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...to wonder how effective/useful uniforms are at school?

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azert · 08/09/2024 12:23

I'm from a different country, where children wear their normal clothes at school. There have been talks in my country about whether we should make a change and start wearing a uniform, and some trials in certain regions but it never happened on a national level and I doubt it ever will.

I can see some benefits to the uniform for parents: not having to think about how to dress the kids each day, being able to pass uniforms down to younger children etc. But I don't see many children who love their uniform, I feel like they'd rather wear their normal clothes?

The rules around school uniform seem silly sometimes, and strict about things that are truly not going to be distracting to children's learning. On top of that, the cost of buying uniforms seem to be quite high and on top of that parents have to buy clothes for evenings/weekends/summer holidays and half-terms, so it's like buying two full sets of outfits for each child.

As a parent and as a former teacher, I don't believe it actually does what it's supposed to do, as in put every child on the same level and avoid bullying and comparisons between children whose parents earn more or less money. Kids know these things and talk about them whether they wear uniforms or not, in my eyes it's more about teaching them kindness and respect.

If you're a teacher and pro-uniform, what do you think it brings to children? And if you're against it, why is that?

I'm ready to hear all kinds of thoughts as I don't want to be unreasonable to come from the outside and question a whole system that's been in place for decades!

OP posts:
UhHuhHuH · 09/09/2024 21:24

I’m in favour of school uniform. Not the weird kilts and all that no sense, but sensible uniform with the odd logo is absolutely fine with me. I find it hard to think regular clothes would be cheaper.

LuckysDadsHat · 09/09/2024 21:27

mymumwouldntapprove · 09/09/2024 21:17

For those who hate school uniforms, how do you feel about uniforms for groups like Scouts, Guides, Cadets, etc?
are they OK or should they be abolished too?

That is very different in my opinion. They are a real choice to attend. School for a lot of people isn't a choice (not everyone can home school as they have to work full time, or just can't teach children). You are choosing an extra curricular activity knowing there is a uniform. Most people don't actually get to choose the school they are given.

Needmorelego · 09/09/2024 23:14

@mymumwouldntapprove I've never heard of a Scout or Guide being sent home or not allowed to attend sessions if they haven't got the uniform.
Cadets I have no idea - but it's a military style group and anyone who chooses a military activity or career will be accepting of the uniform.
School is different. All children are entitled to an education. The education they get shouldn't be based on the clothes they wear.

JohnofWessex · 09/09/2024 23:24

mymumwouldntapprove · 09/09/2024 21:17

For those who hate school uniforms, how do you feel about uniforms for groups like Scouts, Guides, Cadets, etc?
are they OK or should they be abolished too?

But joining those organisations is a free choice, school is compulsory and youngest son gets quite a nice uniform provided FOC by The Navy for the CCF at school, in fact in terms of quality its streets ahead of his school uniform

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