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To think acknowledging this member of staff and saying thank you takes seconds. What would you have done?

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sandrapinchedmysandwich · 15/09/2024 14:08

I am at a large train station in the waiting room and a member of staff has just come in to let people know of a general change of timetable and a replacement bus service for one of the main services. He did this as a general announcement and not one person acknowledged him. Afterwards he kind of stood there a bit awkwardly before leaving. So not to drip feed he appeared to be at least partially blind and perhaps couldn't see people well. Most people here are on their own and not many have ear buds /headphones on as far as I can see so being engrossed in conversation or not hearing him isn't relevant to most

I just think it doesn't hurt to say thank you. A couple of people got up to leave after this in the direction of where the bus would be departing from so looks like this was at least helpful for them.

Would you expect people to say thank you / acknowledge you in this situation or would you expect to be ignored? I know we don't thank airline staff when they do the safety demo either so maybe saying thank you isn't the done thing. But when he stood there awkwardly afterwards, saying thank you just felt like what should happen.

Edit. I did thank him. I was the only one who did

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Riapia · 15/09/2024 18:05

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@thatlastonereally

If only you had been there to tell him
“you’ve been thanked, don’t just stand around, now fuck off. “

thatlastonereally · 15/09/2024 18:53

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VestPantsandSocks · 15/09/2024 19:07

Mountainpika · 15/09/2024 15:04

So people who are doing the job he was they are being paid to do don't deserve any thanks?
Never?
Hmmmm......

I stand by my comment.

Recently, I went to a conference and we were asked to clap for the coach driver 'for being a great driver and getting us there safely'.

Really - isn't that their job?!
Ok - thank you for not crashing!!

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 15/09/2024 19:12

VestPantsandSocks · 15/09/2024 19:07

I stand by my comment.

Recently, I went to a conference and we were asked to clap for the coach driver 'for being a great driver and getting us there safely'.

Really - isn't that their job?!
Ok - thank you for not crashing!!

I wouldn't clap either. But I would say thank you to the driver as I got off the coach

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Mountainpika · 15/09/2024 19:38

VestPantsandSocks · 15/09/2024 19:07

I stand by my comment.

Recently, I went to a conference and we were asked to clap for the coach driver 'for being a great driver and getting us there safely'.

Really - isn't that their job?!
Ok - thank you for not crashing!!

Did you thank him as you got off?

VestPantsandSocks · 15/09/2024 20:12

Mountainpika · 15/09/2024 19:38

Did you thank him as you got off?

No - I already showed my appreciation by clapping!

However, on the return, there was no instruction to clap so I did thank the driver.

Demonhunter · 15/09/2024 21:22

VestPantsandSocks · 15/09/2024 20:12

No - I already showed my appreciation by clapping!

However, on the return, there was no instruction to clap so I did thank the driver.

Standing Ovation Applause GIF by Film Independent Spirit Awards

I didn't think you'd say you actually clapped 🤣🤣

VestPantsandSocks · 16/09/2024 09:53

Contrary to popular opinion, I am actually a very polite person who says please and thank you in virtually every sentence!

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