bonds and any prizes paid for the child’s benefit.

Yes. It's copied from their customer agreement that everyone who takes out premium bonds says they have read and understood

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:27

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:25

No they can't. They've agreed to manage it for the child's benefit. They can't go and spend it all on beer for instance.

Questionable on spending it on beer lol

but definitely legal if the mother wants to spend it on prosecco

now morally I’d prefer the house buying option

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:27

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:25

It was her (the parent) money to begin with

As soon as you give it to someone else it is no longer your money

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:27

I’m afraid as the legal guardian, you control the money….

kaos2 · 27/09/2024 19:28

Just cash them in then it's cash ..

Presumably you put it in her name as you had the maximum amount

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:29

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:27

I’m afraid as the legal guardian, you control the money….

Yes I'm not denying that

Pippa246 · 27/09/2024 19:30

ThisOldThang · 27/09/2024 11:26

I really don't understand the way some people respond to these threads.

Just cash in the Premium Bonds. Transfer the money into your account and use it to buy the house.

Me too! I remember a thread about a family literally about to be made homeless and the poster wanted to use some of her toddler son’s savings as a deposit for a rental- people telling her how awful she was and that it was “morally wrong” as the money was in his name. I mean FFS, they were being put out onto the street!

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:34

Pippa246 · 27/09/2024 19:30

Me too! I remember a thread about a family literally about to be made homeless and the poster wanted to use some of her toddler son’s savings as a deposit for a rental- people telling her how awful she was and that it was “morally wrong” as the money was in his name. I mean FFS, they were being put out onto the street!

I know but some people are mixing up what is morally right and what is legally right and it just winds me up how stupid they are.

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:37

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:29

Yes I'm not denying that

so having legal control means you have the power to do whatever with the money regardless of what you think benefits the child or not based on your opinion

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:39

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:37

so having legal control means you have the power to do whatever with the money regardless of what you think benefits the child or not based on your opinion

No you don't because you agreed to legal terms and conditions when taking out the financial product. If people don't understand what they are agreeing to they shouldn't be ticking boxes saying they do

Mamabobogo · 27/09/2024 19:41

doodleschnoodle · 27/09/2024 16:46

I can't believe this is still going.

You can object morally all you want, but the way PB has been set up allows a parent full control of the account and that includes withdrawing the money to their own account with no further oversight or restrictions of where it goes. You aren't asked why, you aren't asked to show it's going into another account of your child's, you can withdraw it to your own account in seconds and that's that 🤷‍♀️ I've withdrawn money which I have put into their JISAs but I could equally have kept it in my own account and that would be that.

You can put all the hypothetical scenarios you like into the mix about children suing their parents or whatever, but it was OP's money she put in, not that of a third party, and it is being withdrawn for family expenses after buying a house. There's no feasible ramifications, so it's a purely moral and ethical discussion.

The voice of reason 👏

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:42

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:39

No you don't because you agreed to legal terms and conditions when taking out the financial product. If people don't understand what they are agreeing to they shouldn't be ticking boxes saying they do

What on earth are you talking about? You clearly don’t have premium bonds for your own children? You are making stuff up? Oh my god

Lincslady53 · 27/09/2024 19:42

kiav · 27/09/2024 11:24

I just think it’s crazy as it’s obviously money we have tried to save for her but our circumstances as a family have now changed

It's about tax evasion. You are only allowed to put a max of £50k into premium bonds as the winnings are free of income tax.

llamali · 27/09/2024 19:42

Cantbelieveit888 · 27/09/2024 19:42

What on earth are you talking about? You clearly don’t have premium bonds for your own children? You are making stuff up? Oh my god

Yes I do.