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To think this is unprofessional in a Pilates class?

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MsMonday · 19/09/2024 09:43

I attend Reformer Pilates regularly, and in my class yesterday, my instructor kept telling me to look at “Bridget” (another student) for guidance during certain exercises. She said it a couple of times when coming over to help me, instead of giving me direct instruction.

It felt like I was being compared to Bridget, which I found off-putting. I go to these classes expecting personalised guidance from the instructor, not to be told to look at another student. I’m fit and active, and I do other sports as well, so it felt a bit frustrating to not receive direct feedback.

AIBU to feel this comparison is unprofessional, and should I stop attending these classes?

OP posts:
Polyp0 · 26/09/2024 22:23

EtiquetteLady · 25/09/2024 16:09

Wow. Did you really think this was so important it warranted a post on social media? You have too much time on your hands, and you are very touchy.

🤣 The irony!

Justanothermum42 · 28/09/2024 20:01

This is so
off-putting. I’d give them that feedback and find another class. My instructor always comes to me and makes the changes/show me how it should be done.

OVienna · 29/09/2024 15:53

@Polyp0 Right?!

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