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To get frustrated over pity errors my colleague makes

133 replies

hungrybwcat · 18/09/2024 16:47

I work in a very small team of 2 plus our boss. We all WFH. My colleague is paid a London wage (she mentioned hers without me asking) which is over £10,000 more thank I get.

She makes a lot of silly mistakes. For example she replied to a forwarded email so the recipient of her reply did not include the original sender who had sent to query and needed the answer to which she replied and she wondered why the issue was outstanding. Another example - she does not check her work thoroughly so once (a lot of the times!) something went out with a mistake which was later returned and we had to correct it.

Our boss doesn’t get involved usually so quite often these errors and corrections are made without getting noticed.

However I feel like telling my boss she did this and that and I picked it and rectified it etc. but I don’t. It’s too pity. At the same time I feel disheartened because I get paid much less. For the context I did ask for a pay review based on my performance and my management agreed I am a high performer but the company as a whole only had a certain amount in the pot and none of us got more than inflation.

AIBU to feel like telling my boss my colleague has made a pity error?

OP posts:
ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 23/09/2024 13:51

I pity you for making the petty error in your first post, OP. Perhaps you could make a pithy reply to this thread and justify your opinion on why you want to put your colleague down. 😆😂

Kitkat1523 · 23/09/2024 13:52

This is a wind up right? 🤣

LBFseBrom · 23/09/2024 14:22

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 18/09/2024 16:49

I don't understand what "it's too pity" means. Petty? Or you pity her?
I would leave it. Sooner or later this slapdash behaviour will catch up with her.

That.

Op your boss may be more aware of what goes on than you think.

You will advance in your career in time, one way or another, but telling tales for something short of, eg bullying or stealing, is just not on - and bosses don't like it.

If things don't improve you can always look for a better job.

TheLittleOldWomanWhoShrinks · 23/09/2024 14:24

I was wondering what a pity error was. Pitying someone who doesn't merit it? Or making mistakes because you are so busy fretting about someone's plight? Or making deliberate mistakes because you feel sorry for someone who makes still more? Wondering if that's it, given the OP?

BashfulClam · 23/09/2024 14:32

NetDesMamans1 · 23/09/2024 11:10

If you say 'pity' in a Scottish accent it sounds like 'petty'.

No it doesn’t? Certainly not in any of the ones I know. Which particular Scottish accents as there are hundreds of variations? In my west coast accent both words sound different.

tuvamoodyson · 23/09/2024 14:47

Hoisted by your own leotard OP.

Alconleigh · 23/09/2024 15:56

tuvamoodyson · 23/09/2024 14:47

Hoisted by your own leotard OP.

This has finished me off. I love this thread.

NetDesMamans1 · 23/09/2024 20:33

I've always thought that this was the case. But I’m not Scottish and shouldn’t have said anything!

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