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To correct the teacher's spelling?

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Dany0909 · 10/09/2024 22:35

I'm a year 4 TA in a primary school. This year I have a new class and a new teacher.
She's an ok teacher in general, I've definitely worked with better.

Yesterday, she handed out the spelling list and had spelt one of the words wrong. I pointed it out to her privately as I didn't want parents to notice and she got in a huff. She didn't believe me and checked the spelling online before changing it.

Just today, she misspelt three subject-specific words that I'm sure she has been teaching for years so I was surprised she didn't know them. The kids copied them off the board incorrectly but I felt too uncomfortable to say anything.
I'm not going to specify the words so this post doesn't give me away just in case.

Anyway, I'm not really sure what to do. It's annoying because obviously the kids are learning incorrect spellings from her, but at the same time I don't really want to annoy the teacher. I'm not sure if she's dyslexic but surely if you knew you were then you would double check the information you're asking children to copy down. She's not overly nice or welcoming towards me so not sure how to approach it. Should I just leave it???

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honeylulu · 12/09/2024 19:37

Another memory, this time from my own school days (small private school). One of my classmates had a French mum and they spoke French at home so she was pretty fluent.

In a French lesson at school our teacher taught us various words for fruit and vegetables and on Monday there was a test. It emerged that the word she taught us for "lettuce" was actually a generic word for "salad". Half-French girl put down the correct word for "lettuce". Teacher went ballistic in front of the whole class, shouting at her for being "cocky and showing off" even though she was right. I was only about 9 or 10 and sat there looking at the teacher thinking you are only making yourself look stupid now.

It is a much better look to accept your own mistakes graciously but a lot of people get huffy about it.

Leila7654321 · 12/09/2024 19:38

I remember in primary school correcting my teacher's pronunciation of 'awry'. I'll never forget how furious she was.

Pomegranatecarnage · 12/09/2024 19:52

Many years ago our deputy head observed a year 7 lesson on the correct use of “there, their and they’re”. Two days later he posted on the school website, “Their will be no school today due to snow”. Our Assistant Head uses “are” instead of “our”.

Cel119 · 12/09/2024 20:19

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CustardySergeant · 12/09/2024 20:28

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 12/09/2024 18:56

I’m sorry, @CustardySergeant - it’s nemesis, not nemisis.

I still remember the university tutor who corrected my spelling of Isaiah - I had used the spelling from my Bible. He was adamant that his spelling of the word was the only correct one.

You should be correcting thefamous5 whose post you quoted, not me. It was her post which contained the misspelling of nemesis not mine.

PorridgeEater · 12/09/2024 20:34

You should be able to voice your concerns to the Head. If they're any good they should be concerned too about children being wrongly taught.
It's kinder than parents complaining about the teacher who cannot spell - actually doing the teacher a favour though they may not realise it.

rosesinmygarden · 12/09/2024 20:48

Uselesssil · 11/09/2024 00:48

When my dd was at primary school, she miss-spelled certain words, but this wasn't corrected, until she entered p4, when the words were corrected. I brought this up with her teacher (who was also the deputy head) and was told that they didn’t want to correct spelling in the first 3 years as it (and I kid you not) “spoiled the flow of the pupils work”! I pointed out to the teacher that by allowing her to spell the words wrongly for 3 years without correcting, how on earth did they now expect her to spell the word differently, as the incorrect spelling was cemented in her head. It didn’t go down well and I was probably labelled as being “that mother.”

Another issue my dd had in secondary school, was when a teacher corrected her spelling, with an incorrect spelling. After it happened several times, I did send her jotter back to school marked “incorrect spelling by teacher, word should be spelled @@@@.” He wasn’t happy, but as I told him at parent’s evening, don’t correct a wrongly spelled word, with another wrongly spelled word!

Misspelled. The prefix is mis, not miss.

CaptainMyCaptain · 12/09/2024 21:23

Nanny0gg · 12/09/2024 19:32

Because of being taught things like 'frontal adverbials' and suchlike

I agree. The curriculum is clearly focusing on the wrong things.

HammerTimeNC · 12/09/2024 22:56

I was volunteering in a classroom and the KS2 teacher was telling a boy off in front of the whole class and said to him, "Was you telling the truth?"

DD had the misfortune of having that teacher for two years.

Trishthedish · 13/09/2024 00:45

No. Do not let her get away with it. I know people say spelling doesn’t matter, but it really does. I get very frustrated at seeing educational establishments using incorrect spelling and punctuation. If you need to talk to the head teacher, rather than directly, please do so. After all a maths teacher can’t get away with making one plus one equalling three!

AbraAbraCadabra · 13/09/2024 01:11

Growlybear83 · 10/09/2024 23:32

Oops - autocorrect knows better than my daughter's teacher. That should have said the teacher corrected 'I should have' to 'I should OF'.

Omg that's terrible! Yes I couldn't have left that one!!!!

waltzingparrot · 13/09/2024 02:55

I'd offer to proofread the spelling lists for her.

echt · 13/09/2024 04:20

waltzingparrot · 13/09/2024 02:55

I'd offer to proofread the spelling lists for her.

This.

I taught for 40+ years and was HOD English/Literacy in various places. My spelling and grammar were excellent. The typing not so much.Smile I always asked a trusted colleague to have a look at stuff I'd spent ages on as after a while you just can't see it, and I was always grateful for any interventions.

Having said that, the OP's colleague seems not to think they have a problem.

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JustAnInnocentQuestion · 13/09/2024 10:25

I remember writing about "a Greek god" in primary school and the teaching assistant insisting that "god" should be capitalised. She also said I was wrong for capitalising "Indian" when writing about takeaways. Thanks, Miss Walker!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 13/09/2024 13:30

CustardySergeant · 12/09/2024 20:28

You should be correcting thefamous5 whose post you quoted, not me. It was her post which contained the misspelling of nemesis not mine.

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Massive apologies, @CustardySergeant - I honestly didn’t realise.

SinnerBoy · 14/09/2024 06:14

I'll add an image of a message from my daughter's school yesterday...

Some wag has added to the Whats App Group that the teacher must be a Geordie - we're in Newcastle.

To correct the teacher's spelling?
rosesinmygarden · 14/09/2024 14:22

SinnerBoy · 14/09/2024 06:14

I'll add an image of a message from my daughter's school yesterday...

Some wag has added to the Whats App Group that the teacher must be a Geordie - we're in Newcastle.

Ha ha! Oh dear... 🤣

This is clearly a typo though - not a lack of spelling knowledge.

I memorably once came close to sending a message home to my reception class parents reminding them to send in 'willies' for the nature walk. My lovely TA caught it. I still work with her now and she manages to remind me regularly. 🤣

SinnerBoy · 14/09/2024 16:29

This is clearly a typo though - not a lack of spelling knowledge.

True, but surely a short message should be spelled correctly!

rosesinmygarden · 14/09/2024 18:50

SinnerBoy · 14/09/2024 16:29

This is clearly a typo though - not a lack of spelling knowledge.

True, but surely a short message should be spelled correctly!

Yes, it should. But teachers are humans and small mistakes happen occasionally.

I'd not be concerned by this in the same way I'd be concerned at a teacher teaching incorrect spelling or punctuation to their class. That's completely different.

greengreyblue · 14/09/2024 20:48

Occasional mistakes of course, but I’ve worked with some teachers who are poor spellers in general. Really not on when teaching children.

Pomegranatecarnage · 14/09/2024 21:23

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It wasn’t. He was a former P.E. teacher who had very poor literacy skills.

pollymere · 15/09/2024 03:00

I always used to have a quiet word with the teacher if a word was spelt incorrectly on the board. If she's doing it consistently and ignoring you, you need to talk to the Head of Key Stage.

SelMarin · 15/09/2024 03:06

Growlybear83 · 10/09/2024 23:20

I think it's important that you correct the teacher, or tell the head.

Towards the end of Year 2, my daughter came home from school and was very upset that her teacher had corrected a piece of her work. She had told the teacher that what she had done was incorrect, but was told off for being disrespectful. I looked at her book, and the teacher had crossed out where my daughter had written 'I should have ...' and had changed it to 'I should have ...'. It was the final straw after two dreadful years with an incompetent teacher, and I spent the next day finding another school for my daughter, and then went to see the head to explain why she would be leaving. Children only get one chance with their education, and having a teacher who has a poor command of spelling and grammar isn't acceptable. .

Am I missing something here?