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How would I be viewed holidaying on my own?

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Slyngel · 06/09/2024 12:04

Hi there,

I'm 67 and single. I retired at 62 and spent three years full-time looking after my mum with Alzhemers' dementia. She died in 2022 at the age of 94. I miss her very much and am having trouble finding a new purpose in life.

I haven't been on holiday since 2016. I don't have anybody to go with but was thinking that a week in the sun in December or January might perk me up a bit and help me through the winter. I was thinking of somewhere like Tenerife.

I was wondering how people in these times view people holidaying on their own. Is it an okay thing to do or is it regarded as strange? Not looking for company specifically, I can cope on my own, but really just wondering how someone like me would be viewed by other holidaymakers on a winter sun beach-type holiday.

I would welcome any advice or views, positive or negative. Thank you.

OP posts:
zingally · 12/09/2024 08:48

I've been on holiday on my own plenty of times - I love it!

People are too busy trying to enjoy their own holiday, than thinking about what strangers are doing.

StoneTheCrone · 13/09/2024 14:24

Gogogo12345 · 12/09/2024 08:43

Yeah and more interested in what they wearing for photos in the destination/ luggage they have that the travel itself lol

Yes, that's a pity.

Dweetfidilove · 13/09/2024 14:31

My mom, married, had a solo holiday and she says it was one of her best week. She just needed a break and sunshine and that's exactly what she had.

She did a week all inclusive - ate, walked, read, slept, shopped and repeat. She enjoyed being on her own time, doing her own thing and came back all rested and re-energised.

Go and enjoy yourrself 😎

Jeezitneverends · 13/09/2024 18:39

Great to hear you’ve booked it-maybe see you there as my December week is booked too!

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