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A 9 hour day not too long?

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itsalwaysthesame · 17/09/2024 08:55

Hi, I'm looking to compress my working week to 4 days from 5. In order to do so I'd be working 9-6pm, my job is hybrid so I am always home for school pick up, currently meant to finish at 4pm but I never do, it's always around 5-6pm

Friends and work colleagues are saying it's too much of a long day and my manager won't approve it, I've been in the role a year, others for over 10 years, maybe they have a point? Mimi don't think 9 hour day X 4 a week is too long?

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Sugarplummama · 17/09/2024 20:26

That’s a normal working day. I’d say anything from 7-9 is normal. I’ve done 8:30-5:30 basically for the last 13 years.

Sugarplummama · 17/09/2024 20:27

Also you’re entitled to a break so you’re talking 8 hours at work a day, very very very normal really

Sandandsea123 · 17/09/2024 20:38

😂😂😂😂 9 hours isn’t a long day!! I do 630am - 4 or 5, 5 days a week… I’m 30 weeks pregnant and it’s absolutely fine.

Bellyblueboy · 17/09/2024 20:41

😂 9-6 is not a long day - surely it’s pretty standard. When I go into the office I work 9 - 6:30.

from home I work 8am to around 6pm.

I always check emails for around half an hour in the evening.

Boredlass · 17/09/2024 20:45

I work a 10 hour shift 4 days a week in a physical job. It’s fine

thesoundofmucas · 17/09/2024 20:46

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Didimum · 17/09/2024 20:47

sunsetsandboardwalks · 17/09/2024 20:23

Did you miss where OP is a carer in the community? They can't just not have someone show up on the fifth day, so I'm sure they'd be able to argue that a) existing employees can't take on any extra work and b) clients need continuity of care so hiring one person for one day's worth of visits isn't going to work out.

This is my mother’s job. There is no continuity of care anyway and no they can’t argue that. They can attempt to, but it would not hold up.

Thekormachameleon · 17/09/2024 20:48

I work 12 hour shifts so 9 seems like a breeze

Dazedandconfusedma · 17/09/2024 20:48

9-6 is a normal day in my office. You’ll be fine

ObliviousCoalmine · 17/09/2024 20:49

I do 8-6, 8-6, 8-8 and 8-1. Gives me 1.5 days off a week. Works brilliantly.

ObliviousCoalmine · 17/09/2024 20:50

storminabuttercup · 17/09/2024 08:58

I do 8-6 four days, it's fine, I get loads done once everyone logs off at 5 and leaves me alone 😀

Yes also this. 8-9am and 5-6 (or 5-8 on weds) are really productive hours because nobody is actively bothering me.

CoastalCalm · 17/09/2024 20:52

I do compressed hours into 4 days but work at home so easier - tomorrow is no work Wednesday

Ethylred · 17/09/2024 20:54

thereiscustardinthejamtart · 17/09/2024 09:02

It probably depends on what you do.

I normally start work at 8 and finish some time between 6 and 9, so a 9 hour day doesn’t sound bad to me at all. (Not working today, before someone comments 😅).

For me it’s an hour of planning and delegation, then 9-5 is pretty much back to back meetings, then 5 onwards is actioning everything that came out of the calls.

"Actioning"? And murdering the English language.

PlayDadiFreyr · 17/09/2024 21:00

Catza · 17/09/2024 15:20

Yeah, and they have no right to do that. If they are declining, they need to provide a business case in writing. They need to demonstrate how agreeing to this will negatively impact on their organisation from the operational perspective. Hypothetical scenarios or vague comments about "too long a day" are not a valid reason.

Yes, my work's business policy makes vague aspersions against compressed hours, but when pressed by my line manager, they begrudgingly approved it.

I do opt to do one hour in the evening of my "off" day so that I hit the ground running on Tuesdays, and can take a long lunch one day, but I've been pleasantly surprised how easy it's been.

Swiftyvonlifty · 17/09/2024 21:09

I used to do 8.45 to 6.15, it was fine. 5 days a week.

My husband does Mon-Fri 7.30 to 5.30/6 most days or until 8pm a few times every 6 weeks. He doesn't get a lunch break. He also works at home. He's tired but ok.

Gogogo12345 · 17/09/2024 21:18

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Was meant to say pregnant not of . What's wrong with working on your feet at 6 months anyway She has no problem with it. Had promotion since last baby so more office time this time doing paperwork

And yeah I was working as a care assistant for the elderly when pregnant with my 2 eldest. Up to 38/39 weeks each time.

Carsarelife · 17/09/2024 21:19

I work 7-6pm so 11 hour days 4x a week. 42 hours total as have 30 min lunch each day I always feel free hours are super long

Decisionsdecisions43 · 17/09/2024 21:20

9 hours is really no problem. It may take some adjusting around family life and expectations if people are used to having you around.
It’s not a race to the bottom but I generally do a 12hr day 5 days a week for about 9 months of the year. Although last week I worked 50hrs in 3 days. Absolutely exhausted!! Three primary age kids at home too…

NC1001001 · 17/09/2024 21:23

I do 9-6 with an hour for lunch. Worth it to get a four day week in for me.

NC1001001 · 17/09/2024 21:24

Sorry that’s 8-6 so 36 hours a week.

Hoverfly1 · 17/09/2024 21:26

For me it depends. I do a mixture of field work with paid travel and office days in my job and the field days tend to be quite long but pass really quickly, I work 9/10+ hours those days without it feeling like a long day. Desk based days absolutely drag by, I have a headache by lunch time and I’m counting down the minutes until 5pm, I would really struggle with and extra hour of it 4 days a week! So I guess it really depends how much you like your job!

Flossyts · 17/09/2024 21:30

my manager would approve it, but it’s a long slog to do every day. I reduced my hours to 90% then compressed the rest into 4. because higher rate tax and still paying student loan the reduction didn’t really reduce take home pay very much (certainly offset by not needing nursery and after school clubs that day).

Only did 1 epic longer day rather than have all 4 days slightly longer though as otherwise it was too depressing. I do less now as my husband earns more.

Saschka · 17/09/2024 21:34

Spomb · 17/09/2024 09:08

Our regular hours are 0800-1800 every day! On some jobs we were allowed to compress hours and do a 4 1/2 day week or 9 day fortnight.

Ours too. And we get paid for breaks (because we don’t actually get proper breaks) so that’s ten hours of paid work.

thesoundofmucas · 17/09/2024 21:37

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 17/09/2024 21:38

itsalwaysthesame · 17/09/2024 14:06

Wow thanks for all the replies!

Lots to put forward to my manager, I work in the community doing home visits so I work my appointments around school time, I take the legally required 30 minute break to collect child from school then work the rest of the day at home, that's what I'm going to suggest,

I worked 14-15 hour shifts when I worked as a domiciliary career but we had 2-4 hours breaks in between am & pm shifts. I work in the civil service so there is a lot of flexibility but no one in my team works more than 7.5 hours a day.

That means you won't be taking your break until after you've completed six hours.

I don't think they'll approve that if it's made obvious that's what you're intending to do.