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DS aged 3.9 is stood on our gate …

211 replies

indurently · 17/09/2024 13:29

He’s looking at cars, tractors and so on. We live on a country road. I’m pushing his sister on a swing.

And a couple just walked by and told me he shouldn’t be on the gate.

Racking my brains somewhat as to what we have done wrong!

OP posts:
JacquelineShit · 17/09/2024 18:48

Racking my brains somewhat as to what we have done wrong!

You wouldn't have to rack your brains if you'd asked them why?

ReadingSoManyThreads · 17/09/2024 18:49

Nocheezesforusmeeses · 17/09/2024 18:45

It’s less than 4 and more than 3.

You don’t need to understand it beyond that. Although now you’ve had explained to you extensively, I hope you have grasped some understanding of it.

Was there really a need to be so rude?

First to write a comment on a missed apostrophe 🙄
Then to state I didn't need to understand it beyond that, if that's the case, why type it in the first place? The OP made it clear she was trying to show age because being closer to 4 is different to being closer to 3 when speaking of younger children, which I completely agree with. Your comments are just beyond rude.

ETA - I had actually thought you were being helpful when you pointed out the missed apostrophe, hence why I kindly thanked you. Obviously now, I know you were being deliberately rude.

ExquisiteEmelda · 17/09/2024 18:52

Silence!!!
The decimal winds me up too but I wouldn’t be so rude as to say it 😆

ErrolTheDragon · 17/09/2024 19:01

Or 3yrs 11mths, how is that written?

It's usually written as 'nearly 4', IME.

ErrolTheDragon · 17/09/2024 19:02

ExquisiteEmelda · 17/09/2024 18:52

Silence!!!
The decimal winds me up too but I wouldn’t be so rude as to say it 😆

Duodecimal. (Maths pedant)

Nocheezesforusmeeses · 17/09/2024 19:02

ReadingSoManyThreads · 17/09/2024 18:49

Was there really a need to be so rude?

First to write a comment on a missed apostrophe 🙄
Then to state I didn't need to understand it beyond that, if that's the case, why type it in the first place? The OP made it clear she was trying to show age because being closer to 4 is different to being closer to 3 when speaking of younger children, which I completely agree with. Your comments are just beyond rude.

ETA - I had actually thought you were being helpful when you pointed out the missed apostrophe, hence why I kindly thanked you. Obviously now, I know you were being deliberately rude.

Edited

I’m being about as helpful as you are, I would say. And as rude too!

bergamotorange · 17/09/2024 19:08

gapattachment · 17/09/2024 14:23

0.9 of a year is 10.8 months.

They were probably just trying to be helpful since you clearly weren't aware that what he was doing would damage the gate.

It is widely understood to mean 3 years 9 months.

(Almost) no one divides a year by ten.

SherbetSweeties · 17/09/2024 19:16

jen337 · 17/09/2024 15:10

Doubt the weight of a 3 year old could damage the structural integrity that much.

I agree

herecomesautumn · 17/09/2024 19:28

LeafHunter · 17/09/2024 14:27

It’s very common on MN to say 3.9 (for example) as 3years 9 months. I’ve seen our health visitor do the same so although it might be different ro what you’re used to, it’s entirely normal.

Is it?

biscuitandcake · 17/09/2024 19:52

ReadingSoManyThreads · 17/09/2024 18:22

So tell me how 3yrs, 10mths is written in this decimal form that is annoyingly common on MN? Or 3yrs 11mths, how is that written?

It's so frustrating to see it in so many posts because there are 12 months in a year, not 10, so using decimals does not work!!

Someone says, my son is 3.5 - do they mean 3.5yrs old or do they mean this weird decimal point age that actually, no, they're not 3.5yrs, they are 3yrs 5mths. It's so ridiculous and doesn't make sense.

As for your HV doing it - that doesn't surprise me in the slightest, they're not exactly known for being the sharpest tools in the box.

Ideas here:

I am not saying I agree it should be used for everything. But it makes absolute sense to use it when expressing ages in years. And people do use it like that a lot-even if they wouldn't describe it as the dozenal system, that's what they are doing and everyone understands what they mean. The people saying it's wrong are the wrong ones.

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bergamotorange · 17/09/2024 20:06

herecomesautumn · 17/09/2024 19:28

Is it?

Yep, pretty common.

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