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to believe Lady Starmer should pay for her own clothes and personal stylists?

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LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 11:11

https://news.sky.com/story/starmer-faces-investigation-over-possible-breach-of-parliamentary-rules-after-labour-donor-pays-for-wifes-clothes-13215216

And Keir Starmer should have paid himself for his 'several pairs of glasses' and £19K worth of work clothes? On top of that there was £20K for accommodation for Sir Keir and another 'similar sum' on 'private office' costs.

Purely by coincidence, it seems the donor was given a Downing Street security pass allowing easy access to the corridors of power without any role in government.

And yes, Carrie and Boris Johnson should have paid for their wallpaper and hampers too, that is just as sleazy.

Sir Keir Starmer faces investigation over possible breach of parliamentary rules after Labour donor 'pays for wife's clothes'

A Labour peer paid for a personal shopper, clothes and alterations for Lady Starmer, both before and after the Labour leader became prime minister in July, according to The Sunday Times. But Labour said they have contacted authorities over the matter.

https://news.sky.com/story/starmer-faces-investigation-over-possible-breach-of-parliamentary-rules-after-labour-donor-pays-for-wifes-clothes-13215216

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JudgeJ · 15/09/2024 13:52

I thought they were meant to be different from the Tories.

Bless! I would suggest you look into some of the Labour politicians during the 60s and even later! The reason that more is made of what the Conservatives do/did is that the left wing media make sure which lot get the most publicity. All the negative publicity about 'partygate' was immense where as 'beergate', ie Labour doing exactly the same, was brushed under the carpet.

LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:35

HeySummerWhereAreYou · 15/09/2024 11:42

I have to disagree... I know a couple of people who are very close to me, who have youtube channels and they have 10s of 1000s of fans/subscribers. Actually 70,000 to 80,000 subscribers. And they are able to send them gifts.

The one has got a 'Throne Wishlist' and has had something like £5000 worth of gifts sent to them just this last couple of months ... If people are donating things and giving things, and it's not affecting anyone else. I don't see a problem with it.

Starmer's wife has had this given by a donator. Can't see the problem.

Freebies for influencers/Youtubers from their fans are very different to freebies from political donors, especially if they are not declared correctly or declared late. Donors have the ability to use their preferential access to press for favours. How exactly did the donor get his security pass to Number 10 - who approved it, and why?

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LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:37

PixieMcGraw · 15/09/2024 12:13

In the last five years, Starmer has accepted £76,000 of freebies including clothes, glasses, sport tickets etc. It has all been declared afaik but it definitely leaves a bad taste. In my last job in the public sector I wasn't allowed to take anything other than token gifts (pens, diary etc).
He's very well paid. It's a terrible look. Especially when we are all being told to expect more pain.

Yes. There is a difference between donations to a political party, and donations to personal politicians. Both are quite dodgy, but the former are much easier to scrutinise. Personal donations are far more open to abuse.

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LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:42

ThinWomansBrain · 15/09/2024 12:32

Also pretty disgusting that he is apparently paying legal advice on what and what not to declare - why not disclose anything that is conceivably a gift.

Where did you see this? I sincerely hope that his legal advice isn't funded by the taxpayer.

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LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:47

Birdscratch · 15/09/2024 13:01

I’m completely happy with a donor providing a “business” wardrobe for them both as long as it’s declared.

They’re under scrutiny, particularly her, by people like oddandelsewhere saying ‘her clothes are inappropriate ( flutter sleeves) and extremely cheap looking.’

The alternative is you only have PMs with massive inherited wealth - or those who marry into it like Rishi Sunak.

As Leader of the Opposition, Sir Keir earned around £144K per year.

Even ignoring Lady Victoria's salary entirely, do you really think that a household earning £144K per year cannot afford to buy nice clothes?

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LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:51

Birdscratch · 15/09/2024 13:06

The security pass is definitely more of a concern but I think it’s a can of worms the Conservatives will regret opening. Somewhere right now there are journalists searching through records to see exactly who was given access to number 10 in the last decade.

Yes, if the Tories gave out security passes to donors (as I'm sure they did) they need to be held to account too.

It doesn't mean it's OK for Starmer - especially as he painted himself as Sir Clean Hands KC, the man who (correctly) excoriated Boris Johnson for having donors pay for his wallpaper, and who called on Rishi Sunak to resign for bringing a birthday cake to the office.

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LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:54

Buildingthefuture · 15/09/2024 13:11

YANBU. Those “with the broadest shoulders” should buy their own fucking clothes!l
Kier Starmer is going to deliver a god awful budget in a few weeks and he’s going to do it wearing glasses and clothes that someone else paid for? If he cannot fathom how utterly hypocritical that is, he has no business trying to run the country.
All of them are a shower of self absorbed, self serving twats. I despair!!!

Haha, a brilliant take on it.

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Dreamingofgoldfinchlane · 15/09/2024 15:11

Buildingthefuture · 15/09/2024 13:11

YANBU. Those “with the broadest shoulders” should buy their own fucking clothes!l
Kier Starmer is going to deliver a god awful budget in a few weeks and he’s going to do it wearing glasses and clothes that someone else paid for? If he cannot fathom how utterly hypocritical that is, he has no business trying to run the country.
All of them are a shower of self absorbed, self serving twats. I despair!!!

Lammy's response is priceless - Starmer was essentially 'forced' to take donor's gifts because there's no taxpayer funding for clothes. How in hell does he think the 95% of the population not on Starmer's astronomical salary manage to clothe themselves. Unbelievably out of touch with reality.

Rummly · 15/09/2024 15:33

Dreamingofgoldfinchlane · 15/09/2024 15:11

Lammy's response is priceless - Starmer was essentially 'forced' to take donor's gifts because there's no taxpayer funding for clothes. How in hell does he think the 95% of the population not on Starmer's astronomical salary manage to clothe themselves. Unbelievably out of touch with reality.

It seems Lammy misled the nation in his answers too. He said that, in contrast to the UK, the US First Lady gets public money for clothing.

Apparently not:

https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/entertainthis/2014/06/02/first-ladys-clothes-cost-how-much/77297460/

I am very happy to accept that Mr Lammy was badly briefed or was genuinely mistaken.

USA TODAY

It costs to look great as first lady. And she pays most of it.

https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/entertainthis/2014/06/02/first-ladys-clothes-cost-how-much/77297460

EasternStandard · 15/09/2024 15:58

Rummly · 15/09/2024 15:33

It seems Lammy misled the nation in his answers too. He said that, in contrast to the UK, the US First Lady gets public money for clothing.

Apparently not:

https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/entertainthis/2014/06/02/first-ladys-clothes-cost-how-much/77297460/

I am very happy to accept that Mr Lammy was badly briefed or was genuinely mistaken.

I'm not sure Lammy deserves that extra grace and understanding

This made me laugh though

YANBU. Those “with the broadest shoulders” should buy their own fucking clothes!l
Kier Starmer is going to deliver a god awful budget in a few weeks and he’s going to do it wearing glasses and clothes that someone else paid for? If he cannot fathom how utterly hypocritical that is, he has no business trying to run the country.
All of them are a shower of self absorbed, self serving twats. I despair!!!

Birdscratch · 15/09/2024 16:11

LargeDeviation · 15/09/2024 14:47

As Leader of the Opposition, Sir Keir earned around £144K per year.

Even ignoring Lady Victoria's salary entirely, do you really think that a household earning £144K per year cannot afford to buy nice clothes?

When you’re talking about dresses costing several thousand pounds for state occasions then, yes, anyone who didn’t inherit their wealth would struggle.

Papyrophile · 15/09/2024 16:14

Sam Cam has her own business. It makes clothes for people in public life and senior jobs. Not everyone wears a Tesco polo shirt to work.

Birdscratch · 15/09/2024 16:16

If you read the USA today article linked it says of Michelle Obama, ‘She doesn't borrow gowns from designers but sometimes accepts them as gifts to the nation, as she did the dramatic blue Carolina Herrera gown she wore in February to the state dinner for France.’ It also says that no taxpayer’s money is used for her clothes but says nothing about political donations.

Abitofalark · 15/09/2024 16:16

PandoraSox · 15/09/2024 12:59

Fair enough re: the reputable sources. It is all still rumour though. Nothing concrete.

If Starmer and Reeves did do it, it would be monumentally stupid of them. People in England would lose the 25% discount. Not so the rest of the UK. Wales has already committed to keeping the discount (it is reviewing the Welsh CT system) and I bet Scotland is the same (am assuming it has the discount too). Not sure about NI system.

Which is why I think it is a rumour and won't happen. Let's see what the budget brings.

NI doesn't have the council tax system of GB.
It has domestic rates based on the property value. The rates applied to the property value comprise a regional rate that is set by Stormont each year and a district rate that is set by each local council each year.

PandoraSox · 15/09/2024 16:19

Abitofalark · 15/09/2024 16:16

NI doesn't have the council tax system of GB.
It has domestic rates based on the property value. The rates applied to the property value comprise a regional rate that is set by Stormont each year and a district rate that is set by each local council each year.

Thanks, that is interesting to know.

Portakalkedi · 15/09/2024 16:28

They are lying scumbags and I can't believe anyone was daft enough to think that Labour would act any differently to the Tory Party they (and most of MN) have been slagging off all these years. It applies to almost all politicians I should think.

Rummly · 15/09/2024 16:33

Birdscratch · 15/09/2024 16:16

If you read the USA today article linked it says of Michelle Obama, ‘She doesn't borrow gowns from designers but sometimes accepts them as gifts to the nation, as she did the dramatic blue Carolina Herrera gown she wore in February to the state dinner for France.’ It also says that no taxpayer’s money is used for her clothes but says nothing about political donations.

Ok, but David Lammy said that substantial sums are paid by the US for the President’s and First Lady’s clothes, so their clothes can’t be “challenged”, whatever that means.

He was justifying private donation to the Starmers by contrast to public payment in the US.

ElBandito · 15/09/2024 16:50

On the day after the election there was a whole thread on here about how she had got herself a reasonably priced dress because she's only on NHS salary.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 15/09/2024 16:59

TeamPolin · 15/09/2024 12:26

Her day job is working in the NHS. If she needs outfits for state events she's attending in. her capacity as 'first lady' then I'm OK with that, tbh. I'm sure Sam Cam etc have done the same in the past.

Actually they didn’t. Cherie Bliar made big fuss about having to spend thousands of her own money on clothes when accompanying her husband, and Samantha Cameron hired designer outfits on many occasions rather than buy, or beg from party donors. Starmers £76odd thousand of gifts accepted is the highest of all MPs.

EasternStandard · 15/09/2024 17:02

Tryingtokeepgoing · 15/09/2024 16:59

Actually they didn’t. Cherie Bliar made big fuss about having to spend thousands of her own money on clothes when accompanying her husband, and Samantha Cameron hired designer outfits on many occasions rather than buy, or beg from party donors. Starmers £76odd thousand of gifts accepted is the highest of all MPs.

What was he thinking?

'Difficult decisions', 'pain', 'broadest shoulders'

And that expense

Tryingtokeepgoing · 15/09/2024 17:04

BIossomtoes · 15/09/2024 12:42

I remember the last Labour government vividly. And it wasn’t like this.

Well, it sort of was. Mandleson had to resign twice!!

Buildingthefuture · 15/09/2024 17:05

@Birdscratch well then perhaps they should do what the rest of us do and literally and figuratively “cut our cloth”.
I’ve been looking for a new winter coat this weekend. A lovely one popped up on my FB feed. But it was £10k and a Valentino. Since I have no value to lord whathisface, I’m fairly certain no one is going to be buying that for me. And nor should they.
The Starmers should buy what THEY can afford, like the rest of us do. And, let’s face it, they aren’t skint!
That hypocrital asshole is going to batter so many of us with tax rises. And the attitude of so many is well “ you can afford it”. And the Starmers can’t? The only difference is the Starmers can and clearly are happy to offset the hit HIS family might take, with freebies for the all the nice shit from wealthy donors. He needs to have a think about how broad his own shoulders are!

MySocksAreDotty · 15/09/2024 17:06

Disappointed Labour voter here. Don't know why politicians need to accept gifts like this.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 15/09/2024 17:07

EasternStandard · 15/09/2024 17:02

What was he thinking?

'Difficult decisions', 'pain', 'broadest shoulders'

And that expense

He was thinking what all left of centre types in power think; “the rules don’t apply to me. We are always right - don’t question us. We know best. You don’t understand” 🤣🤣🤣

ApolloandDaphne · 15/09/2024 17:08

MySocksAreDotty · 15/09/2024 17:06

Disappointed Labour voter here. Don't know why politicians need to accept gifts like this.

I don't know either. My DH works in financial services and he can't accept anything. He is offered loads of great days out but has to turn them all down.