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To correct the teacher's spelling?

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Dany0909 · 10/09/2024 22:35

I'm a year 4 TA in a primary school. This year I have a new class and a new teacher.
She's an ok teacher in general, I've definitely worked with better.

Yesterday, she handed out the spelling list and had spelt one of the words wrong. I pointed it out to her privately as I didn't want parents to notice and she got in a huff. She didn't believe me and checked the spelling online before changing it.

Just today, she misspelt three subject-specific words that I'm sure she has been teaching for years so I was surprised she didn't know them. The kids copied them off the board incorrectly but I felt too uncomfortable to say anything.
I'm not going to specify the words so this post doesn't give me away just in case.

Anyway, I'm not really sure what to do. It's annoying because obviously the kids are learning incorrect spellings from her, but at the same time I don't really want to annoy the teacher. I'm not sure if she's dyslexic but surely if you knew you were then you would double check the information you're asking children to copy down. She's not overly nice or welcoming towards me so not sure how to approach it. Should I just leave it???

OP posts:
vix3rd · 16/09/2024 10:15

Kingoftheroad · 11/09/2024 02:56

She’s putting you in a horrible position with her incompetence. It’s very important to learn to spell correctly at this age.

In the 1970’s in Scotland some schools adopted a teaching method designed by Pitman called ITA. The whole method was never completed from start to finish with any pupil, as it was an absolute disaster.

The principal, If I remember correctly was to teach the way the words sounded with odd formations thrown in.

There are people that I know cannot spell properly to this day and feel very angry about it.

I know about this because we found my Aunt's jotter while clearing out my grandparents house.
Caused us great hilarity & forever talking about bow naras instead of Bow & Arrows.

abs12 · 16/09/2024 10:32

Haha I'm totally struggling with this thread because where I come from 'spellings' is not a real thing, it would in fact be considered incorrect. It is simply 'spelling' in my hood. I'm not picking, it's just a comedic mind fuck for me 🤪

MeowCatPleaseMeowBack · 16/09/2024 12:29

Dany0909 · 15/09/2024 20:43

Update: Thank you for all your replies. I don't talk to the head about it as honestly I don't want that sort of drama at work. I'm in my final year of a primary education degree so I only work Mondays and Tuesdays with this class, the rest of my week is spent at university. I haven't seen her since this was posted. I spoke with my tutor who advised me to subtly correct the spellings on the board when the children aren't looking and to not make a big deal out of it.

That's really awful advice from your tutor. Not only is it nigh on impossible for you to write on the board without children AND the teacher noticing but if you did miraculously get away with it, the teacher will learn nothing and make the same mistakes year on year.

BIGPA · 16/09/2024 15:49

Bet you proof-read the hell out of this before posting OP 😂

ICantLogIn · 16/09/2024 15:55

rubeexcube · 11/09/2024 00:19

My DS's teacher used the word "brang" in an all class email once.

There should be a CACKLE WITH LAUGHTER response emoji. The THANKS one doesn't cut it.

LaerealSilverhand · 16/09/2024 16:08

We had a head who decided that 'headmaster' was not grand enough and re-branded himself as a 'principle'. Yes, with that spelling. Including on the slides for the new parents information sessions. Luckily we were all far too polite to say anything but he didn't last very long.

Wishbone436 · 16/09/2024 17:08

My son’s teacher regularly spells things incorrectly, including his name! It drives me crazy

greengreyblue · 16/09/2024 17:11

LaerealSilverhand · 16/09/2024 16:08

We had a head who decided that 'headmaster' was not grand enough and re-branded himself as a 'principle'. Yes, with that spelling. Including on the slides for the new parents information sessions. Luckily we were all far too polite to say anything but he didn't last very long.

Omg

SelMarin · 16/09/2024 18:47

LaerealSilverhand · 16/09/2024 16:08

We had a head who decided that 'headmaster' was not grand enough and re-branded himself as a 'principle'. Yes, with that spelling. Including on the slides for the new parents information sessions. Luckily we were all far too polite to say anything but he didn't last very long.

I'd have withdrawn my child on principal.

LaerealSilverhand · 17/09/2024 09:12

SelMarin · 16/09/2024 18:47

I'd have withdrawn my child on principal.

Well, when you only have one choice of state secondary school that's not really possible for most parents. So parents just hammered the governers and academy management with letter writing campaigns and complaints and eventually the academy chain saw sense and got rid of him.

Luckily his replacement (a headmistress, none of this silly principal nonsense) is very sensible and is undoing all the nonsense he put in place, like ludicrous uniform and compulsory RE GCSE (in an ostensibly non-denominational school).

Montydone · 17/09/2024 09:20

Growlybear83 · 10/09/2024 23:32

Oops - autocorrect knows better than my daughter's teacher. That should have said the teacher corrected 'I should have' to 'I should OF'.

Oh my god, that’s awful!

Montydone · 17/09/2024 09:26

Dany0909 · 10/09/2024 22:35

I'm a year 4 TA in a primary school. This year I have a new class and a new teacher.
She's an ok teacher in general, I've definitely worked with better.

Yesterday, she handed out the spelling list and had spelt one of the words wrong. I pointed it out to her privately as I didn't want parents to notice and she got in a huff. She didn't believe me and checked the spelling online before changing it.

Just today, she misspelt three subject-specific words that I'm sure she has been teaching for years so I was surprised she didn't know them. The kids copied them off the board incorrectly but I felt too uncomfortable to say anything.
I'm not going to specify the words so this post doesn't give me away just in case.

Anyway, I'm not really sure what to do. It's annoying because obviously the kids are learning incorrect spellings from her, but at the same time I don't really want to annoy the teacher. I'm not sure if she's dyslexic but surely if you knew you were then you would double check the information you're asking children to copy down. She's not overly nice or welcoming towards me so not sure how to approach it. Should I just leave it???

Arghhh this situation would infuriate me so so much.

Of course some people struggle with spelling, but as a teacher one should look up how to spell something if not sure!

This is really unfair on the kids I think and will confuse them in later years when they get corrected for writing the words this way!

I’m not normally a particularly assertive person, but I would definitely let her know gently that the words aren’t spelt like that. You could always soften it with something like, “I always get confused about that one too; I think it’s spelt….”

Then also when you like something that she does, also tell her, “I really liked it when you explained bla bla like that, going to remember that for when I’m a teacher!” so she doesn’t feel too criticised by you (and get defensive)

sashh · 17/09/2024 09:42

oneandonlygreg · 15/09/2024 15:08

Serious consequences 😂.

I worked in Cardiology for my original career, medical homonyms could make serious consequence's.

ileum
ilium

mucus
mucous

peroneal
perineal

vesical
vesicle

Superhansrantowindsor · 17/09/2024 10:17

As a teacher I’d want you to tell me.

sanityisamyth · 17/09/2024 11:14

@sashh consequence's?!

Kingoftheroad · 17/09/2024 12:29

vix3rd · 16/09/2024 10:15

I know about this because we found my Aunt's jotter while clearing out my grandparents house.
Caused us great hilarity & forever talking about bow naras instead of Bow & Arrows.

Honestly, I can’t believe our parents allowed this. On the other hand my Mum would never dared have challenged a teacher. People that I went to school with still struggle with writing and spelling. Some are really angry about it

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 17/09/2024 12:43

SelMarin · 16/09/2024 18:47

I'd have withdrawn my child on principal.

Lolol!

fluffiphlox · 17/09/2024 15:25

sashh · 17/09/2024 09:42

I worked in Cardiology for my original career, medical homonyms could make serious consequence's.

ileum
ilium

mucus
mucous

peroneal
perineal

vesical
vesicle

‘Consequences’ my friend. 😀

FeltCarrot · 17/09/2024 15:57

Seen at Manchester Airport this week! 🤯

To correct the teacher's spelling?
sashh · 18/09/2024 01:30

sanityisamyth · 17/09/2024 11:14

@sashh consequence's?!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhg

I hang my head in shame.

Honourspren · 18/09/2024 05:09

I'd have no issue pointing this out to the teacher tbh.

I am from a different country and my mothertongue is regularly taught in MfL lessons here. I have often corrected the teachers' spelling and grammar on the worksheets my children have brought home.

One of my children got really upset by this as they didn't want to upset their teachers, but unfortunately it came back to bite them in the arse when they were predicted grade 8 in MfL and only landed a 6 in the end, which, I am certain, is at least partially down to the fact their teachers were not well versed enough to spot the many mistakes that they taught in lessons and missed in books,

LilySLE · 18/09/2024 22:57

LightOnInTheGarden · 11/09/2024 06:19

The principal, If I remember correctly was to teach the way the words sounded with odd formations thrown in.

Do you mean ‘principle’ ;-) ? (Sorry!)

I really hope you’re joking… ?! Otherwise you might want to look up “principal” versus “principle”!

WoopsLiza · 18/09/2024 23:16

I think.principle is the right form here, meaning the rule. Principal is.like, the principal of a school. Since we are on.a.thread of SPAG police, I think a vote is in.order. What does everyone reckon - is it principle or principal in the above example?

LightOnInTheGarden · 18/09/2024 23:19

LilySLE · 18/09/2024 22:57

I really hope you’re joking… ?! Otherwise you might want to look up “principal” versus “principle”!

Oh dear. I am not joking.

SelMarin · 19/09/2024 00:43

I remember it by thinking of a try-hard, cool-guy Principal who wants to be your pal.

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